ask if I could come. My other friend asked if I was going to her party and I told her i wasn't invited. I was really bummed. What do you think this means? Does she not want to be my friend? We have been best friends ever since I was 3 years old.
2007-08-13 07:41:10 · 16 answers · asked by Brittany 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This happens some time...I know the feeling.
When you get a chance, ask her how the party was and think about her answer. Did she turn red and fumble for words? Then perhaps she knows she made a mistake. Or did she just rattle on happily about the events? Then maybe she's prepared to move on.
Whatever the case, try asking her about it. It's good to be up front and honest with your friends--playing emotional games just creates drama. If she didn't think to invite you, though, I get the feeling that she is ready to find a new best friend.
I hope you find a great one of your own. ;)
Good luck!
2007-08-13 07:47:15 · answer #1 · answered by Mandy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Anything we say to you here on Yahoo! Answers is purely speculation. As hard as it is, you'll have to call her up yourself and ask her what the deal is. Maybe she figured you two are so close that you didn't even need an invite to know you were supposed to be there. Or maybe she really did intend for you to not be invitied, and if that's the case, you need to find out why not, and what happened to your friendship to cause this. You can't let it go, though, because it does rather seem like an intentional slight. Keep this in mind, though, before you jump to conclusions: my boyfriend's family never formally invites me to anything, including his brother's wedding- they just sort of expect us to show up. Weird, but true...
2007-08-13 07:49:52 · answer #2 · answered by fizzygurrl1980 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would defiantly ask her what is going on and explain your feelings and that you felt left out and she is suppose to be your BF. Maybe she just needed a break from your friendship. Only she knows the real reason why you didn't get invited so you will just have to ask her.
2007-08-13 08:01:19 · answer #3 · answered by Butterfly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 06:09:04 · answer #4 · answered by merkl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since u say u are bestfriends dat means u dnt need to be invited jus show up after all ur like sisters. if i bf was havin a party i wudda jus show up cus i kno i wudda been invited n e ways. u sound like u arent certain if u 2 are bf's u can always talk to her n ask her y she didn't invite u or call u. n if u feel like u dnt want to do dat get someone who will ask for u everything will work out for the best.,,,,,,,,,,
2007-08-13 07:50:06 · answer #5 · answered by cassie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would someone you call your "best" friend not invite you!?? Obviously this is one sided relationship. YOU need to find a new best friend who treats you right. You deserve a good friend.
2007-08-13 08:00:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in that situation. it sucks i know. btw, she's not your best friend (anymore). but don't take it the wrong way, at least in my case i heard that she didn't invite me bc she thought I was too skinny vs. her so that means i would get all the guys. but she did invite all the dogs she could find :)
2007-08-13 07:50:25 · answer #7 · answered by sarah kay 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sure she got so caught up in her party that your invintation slipped her mind you guys would have broke up a long time ago if she wasn't going to be your friend! besides, a true friend would have told you!
2007-08-13 07:49:04 · answer #8 · answered by suzannah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its strange that your best friend wouldn't invite you to a party. you should invite her over to your house and talk to her about it. if she is your best friend, you may have to search deeper into why she didnt invite you, there may be a good reason.
2007-08-13 07:47:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should ask her.or maybe she just thought you knew after all these years you were of course invited.kind of like my sister knows she doesn't need an invitation to anything she knows to just come over.
2007-08-13 07:49:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋