Guys she is a push over.. she been a push over all her life..?

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we live together and work together and she is always there to offer me an extra hand... and at home she takes care of both of us... i don't know if my co-worker is jealous or he is helping me out.. he wants me to help her be less of a push over... I know she doesn't feel this way because she loves me and she is very determine to think we are going to have a future together... and she keeps bring up how we should get married... I wounder if she will change how she treats me after we get married and I am kind of involve in a long distance cheating relationship with a married woman 13 yrs older

what is best for me to do? help her build a back bone or leave it the way it is

Answer 1

You can't leave the way it is. The reason is simple, sooner or later you have to deal with the problem and then will be more extreme.Talk to her ( not the lover, keep going, is fine) and explain to her about the sand castle that she has with you.Be positive and make the stuff very clear once a for ever.Is hard, but you have to do it.