Family & Relationships - 13 August 2007

I don't know what to do. I think dating doesn't depend on age, it depends on maturity. I think I'm quite mature for my age. I'm thirteen years old. I know the issues going on with teens, like being pressured and stuff into sex. But, I know better than that. If they don't allow me to date when I'm in high school, how am I going to learn like, who's worth my time, who's not. What do I want in a guy? I've been in a serious relationship for 8 months. It was the most horrible break up ever. But, I managed to get myself through it. My parents expect me to concentrate on my grades only and they pretty much tell me I don't need friends. When my friends are the only ones that I can really talk to and solve my issues with. They make me feel better. While, my parents don't know anything that goes on in my life.

2007-08-13 08:17:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Okay.....I am married, and my husband is in active duty airforce!
Having a family is very important to me, and we really want to have a baby in another year or two.....after I finish school!
I am in a crossroads right now....I can either finish school in two years....or join the airforce!
If I finish school I am not sure what it is I definetely want to do!!! I am thinking about becomming an ultrasound techinican. I am also interested in cosmetology, but I always told me that I would not do that because there is no money in it!!
So, I really need some help, and opinions because I need to figure things out, so that I can start my family!!

2007-08-13 08:17:02 · 1 answers · asked by Nicole S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-13 08:16:32 · 21 answers · asked by Peter 4 in Friends

I know that it is not always the guys responsibility to approach the girl, that the girl can do it sometimes....but I never know when the right time is?
You see, I dont like approaching guys that have girlfriends. But theres no real way of telling and I hate that. =[ So if a guy seems not interested, should I assume he has a girlfriend and not approach him? Should I assume that he does not want to be approached either way?
How can I prevent myself from embarrassment....I mean...I know its unavoidable for the most part because I have embarrassed myself a good amount of times...but does anyone have any suggestions as to when I should approach a guy? Any and all personal experiences welcome please. Thanks.

2007-08-13 08:14:25 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-13 08:13:33 · 22 answers · asked by okulla2000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Families don't drink, so no booze at the wedding reception. So, I'm trying to think of a way to put together an affordable after-party for about 20-25 people who will want to drink when the reception is over. We can't have it at the same place the reception is. So I'm trying to decide, should we rent out another facility? Have a cash bar? What would you do?

2007-08-13 08:09:45 · 18 answers · asked by Linz ♥ VT 4 in Weddings

Do you think it would be okay to still have a toast if we aren't having booze? His family is very religious and does not drink so we have to wait until after the reception to break out the booze. LOL Anyway.. should we have flutes with sparkling cider or something?

2007-08-13 08:07:40 · 23 answers · asked by Linz ♥ VT 4 in Weddings

Is shy bad? I'm shy and while I wish I wasn't and I fight against it I feel like its part of me. Is it a defect?

2007-08-13 08:07:15 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 28 and having to make a life altering decision. My boyfreind of 6 years wants to move to Baltimore where his mother lives, my family is in Florida. My family hates my boyfriend and says I have to make a decision them or him. This is my soulmate and I love him very much. Not sure I want to give up my family, my sister is pregnant and my parents are not getting any younger. My grandmother will not talk to me unless I "get rid of him" HELP??!!

2007-08-13 07:54:38 · 25 answers · asked by Ambyr F 1 in Family

how do i pick up the pieces and move on

2007-08-13 07:53:46 · 5 answers · asked by puppy love 1 in Singles & Dating

This seems like a silly question but im just wondering if the majority of guys would like girls that wear make up or do most of them like the plain janes that wear no make up at all. When i say make up i mean like eye shadow eyeliner and mascara all combined...and does wearing like odd colors like blue green and yellow make guys turned off to i am so confused...becuase my friends tell me guys hate make up! Is that true?

2007-08-13 07:53:19 · 9 answers · asked by m.u.s.i.c♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

How would you feel if the woman you love didn't want to have kids but would rather adopt. I guess what I'm saying is, Is it all that important to you to have biological kids?

2007-08-13 07:50:15 · 1 answers · asked by Paris 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband has evil ex-wife.They have a daughter14years old she stays with us 50% stays mom 50%.The ex always try to control situation withe the daughter.Something happen what she doesn't like She calls my husband and yell one hour.Then if we did not follow her way She demand money(30% his income)for the daughter Yes it is threat.
.He really afraid this thing happen.If he did not pic phone up, she comes this house and yell.
He is mainly yes man.He said if you said some your opinion she dose exactly opposite.and yell other one hour.In the past her own father said to her "you are insane" Yes She is very unreasonable crazy. My husband say best way is just ignore and not resist.Sometime the daughter use her mom in some purpose She knows how to use own mom.She call her mom and my husband get disaster.She is selfish bossy girl never respect me.
When I got married things were not like this.
Now we have teenager she create all kind of trouble and involve mom to the trouble.I go BANANA!

2007-08-13 07:49:14 · 9 answers · asked by august2007 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't go to school with my boyfriend...but i don go to school with one of his bestfriends? N i sorta have feelings for him and he has them for me too...what should i do.....but i still like my boyfriend THIS QUESTION IS MY FRIENDS QUESTION

2007-08-13 07:44:30 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Neither my fiance nor I are very religious, but his family sort of is. His grandparents were once missionaries. We don't want religion to play a key part in the ceremony, meaning we don't want a church or pastor or anything like that.. We thought, however, that it might be a nice compromise to have his dad officiate. His dad understands our views, but teaches Sunday school and would be able to incorporate enough to please the rest of the relatives.

Is this possible in the state of VA? What would we have to do to make it legal? We live in Chesapeake, but would more than likely have the wedding in Virginia Beach or Norfolk.

2007-08-13 07:44:07 · 8 answers · asked by navysgurl09 3 in Weddings

I'm going into sophomore year in college w/o a car. My parents let me use one of their old minivans every so often that they don't use, but won't let me take it to college because they don't trust me with it. I have enough money to buy a used car from working, but my parents won't allow me to get one while I'm still living with them. Since I cannot afford a permanent place to live and a car at the same time, is there any way out of this situation, or am I stuck until I graduate from college? I can't get a job in college because I DON'T HAVE A CAR TO GET ANYWHERE. I will be living in a college dorm and could buy a car to keep there. But when I come home at the end of the semester, I wouldn't be allowed to come home with a new car, as they wouldn't allow it on their property.

2007-08-13 07:43:21 · 3 answers · asked by surftaco400 1 in Family

My sister went out with this guy, let's say his name is "GREG". She was really serious with Greg and her best friend knew it too. Life happened, my sister and Greg broke up but were still strong in feelings with each other. Well, her best friend married a guy for 2 years in AZ. Once she came back to visit, we all hung out in a group together, including Greg and all. Well, my sister caught her best friend kissing Greg and stormed out of the house and left. When I walked in, they were just acting like nothing happened. Her friend was married and kissed this guy! Anyway, after that incident, she left back to AZ and decided to divorce her husband. I asked her why and she said cause she doesn't love him anymore. Not so long afterwards, she hooked up with Greg(the guy she cheated on her husband with). My sister is still pretty pissed about this, but her friend is saying not to be. Is she worth being friends with or should she be considered the other B word?

2007-08-13 07:41:38 · 7 answers · asked by dr. phillian here.. 3 in Friends

ask if I could come. My other friend asked if I was going to her party and I told her i wasn't invited. I was really bummed. What do you think this means? Does she not want to be my friend? We have been best friends ever since I was 3 years old.

2007-08-13 07:41:10 · 16 answers · asked by Brittany 2 in Friends

Nothing blatant, sexual or obvious -- just simple things that really turn you on and feel irresistible?

2007-08-13 07:36:42 · 14 answers · asked by Steve C 7 in Singles & Dating

ok so this christmas i thought i would tell my mom that im sorry for just everything that ive ever done to make her upset or w/e and just to tell her i love her through this like slide show of pictures of me and her.....but i need a song to put on there and i dont kno any songs to put on there..does anyone have any ideas? please help me

2007-08-13 07:36:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-13 07:35:40 · 9 answers · asked by cheerleader4lifeeee 1 in Singles & Dating

I have lately been fantasizing about my boss sleeping with my wife. This thought keeps coming to me all day at the office. Lately I have started to include my wife's name in my conversation with my boss to get him interested in knowing about her, and a few times I have even left a photo of her on my table when he is around so he can get to see my attractive wife. Can anybody tell me what is the nature of this fantasy, what it means and what I should do about it?

2007-08-13 07:35:10 · 26 answers · asked by Rohit 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-08-13 07:35:08 · 40 answers · asked by Gee=) 2 in Singles & Dating

since then shes been depressed and withdrawn.
how can i help her with this?

2007-08-13 07:34:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Any free dating sites out there, like plenty o fish.com?

2007-08-13 07:32:36 · 4 answers · asked by Brooklyn Guy 3 in Singles & Dating

he is soooo hot. right so like in the middle of class he was like, "so what you do sexually is your own choice." while he said that stared at me for 5 sec and then he winked at me. also he always gives me A's on my tests even if i know i got some questions wrong. i feel wierd whenever he touches my shoulder because once his hand like slid down towards my butt and i jumped away and he was like that was an accident sorry. i had to stay during my lunch period to make up some homework so it was just me & him in the classroom. and then he put his hand on my shoulder and then it slid down more towards my boob almost towards my nipple. i was sooo scared and was almost sweating. i don't think he has bad intentions but he always goes behind me surprises me by holding my waist and will say something random. how do i tell him to stop!!!! plz help also my bff always tells me to stay away from him but idk why she thinks he's wierd too. o yea i'm 15 and a half.

2007-08-13 07:31:00 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok girls are the ones who have to bleed rom there V a g i n a every month for a week get headaches cramps and basicly feel like crap! then wen u finally meet a person u like a lot it hurts girls during umm begins with s ends with x has a e in the middle then after this the girls have to go 9 FREAKIN months of morning sickness getting fat headaches and a hole lot more. and wen it comes to socailly guys just punch each other and are best friends the next day girls go and backstab each other and spread rumors and are enimies for life. it just pisses me o that some guys think that guys are better then girls guys are arregent wimps or wen they say they want lik 6 kids they arent the ones who hav to push those kids out of a certain spot

2007-08-13 07:30:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey guys) If a hot girl you met come on to you, would you go all the way with her? But the only thing is that you have a girlfriend back at home that you love! alot and makes you happy! would you let the temptation take over you? And be honest with your answer could you be able to resist the hot girl giving you a strip tease and touching you?

2007-08-13 07:24:47 · 6 answers · asked by In love! 6 in Singles & Dating

Hey, i am having trouble with getting a cute sensative boy. If you can help me. Please help

2007-08-13 07:24:18 · 1 answers · asked by Dirt Bike Chick 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a first date w/ someone i have known for quite awhile and am very attracted to but am concerned that his perception of me will change depending on how far i let things go on our first date. does it really matter when u do it?

2007-08-13 07:23:59 · 44 answers · asked by cecee 4 in Singles & Dating