My husband and I have sex every night 4-5 times a night, but everytime we have sex, theres always a mess everytime. Does that mean my husband didnt go inside me and how do you know if the penis went in correctly. We are trying to get pregnant, but we have had no success. How would you know if the penis has gone in?
2007-08-13 12:42:06 · 14 answers · asked by Asha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you can probably feel the damned thing...LOL.
anyhoo, a mess afterwards is very normal. just don't stand up right away after. that's when you get the mess. also, at the point of ejaculation, he should push as far into you as he can get, if you're hoping to get pregnant. you want the semen as far up inside you as you can get it for that. good luck!
2007-08-13 12:47:48 · answer #1 · answered by begeeman13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have sex 4-5 times a night, and you don't know if his penis goes into your vagina? Are you sure you're having sex? You should feel it if it goes in. There will be a mess after words. Most of the semen stays inside, but some does leak out. It can take some couples 6 months to a year to conceive. That and the more you do it, doesn't' mean the more chance. Actually doing it every day 4-5 times a day may lesson your chances. It doesn't give his body enough time to build up a good sperm count.
2007-08-13 12:52:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well lets see, up to 2 months ago you were not married and still a virgin not knowing anything about sex...... Now all of a sudden you are married and having sex 4-5 times every night and can't feel it when he slides it to you? Get a life there youngster.
2007-08-13 13:08:48 · answer #3 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't tell then you need to find a man with a bigger dick! The more you have sex the more thinned out his sperm gets which means no squigglies to impregnate you with. Try laying down for a half hour after you have sex!
2007-08-13 14:56:09 · answer #4 · answered by Dani&Morgan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you both rabbits? Just wondering. Try setting up a camera and watch for yourself. If this continues to be problem then maybe you and hubby need to see your physician. Good luck on getting pregnant.
2007-08-17 07:44:56 · answer #5 · answered by kystarlyte_kystarlight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asha, if you don't know then it isn't in. You would know and feel it if it were. Talk to your husband, communication is key to any sexual relationship. Also, look, it should be visable whether it's in or not. It seems you are young and still learning. Be willing to communicate and explore together. Together, you and your husband will figure it out.
2007-08-13 12:54:37 · answer #6 · answered by shine_radiantstar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are serious that you don't know if it is in or not, you might need somebody with a larger male unit. You should be in the throws of orgasm and know what's going in and out of you.
2007-08-13 12:54:34 · answer #7 · answered by K M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try laying on your back with your legs propped up for a few minutes so it runs in and not out.
2007-08-13 12:50:08 · answer #8 · answered by handyman7799 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun you should feel it go inside...or put it in yourself so that you can feel it!
if you're not doing this,,try having slow sex where you are feeling every movement and when he cums it will be inside of you....
2007-08-13 12:49:46 · answer #9 · answered by SUNSHINE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i mean i would have to watch you guys having sex to make sure it went in correctly, i can also show him how to do it right , and clean , he'd have to watch us though, but yeah free of charge, but you have to be under 150 lbs.
2007-08-13 12:49:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋