2007-08-13 09:14:10 · 8 answers · asked by angie a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why exactly are you getting in fights with his ex? There's no reason for you to be talking to her at all! Start acting like an adult. I probably wouldn't want you to see my kids either - the last thing these kids need is to see adults bickering, being immature, and fighting with one another. Perhaps once you're capable of being a good example for the kids, you'll be able to see them again.
2007-08-13 09:21:38 · answer #1 · answered by greeneyes_bjb 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Quit fighting with her. Whether you like it or not, she is the mother of his kids and she calls all those shots, and they (the ex and your boyfriend) will always be tied together b/c of the kids. You knew this when you got into the relationship (I am assuming) so suck it up and quit fighting with her. And by no means do not put those kids in the middle of your two fighting. Even if she tries to be the bigger person and don't ever say anything bad about their mom in front of them or anywhere where they can overhear. You will always be the bad one in that situation and as they get older they will come to realize that you really did/do care about them
And also, I would get your boyfriend involved and maybe he can try to smooth things out a little too,
2007-08-13 16:23:03 · answer #2 · answered by Lindsay G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, it's not that easy to get a restraining order. but, what you need to do from now on is to ignore her. and make sure that when you go to court, that you're ready for her list of lies on how you've threatened her. but, why would this keep you from seeing the kids? she doesn't have to be there when the kids are around, does she?
2007-08-13 16:22:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number 1 - you have no business interfering in the husband/exwife matters. A judge would make mincemeat out of you.
Number 2. You keep messing around and he will lose custody and visatation of his children. Butt out and if you can't cover your mouth and hands with duct tape.
2007-08-13 16:37:41 · answer #4 · answered by Wrong number 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um yes she can, i almost got one on my husbands mistress b4. i didn't want her around my kid at all. i didn't want her skankyness to rub off on her. what did you do to piss her off? i would apologize and try to make a menze.
2007-08-13 16:22:32 · answer #5 · answered by sarcastic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless there is a good reason for the restraining order then seh cant get it.
2007-08-13 16:20:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
why do you have contact with the X? I don't get that at all.
2007-08-13 16:27:32 · answer #7 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what? They're not YOUR kids anyway.
2007-08-13 23:34:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋