he is soooo hot. right so like in the middle of class he was like, "so what you do sexually is your own choice." while he said that stared at me for 5 sec and then he winked at me. also he always gives me A's on my tests even if i know i got some questions wrong. i feel wierd whenever he touches my shoulder because once his hand like slid down towards my butt and i jumped away and he was like that was an accident sorry. i had to stay during my lunch period to make up some homework so it was just me & him in the classroom. and then he put his hand on my shoulder and then it slid down more towards my boob almost towards my nipple. i was sooo scared and was almost sweating. i don't think he has bad intentions but he always goes behind me surprises me by holding my waist and will say something random. how do i tell him to stop!!!! plz help also my bff always tells me to stay away from him but idk why she thinks he's wierd too. o yea i'm 15 and a half.
2007-08-13 07:31:00 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that is inappropriate behavior for a teacher and you should tell your parents and they will take the proper steps to make sure this doesn't happen to you or anyone else. If you don't say anything then he will just keep doing this to other girls or maybe even something worse until someone finally does something. Don't let yourself and others be silent victims.
2007-08-13 07:38:10 · answer #1 · answered by Daniel H 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
He is acting inappropriately and he knows it. You stated that you don't think he has bad intentions, but believe me ~ he does. He is an adult, and I promise you, he knows what he is doing. Men like him get away with it because they are experts at intimidation and manipulation. Please talk to an adult about this. It will be hard, and perhaps embarrassing, but you didn't do anything wrong ~ and no one will think so. It would be best to talk to your parents, but if you are uncomfortable you can also talk to a school councilor, an older relative, sibling or even a friend's parent. They will be able to help you ~ and prevent this man from doing this to you or any other girls. Chances are, you are not the first or only girl he has ever done this to. It takes a LOT of courage to come forward, but you will not only be helping yourself, but you will be helping others as well. Please talk to an adult as soon as possible. Good luck!!
2016-04-01 09:16:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell someone about this - that is called sexual harassment, and he should know better. It is blatantly illegal for a teacher to treat a student with anything other than friendly professionalism, and this is not that. He has crossed the line - physical touching is NOT ok between a teacher and a student. Tell your guidance counsellor or another trusted teacher. They will take it to the principal and he will have a disciplinary action brought against him. He needs it - I guarantee this is not the first time he has done this, and you are not the first girl he has done it to. By reporting him, you are saving other girls from having to deal with his advances.
2007-08-13 07:41:08 · answer #3 · answered by HooliganGrrl 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You need to report the teacher IMMEDIATELY to your principal, your parents, and the police. He is very wrong in doing this. Try to get transferred out of his class until something is done about it. You may not be the only one he is doing this too. Talk to your friends see if they have heard anything. Don't be scared to come forward. If he isn't stopped he could hurt someone very badly.
2007-08-13 07:41:35 · answer #4 · answered by sheka 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
even the physical attention he's already given is too inappropriate for school. You need to talk to an authority, b/c this teacher is not keeping a good line between himself and students. Even if his intentions are not dishonorable, someone's going to get in trouble if this isn't handled.
Talk to your parents about your discomfort or a school counselor, if that makes you more comfortable.
You don't need to confront him, you need to go higher than him. And you don't need to just stay away, b/c if he's doing this to you, imagine what he's doing to other, possibly younger girls?!?!? All it takes is for you to speak up and be brave, and the right thing will happen.
2007-08-13 07:35:36 · answer #5 · answered by Dj 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
He has bad intentions. That's sexual harrassment. And honey, it sounds like you know it, too. Next time he does something like that, tell him to stop. Period. Don't giggle or brush it off or anything, be serious and push his hands away. Tell your guidence counselor, vice principal, or parents so they can take the appropriate actions. Do it before it escalates to anything worse. I don't mean to scare you but this guy's a perv.
2007-08-13 07:36:37 · answer #6 · answered by not just rainbows & butterflies 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely tell either you parents or you Principal ASAP, you teacher is crossing the line and it needs to stop now before he hurts you or another student if he hasn't already!
He is in a position of trust and is severely abusing that trust. He should not get away with that. What he is doing is in no way right, and it has to stop.
2007-08-13 07:39:21 · answer #7 · answered by Susan P 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
That is sexual harassment sweety and you need to tell someone you trust that can help you such as a trusted adult, counselor, or school professional. He is taking advantage of you and that's not fair. He is making you feel uncomfortable and you should never feel that way with an adult. Don't be ashamed or embarrased to tell on him. You deserve to feel safe in your classroom. Tell someone who can really help you with this situation and the next time something is serious, take it to someone other than Yahoo Answers. Your safety is important.
2007-08-13 07:39:16 · answer #8 · answered by hamptoncutie204 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Tell SOMEONE. An adult, I mean, not just your friend (I do agree with her that he is weird and you should stay away from him). Another teacher, your parents, a guidance councler, whatever, just tell someone. This guy has already crossed the line and something needs to be done, what he's doing is innapropriate and disgusting and wrong and you shouldn't have to put up with it.
2007-08-13 07:40:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
OMG!You shhould know that similar ancidents happen always throughout the world...It's up to you how it will continue.You can try tell him straightforward,sth like "Mr what are you doing?"And of course tell your mother.You should tell the absolute truth and don't beafraid, everybody will believe you and stand by you.You can also tell, with the help of your mom to the school counselor, or inspector, idk how you call it there!IT DOESN'T MATTER HOW HOT HE IS,THE PERSON IS A PIG WHO IS TAKING ADVANTAGE OF HIS AUTHORITY POSITION AND HIS RELATIVE "MATURITY" TO SATISFY HIS SEXUAL APPETITES!Don't worry, everything will go well.Defend your rights!There are lows in favour of you...Good luck...
2007-08-13 07:50:27 · answer #10 · answered by ThEowL 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋