i like my boyfriends friend?

Question

I don't go to school with my boyfriend...but i don go to school with one of his bestfriends? N i sorta have feelings for him and he has them for me too...what should i do.....but i still like my boyfriend THIS QUESTION IS MY FRIENDS QUESTION

ok im on the phone with her right know and she appreciates your comments...

Answer 1

decide which one you like more. You're obviously with your current boyfriend because u like him and u have feelings for him. I think you should stick with him and not flirt with his friend. If you're not sure who you want to be with them be single until you figure it out instead of toying with feelings and hurting people in the long wrong. Also it confuses you and screws with your emotions.. so id either stay loyal to something called your boyfriend (whom.. you say you still like) or tell him you're not sure what your true feelings are and need a break.
good luck

Answer 2

Whoever is having this delimma...needs to reevaluate why they have a boyfriend while they are in school anyway. You sound way to young to be tied down to anyone. Then you wouldn't feel torn between liking your boyfriend and then liking his best friend. There is so much more you can get out of life in your teenage years without having a boyfriend. You are not at a point in your life where you should have to make these kind of decisions. You should become just friends with both guys and save yourself for a committed relationship when you know who it is that you want to spend the rest of your life with. (Give yourself a couple years out of High School at least - you need to live life and find out who you are. Then someone will truly love you for yourself as you will them.)

If you do decide you like the friend better, break-up with your boyfriend first. It's going to hurt him but at least you won't be considered a cheater and he'll be able to move on eventually. It's better to be honest than to do something behind his back.

Answer 3

well hay your in big trouble!! but you have to do what is right for you. If you have more feelings for the friend then you do your boyfriend you can either go with his friend which will be very wrong or get rid of those feelings by ditancing your self from the friend because maybe you only have those feelings becuase you know deep down that your no suppose to and if you go with him it wouldnt be worth the brake up with you boyfriend personally I would just get rid of the feelings by distancing myself but if your heart tells you other wise do what it says but know that your heart diesnt always choose the right choice sometimes what you think you should is right.

Answer 4

One of my friends was in this situation too. It turns out that once the girl broke it off with the boyfriend and started dating the friend, there was a lot of bad blood between the three. On the other hand, from what I hear the friend and the girl are still together in a relationship that has lasted 6 or so years.

Answer 5

Break up with him. You shouldn't be with a guy if you don't have feelings for him. Why would you string him along like that? That's not fair to him. Also, it's wrong for you to have feelings for his friend. You should not even be looking at his friend that way. No offense but you don't sound like your a good girlfriend. Leave both of them alone and find someone else.

Answer 6

i had the same problem you do you have to decide you you like more if you make the wrong choice and choose the friend he might not be as great as your boyfriend.i chose my boyfriend over another guy and im glad i did as it turned out my boyfriend is the better one for me.who do you care about more.then go from there i would stay with the boyfriend. good luck

Answer 7

don't you think you are being unfair to both the guys. you like the one you're going with and the one you're officially tied with is not the one you really like. OMG, you can't really blame these people who called you slut. first things first, break it up with your boyfriend and tell him the truth, he might be mad, but accept it, that's the least you can do for being unfaithful. then if the other guy you like end up courting you when he learns you're free then that's a bonus. but for now prioritised your splitting up with your proxy, he will be really pissed off but take the step after all it will really require lots of courage to correct wrong doings, but mistakes can only consider a mistake once you accepted it's wrong and do something to correct it.

Answer 8

If you like your boyfriend then you shouldn't be having conversations with his best friend that have to do with liking.

If you don't like your boyfriend all that much, then break up with him because you're young and now is the time to either be totally satisfied or look for someone else.

It doesn't matter at all how the friend feels. If he didn't like you, but you liked him, then it's still betraying your boyfriend. If you're looking around then you shouldn't be exclusive.

Answer 9

well i wouldnt mess w/ ur bf best friend u should talk 2 both of them (not together tho) and just ask ur bf about ur problem he should if he dosent then hes no a tru boy friend but i wouldnt mess w/ the other guy unless u no 4 sure he mite have feelings 4 u hope i helped

Answer 10

i'd say your screwed.. your gonna ruin their friendship if you end up dumping the guy your with to be with the bestfriend. but then again i'm sure your kids so who knows what they'll think.. all i can say is don't jump into relationships, i did that all my life and i hate myself for it.. try to stay single and when you think your ready to be with just one guy then start one.. your young, play the field, hang with your girls and make alot of best friends.. there will always be boys around.. good luck and best wishes!