what would you do? Would you make him prove it?
2007-08-13 11:50:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would head for a divorce attorney.
2007-08-13 11:56:31 · answer #1 · answered by babydoll 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'd feel like I wasn't good enough women to turn him gay even though that might not be the possible reason. I wouldn't want to make him prove it because saying it takes enough balls as it is. I don't think a guy would say those words unless they were true.
2007-08-13 18:55:43 · answer #2 · answered by Txgirl23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my husband told me he was gay I would grab my clothes and head for the nearest hotel. The next morning I would be at the courthouse filing for a divorce. Him telling me would be proof enough. Even if he was lying to get out of the relationship, that would still ruin my perception of him and make me think that he must want to be gay. I want a man that is 100% man and nothing less.
2007-08-13 19:18:35 · answer #3 · answered by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would be hurt.. and i would ask him how long did he know or suspect that he was gay.. but would ask where do we go from here.. more than likely i would divorce him.. so we could both find someone who really wants to be with us.. and if possible in a few years try to make friends with him.. esp.. if we have children ..he did not choose to be this way.. it is something your born with.. if i did not learn anything else from Y/A i learned that much .. i pop into the lgsb site from time to time to gain insite.. since my daughter is bi...
2007-08-13 19:24:06 · answer #4 · answered by vis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you, it would never happen with my husband! It's impossible to even imagine it! He's a very masculine man, nothing feminine about him at all. I would think he was trying to get rid of me - that he was lying. Yes....he would have to prove it!
2007-08-13 18:56:57 · answer #5 · answered by Maggie Mae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you are a strong woman. After the initial shock I would have divorced him. No...I would not make him prove it.
2007-08-13 19:00:59 · answer #6 · answered by peggy m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get tested for STD's - if he is gay he has brought other people into your bed so to speak. Then find a good lawyer. Good luck.
2007-08-13 20:07:23 · answer #7 · answered by vegasrob89118 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I was married, I would hire an attorney and file for divorce.
2007-08-13 19:19:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that you said it I would make him prove it. That's funny
2007-08-13 18:53:38 · answer #9 · answered by Baby Girl Rylin 5/3/08 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be pretty upset, but if that's how he is he can't help it. Don't blame yourself this is probably very hard for him too. If he is gay, he obviously can't live a lie anymore, let him go and move on.
2007-08-13 19:29:56 · answer #10 · answered by skkydreemer 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋