Family & Relationships - 13 August 2007

ok me and this girl were like.. having sex
she didnt say she hated it she said she loved it BUT she said it couldnt get out to public that she lost her virginity to ME
i was asking her wats wrong with me and stuff
then she said if it would get out she would tel lthe police it was rape.... wat do i do ppl
seriously....

2007-08-13 12:52:02 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-13 12:49:43 · 2 answers · asked by melichi 2 in Singles & Dating

Whats worst as far as cheating goes? Cyber sex or physical sex?

2007-08-13 12:49:05 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'ved been in a relationship for 2 years and it was pretty intense i was wondering how did you move on??I broke up 2 weeks ago... don't have a lot of friends (2) and i see them occasionally because they boyfriends and we have different schedules.Did you joined the gym? Did move to a another city? What did you do??(it's hard not to call or e_mail him)

2007-08-13 12:42:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have sex every night 4-5 times a night, but everytime we have sex, theres always a mess everytime. Does that mean my husband didnt go inside me and how do you know if the penis went in correctly. We are trying to get pregnant, but we have had no success. How would you know if the penis has gone in?

2007-08-13 12:42:06 · 14 answers · asked by Asha 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Although we are aleady married we want toinvite the family to this one How do we have a cheap philly wedding? I dont mind diy work.

2007-08-13 12:39:49 · 3 answers · asked by luckybeauty2006 1 in Weddings

are girls attracted to guys. with alot of girls around him. i heard there was like a chain reaction if this guy has alot of girl friends that girls would like to be with him

2007-08-13 12:38:51 · 14 answers · asked by Kemi$t 2 in Singles & Dating

I met a guy a few years back and we became friends..he always had every excuse in the book for why he didn't have pics or why he couldnt call me. I got tired of his excuses and gave up. He had too many online red flags. He was hiding some things he eventually admitted to. I remained friends to him, but not really. I would never have gotten in a relationship with him by just talking online. But I sitll wanted to be friends no matter what.
But his friend met me online and he acts alot like the first guy. I havent talked to him other than online also, but we are good friends and I don't have any hopes up about meeting offline but he wants to and I said not until we talk on the phone and I get more pics of him. Hes making me feel like sh!t because he puts a huge guilt trip on me saying I dont trust him.

I know how to keep myself safe online Im not really asking advice on that I just want to know what I should do now, talk to him online still or be a bad friend and walk away?

2007-08-13 12:34:10 · 8 answers · asked by EchosOfAngels 3 in Singles & Dating

who else wants to punch the first guy she sees in his you know where??

2007-08-13 12:31:18 · 4 answers · asked by Srm2212 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why does my husband walk into the room I am in, fart and walk out??!!!???? Men, PLEASE advise!!!

2007-08-13 12:29:34 · 30 answers · asked by Lonely Turkey 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am getting married and i was wondering what are wedding officiants for and do i need one? Yes i am getting married and its gonna be kinda a big wedding. By the way i live in chicago, IL and if i do need one how much are they? sorry i dont know much about wedding cause ive never been to one eccept when i was like 5 years old sorry i hope someone can help.

2007-08-13 12:29:14 · 9 answers · asked by Michael L 2 in Weddings

I care about my parents my brother and sister praticlly my hole family and my boyfreind =]

2007-08-13 12:29:12 · 13 answers · asked by J WEEZY LOVES NIKKI R.I.P. 1 in Family

SOOOOO, i did a switcheroo & asked him. his response was immediate and he said yes! he didn't even hesitate. maybe he feels pressured now? i thought things would be okay. he's become distant. we are very open with each other so to elevate the anxiety, i told him, "honey, when you are ready, you can ask me to marry you, buy a ring & propose to me, and this will make it more comfortable for you, maybe? no pressure, no time limit, when you are ready, okay"....and i kissed him passionately. seems like a better option, maybe more legit. i think maybe i scared him out of his mind. maybe he has paniced about the "M" thing.. maybe i should step back and not communicate with him for awhile and let him think? i told him there is no rush and i am always the one i see myself with him & big expensive gawdy engagement rings dont have to be the norm. when the time comes i told him i would be gracious with any type of ring. becuz if it came from him, it came from his heart & i WILL LOVE HIM STILL.

2007-08-13 12:24:39 · 7 answers · asked by cry x 247 1 in Weddings

2007-08-13 12:21:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I met a man about four years ago on a holiday. Over a period we both fell in love . The only problem being we belonged to different countries.
There came a point we had to separate, he obviously wasn't interested in me enough to follow it up or maybe he was just not strong enough to take on the responsibilities considering he had been divorced. This was four years ago and the weird thing is he still keeps in touch with me.
I married my husband who loves me a lot and whom I love a lot as well.If only I had met my husband before I met him my life would have been so much easier.
I have told him to stop ever keeping contacting me, that it is hard for me because I loved him, but he wouldn't and I just don't know what he wants? It is very obvious he can't forget me and I know I will not be able to forget him for a long time, I felt like we bonded and it felt like everything was right, just that he didnt want me enough to make a commitment .
I desperately want to forget him and it is just so hard for me not to be able to speak to anyone about this ,(particularly not my husband who would be heartbroken).I cannot forgive my past love for abandoning me?I just need to forget him and I have done all I can including marrying someone else, I just wish I could erase him off my mind.
Sometimes I just break down and cry because It's been so hard all these years and I guess it will get easier with time but I wish it were sooner.How do i forget erase remove him from my mind?help me.
I have broken all connections with him but obviously not emotionally. It is hard to remove a memory especially deep love.Tell me how?Thats all.

2007-08-13 12:15:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-13 12:12:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean passionately, madly, deeply in love?
Describe your feelings as if you were writing a love letter to your sweetheart.

2007-08-13 12:08:41 · 10 answers · asked by mstrywmn 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well I am a 13 year old boy. And as everyone knows, our hormones go haywire, lately I got bossy,and more rude(talking back.) My aunt(53) has 2 kids(27 and 30) who are married and rich. Well so I my aunt. Well the other day my aunt came over and my mom told her about the rudeness ect. and my aunt yelled at me. My mom and dad yell at me and I can understand why, they are my parents. And then my aunt said, she'll hit me, send me to jail ect. Well she also yelled at my other cousin when he was young, now he is 30. Do youi think its right? Should I stand up for my rights? What can I do? What rights do I have???

Thanks

2007-08-13 12:07:52 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

So is this really terrible.....Today in the mail I received the invitation to my bridal shower. Ahh...I immediately felt ill like I was going to throw up. It's like the finality of it all....this is the real deal. I love my finace dearly....we have been together for over 8 years and really we are just making it "official", but there is something about marriage that terrifies me.

My parents had a nasty divorce and I have so many young friends who are either divorced or unhappily married. I just don't want to ever end up that way....marriage scares me!!!!

Is this bad to be actually feeling ill over this? Should I be worried? Any suggestions on how to calm myself and rid this nauseau.

2007-08-13 12:06:35 · 14 answers · asked by NoTurningBackNow 5 in Weddings

Also any good topic ideas , that you in particular would like to read about?

2007-08-13 12:03:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-13 12:03:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So, if you had to pick, what would it be? (Of course we're assuming that they're the size that you like boobs to be)

Real, natural boobs?

Fake, boob jobs?

Or, you dont care either way, as long as they're the right size?

Feel free to give any other comments you like also.

2007-08-13 12:02:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-13 11:59:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We found out our daughter is autistic this last March. Since then I've been trying to quit drinking.

The relationship between her father and I has been slowly depleting because I don't want to drink anymore.

Things between us weren't going well at all. I decided to have a few drinks and ended up getting really drunk and I cheated on him.

I have to quit drinking all together now. I made a horrible mistake that I would not have done if I weren't drinking.

He doesn't want to quit. As a matter of fact, he gets mad at the thought of it. Everything that's ever gone wrong in our relationship has happened when we were drinking. He cheated on me before and he's lost a lot of money to gambling at casinos.

I should just move out right?

My daughter needs a special diet and I can't afford to pay for alcohol anymore. He gets mad when I try to tell him these things.

I need help please! I truly made a bad mistake. He's forgiven me for it but doesn't want to stop drinking.

2007-08-13 11:57:02 · 4 answers · asked by Caffiene Junkie 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been widowed for over three years now. I feel like I am ready to meet somebody but not commitment wise. I like to have friends that I go out with but not rush into anythng too soon. At times, I feel guilty when I think about somebody I might like or if something might come of it I back out. I have a six year-old daughter I am raising on my own. I have a lot to consider is why I am not rushing into it but I don't want to make the wrong decision and opportunity has presented itself lately to where I could have made the wrong decision but got wise to it. It is hard to let go of things. I could never forget myself; he was my life but I know he is not coming back. So, I have to go on with my life. I know he would want that for me.

2007-08-13 11:54:56 · 6 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 3 in Singles & Dating

how long does it take to stop crying, ive been crying for the past week, tonight for 3 hours non-stop, when i go out i can feel myself overwhelmed by emotion and tears coming into my eyes. How long does this stage take, when i can not feel so vulnerable, and start to take control over my actions?

2007-08-13 11:54:42 · 12 answers · asked by Sophie Jeter 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This has been going on for years and I thought it would stop when they actually got married but instead its gotten worse! He does it right in front of my best friend(his wife) and I know it bothers her because she has cried to me before about it. I would never even think about hooking up with him. What should I say to him to stop?? ( I have already told him numerous times that he is married to my best friend and that he should not talk to me that way)

2007-08-13 11:52:02 · 19 answers · asked by Melanie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

or does anything go through your mind during the act itself? A friend and I were talking about how (what seemed to be) a stray thought seemed to stop her from climaxing.

2007-08-13 11:50:53 · 33 answers · asked by cardpackrat 5 in Singles & Dating

what would you do? Would you make him prove it?

2007-08-13 11:50:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why is it that the more money you make the more money it takes? and how can you get past that feeling??

2007-08-13 11:47:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce