Family & Relationships - 13 August 2007

I have been paying what I can for child support to my children living in another state. I had a job where I made very good money. i was layed off. then I started doing something else that pay 3 times less to start. but they were trying to still take $2000+ out of me when i wasn't even making that in 2 months. i tried to get it change many times. a i got from them was you pay or you go to jail. Note: I have neveer been in trouble in my life. Always paid my taxes and yeah i might get a speeding ticket here and there. But they want to lock me up for something i can't pay for If you don't have how are you to pay? I pay something every month even if i don't have money to feed myself. Can anyone help me find a way make these changes I'm willing to go All the way to the white house with it. Don't get me wrong I love my children i would do anything for them. I just can't send what i don't have. They make me out to be a bad dad. When I wish I could just bring them here to live with me.

2007-08-13 09:47:06 · 9 answers · asked by Justin G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-13 09:47:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-13 09:46:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how do you balance your partner in a relationship. i have been involved in both extremes. the overly possessive bf that wont let u out of his sight, is extremely jealous for no reason and does not trust u AT ALL, and now i'm married to someone who believes every word i say. pays no attention really to what i am doing. is so involved in his own world that the only thing he would miss is dinner on the table and his clean clothes. he is very good to me otherwise. basically lets me do whatever i want. up until recently, it didnt bother me but now i really feel ignored. how do i balance it out. i have asked questions like this before and the response is usually sex orientated. i'm looking for actual companionship from my hubby. someone to be genuinely interested in what i do and like instead of just saying "whatever you want" as he turns back to his own world, of which i am not in. then, when he decides he wants to #@%#, will sit down with me and act like he is interested.

2007-08-13 09:43:45 · 11 answers · asked by im done 2 in Singles & Dating

This guy I know from college just invited me to his wedding. I can't really say that I am friends with him, because I don't see him much. I might see him once every 2 or 3 years, and that's only because we sometimes have group gatherings with old friends from college.

I'd have to drive wake up early and drive an hour to get to this wedding, for a guy who I'm not really friends with. But I don't have a legitimate excuse to get out of it.

What would you do?

2007-08-13 09:43:27 · 26 answers · asked by introversive_guy 3 in Weddings

If so what makes you the hottest? For some reason 2 hot girls gets me really hot but I am happily married and never even come close to being with another girl.

2007-08-13 09:42:47 · 16 answers · asked by Ester 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-13 09:41:21 · 6 answers · asked by Seamus 3 in Singles & Dating

Does size really matter??? Ya know what I'm talkin' about...

2007-08-13 09:39:00 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-13 09:38:48 · 34 answers · asked by smile every minute of life =) 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been deployed overseas for some time and have saved up enough to get an engagement ring for the future misses. i want to spend 2K-3K on the ring and want to know what the best ring would be for the price range.

2007-08-13 09:37:13 · 20 answers · asked by Christian R 1 in Weddings

We have a great relationship and for me is to soon. He knows I don't love him yet, so what do I say when he tells me he loves me?

2007-08-13 09:36:41 · 15 answers · asked by Susan G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My terrible wife moved out on me and took my jeep. I need it to go to town and buy stuff. I know where she is staying and who she is doing it with. (Trust me, her value is going way down!) Anyway, she has the keys and the jeep and i need it back. I called the police and they siad to try and work it out with her but she is crazy and the guy she is with now is black and kind of scares the shift8888 out of me.

2007-08-13 09:34:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband says mean things to me all the time. He says he is ony with me because I have inherited millions from my mom's estate. we are very wealthy and he takes over 50,000 and spends it on whores and strippers. What should I do? I love him so much but I can't take it any more. I put 500,000 in his personal account last week and he only has 1,000 left. I asked him were the money is he said i spent it on bills. I pay all the bills and our morgage is 25,000 a month. What do i do? Please help anyone!

2007-08-13 09:34:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I revealed to her that I shower once every three weeks since I hate showering. Now she has left me. How can I win her heart back? (And I'm not going to shower more, by the way. I HATE showering).

2007-08-13 09:30:20 · 97 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend makes me do all the work around the house by prancing around the house in seductive clothing. ex: stockings, stilettos and blouses. She teases me but does not let me get any till all the chores are done. Men should be able to decide when women get to wear seductive clothing because women are using it to control men.

Ladies did you learn this technique from your mothers?

2007-08-13 09:29:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

..you wondered if things were supposed to "perfect, perfect". From the people that have been there and are happily married now, any reassurance or words of advice that my "jitters" and doubts are normal? We are madly in love with each other. Marriage (1st one and hopefully only/last one for both of us - we are 27 and 33yrs old) is SO HUGE! Just a bit scared...What should I keep my focus on to make sure we do ok. Both of us feel that we belong together and have made it through our toughie times, etc. ala"nothing is a bed of roses all the time", I just don't want to make a mistake!!!

2007-08-13 09:27:16 · 34 answers · asked by rlfesty 3 in Marriage & Divorce

She has been very rude to me,and ignoring me.And all this other stuff that i am not going to say. But now she wrote me a letter in the mail saying she wants to be best friends again and shes changing.But i really dont know because she has said that kind of stuff before.

2007-08-13 09:26:48 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I just mentioned that i have a celebrity crush on The Rock. my husband knows this. When i see him i cant help but blush and smile uncontrollably. He watches movies with him on purpose but yet he gets mad at me for liking him, i cant help it!!!! Or he watches movies with other guys i like on purpose. Why does he do it and then get mad?

2007-08-13 09:26:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

that you "cracked their shell" ...and they don't know how they feel about that... how should you respond?

He said, "you're just good at everything. You've really cracked my shell - and I don't know how I feel about that..."

I assume it's a good thing, but now that he's said that - he's backing off a little bit. I am giving him his space. I always have, so it's not like I am all over the guy calling him and everything. He's no the type of guy who likes to feel vulnerable.

2007-08-13 09:23:23 · 3 answers · asked by Challah back Girl... 5 in Singles & Dating

Ok ..here it goes..

I have deep suspiciousions that my husband of 14 years is having sex with my best friend. All the signs are there, but I keep doubting my "gut feeling" so to speak. My friend is not an attractive girl at all and she is known to "get around". She brags about all the men she has all the time. Recently, my husband has changed his behavior drastically. We haven't had sex in atleast 4 months or so, he has been distant and cold and cancelled his direct deposit so I can 't see where his money is going. I also noticed that they act VERY strange when they are around me, which was never the case. They would always say hello, but now they act like they don't know each other. Sometimes I do catch them making eye contact behind my back. My friend is also treating much differently, we were very close, now we never hang out together....

Any suggestions as to what might be going on?? Am I jumping to conclusions or could I be right??

2007-08-13 09:21:42 · 71 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend tells me he loves me (and means it), and though i like him, a lot, i know i don't feel the same.. But there are only so many times you can stay silent, change the subject, or say 'you're lovely' (yes, bad i know!) in return. So is telling him i love him back going to hurt him more in the longrun, if i never feel the same, or am i saving his feelings in the meantime, hoping that i will love him eventually?

2007-08-13 09:19:28 · 58 answers · asked by Libra ♎ 4 in Singles & Dating

girl who is 6' 2''?

2007-08-13 09:18:55 · 11 answers · asked by Katie 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband was using the bathroom and our son was in there with him. I was out in the other room and my feet were sticking to the floor (someone must have dropped some food or something. So, I thought I'd mop the floor. I mopped some but I didn't get very far; my son came running down the hallway that I had just mopped and slipped backward. He hit his head-thank God he's okay- and he was crying. I felt very bad. It turned into anger, however, when my husband came in the room, grabbed my son like Idid something awful, and told me it was my fault for mopping. What would you have said?

2007-08-13 09:18:08 · 11 answers · asked by wawas7 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm kinda nerdy, and I see hot girls around, and I'd love to be with them physically at least, what guy wouldn't, but I know from their personalities that it wouldn't work out between us. So what do I do? Can/Should I change myself so that we're "compatible"? They're so beautiful, so what do I do?

2007-08-13 09:17:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-13 09:14:10 · 8 answers · asked by angie a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

WHY DO MEN STOP FORE PLAY AFTER THEY HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 10 OR MORE YEARS ?
DRY INSERTION IS LIKE RAPE

2007-08-13 09:12:09 · 26 answers · asked by CINDYLOU 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-13 09:11:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what should i say back to him.

i dont care if u telll me to tell im mean stuff.

the meaner the better.

i wanna be mean to him bc i have gone through alot during school
i have been called ugly,dumb a**,Dumb F***, mexican(im not mexican)
towel head. (im not even in the same catergory as towel heads) Hindu (thats not even close to my realigon) and last but not least i have been called a dyke
he also has asked me : Has anyone ever told you that you look like a man?

i cant take anymore. I have been hurt so much i dont kno what people have to do to make me cry my head off. (if u kno what i mean)

2007-08-13 09:09:54 · 10 answers · asked by :) 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm about to marry the man of my wallet's dreams. He's 87 years old, a real estate tycoon with tons of moolah, and I was wondering. His health is rather stable, he can get up and boogie, but he has back pains and arthritis. How long do you think I will have to put up with him? I've already invested 4 years into this deal.

2007-08-13 09:09:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met with a car accident 3 days ago. It was a chain collision. The car behind me hit me first & due to the impact my car hit the truck in front of me. On the day of the accident, this scenario was clearly stated to the officer by all the 3 drivers. The driver behind me also accepted in front of the officer, that he hit me first .
Now i got the police report today which states, that i hit the truck in front of me first!! But what happenned actually was the car behind me hit me 1st due to which i was forced into the truck in front of me.
My car is new and has the maximum damage, cos it was hit both on the rear & front. Has anyone been in such a sitaution or know any1 who has been in such a situation? What should i do about the mistake in police report?? I left a message to the officer and he never returned my call. I called up the police station and talked to the desk sargent, he told me that the officer should contact me in a few days. Do officers ever correct thier reports?

2007-08-13 09:09:30 · 6 answers · asked by Someday 3 in Marriage & Divorce