WHY DO MEN STOP FORE PLAY AFTER THEY HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 10 OR MORE YEARS ?
DRY INSERTION IS LIKE RAPE
2007-08-13 09:12:09 · 26 answers · asked by CINDYLOU 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
not all men stop foreplay, I find that foreplay is part of any sexual act, it makes a woman feel that she is still to be considered when having sex, if he does not i feel that he is only interested in satisfying himself and not the lady he is with.
2007-08-13 09:23:26 · answer #1 · answered by rod.warren 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Now lets not talk about rape...just because there is no fore play, doesn't mean that it's rape. Just because you have had a bad experience, you shouldn't put every man into that catergory. Guys give up on fore play, because it is the same old s**t everytime we get in the bedroom. If the women would try new things, then we would have a lot more foreplay.
2007-08-13 16:22:46 · answer #2 · answered by jon 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You're painting with some pretty broad strokes to say that men (in general) stop foreplay after 10-years of marriage. I'm sure there are some men who just aren't as enthusiastic with their partners after several years together ... and I'm sure there are some selfish partners who don't engage in much foreplay at all. But it's not fair to paint ALL men with that sort of statement or accusation.
Have you TOLD your partner what you want / need in your sexual encounters? Like everything else in a marriage - communication is the key to happiness in this as well.
2007-08-13 16:20:24 · answer #3 · answered by Eric C 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not all men stop foreplay and sounds like this is something you need to talk to your husband about. If sex is uncomfortable for you, I recommend having a lubricant close by. You can always so "no" to sex but that brings up entirely new problems in a marriage. Sex counseling/therapy may help. Your last sentence makes it clear you don't enjoy sex with your husband. Some women do not need foreplay to become aroused, others never become aroused regardless of amount of foreplay. I dated a woman who never required lubrication in the beginning of our relationship but after a couple of months, she dried up. What really dried up was the newness of the relationship and she was ready to move on to new adventures. You see, it all depends!
2007-08-13 16:21:02 · answer #4 · answered by mitscherman 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not sure if you have open communication with your husband. but ill consider you don't while i answer this question! Men take for granted females and emotions quite regularly. they assume that everything is fine if you don't say anything. now that said. communication is the best course to change this situation. Tell him how a women works! women are like car engines you start them up but need to warm up before there ready to drive. Give him details of what you like and show him if your bold enough. He may turn into the most sincere lover if you give him the tools to perform and that is knowledge. I have been married for 10 years and with the help of my wife and talking about sex i know just what buttons to push to put her into bliss. Talk, talk, talk give it a try and let me know how it goes.
2007-08-13 16:29:08 · answer #5 · answered by chris 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I have been married for 14 years. The fore play is still great with us.
2007-08-13 16:30:11 · answer #6 · answered by daveyboyone 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
NEVER done that and never will! Most often I bring my wife to and orgasm with my mouth and hands before I even consider insertion! AND if she does not get another orgasm while the insertion is going on I will continue to pleasure her after I have finished until she has another orgasm.
DON'T have that problem at my house!
2007-08-13 16:55:50 · answer #7 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop foreplay? HELL NO! That's one of the best parts of sex. I've been married for ever 10 years and I couldn't imagine making love to my wife without the foreplay first.
2007-08-13 16:19:11 · answer #8 · answered by Travis E 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How many men have you been married to for 10 years to make this conclusion?
2007-08-13 16:19:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
not to be rude but are you aware that there are lubricants for this reason. It's a really simple solution. I have been married for 12 years and someitmes we just don't have time for foreplay. When we do then we have a great time but if there isn't time then we use lubricant (not ky that stuff is horrible) and we still have an awesome time
2007-08-13 16:16:45 · answer #10 · answered by Jessie 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋