I've been dating my current g/f for a little over a year now. I feel as though I am not attracted to her anymore. Is this something every couple goes through?
2007-08-13 06:00:17 · 17 answers · asked by HopelessOne 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, dump the wench and look for something hotter !
2007-08-13 06:05:42 · answer #1 · answered by Mr Answerman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not really maybe if they have been together for years which i mean 20 or more years. I guess you should ask yourself why you are not attracted to her anymore, is it really her appearance or maybe her attitude or maybe even your attitude has changed. Try to get to the source, maybe you will see that it has nothing to do with her appearance. Have you been fighting lately, or not seen each other as often,.... it could be many things.... When you pin point or atleast have a pretty good idea to why you feel the way you do figure out if it can be resolved and if the negative feelings can go away. Be honest with yourself and if you feel even in the smallest degree that it just can not be resolved then let her go. You will hurt her if you stay with her, cause your negative feelings towards her will only get worse and thats not fair to her. Everyone deserves to be happy so let her and yourself too. But if you find that these feelings toward her can be resolved, you are IN love with her and if you are sure that you can move on to make the relationship better then go for it. but if ur not sure then dont hurt her tell her things aren't the same and you think you should move on, do not tell her your not attracted to her thats not nice maybe she can't help it or maybe its an issue you need to resolve but don't be cruel by saying something that.
2007-08-13 13:41:51 · answer #2 · answered by 2legit2quit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every married couple goes through it. Single people know better. They break it off and start fresh. There are millions of people out there waiting to date you. Start talking to some of them.
2007-08-13 13:12:05 · answer #3 · answered by Cat onahottinroof 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe ur just getting bored with the relationship. Try gowen out for dinner and a movie and see if u can fall for her all over again. If that doesn't work then yea, it prolly is time to break up.
2007-08-13 13:04:49 · answer #4 · answered by Abby Jo 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can try to revive the romance first and if that doesnt work then tell her how you feel and if you dont feel any different after she tries to revive your attraction for her, then i believe it is dunzo. But know that long term relationships are about falling in love, out of love and in love again and again...
2007-08-13 13:06:20 · answer #5 · answered by Catherine la Sardine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes feelings fade for a little bit but come back again (if you really do love her) sometimes she could look unattractive and that could make you feel as you are right now.. maybe you are spending too much time with her and you are getting bored..You need some space and time to think over things.
2007-08-13 13:04:09 · answer #6 · answered by mimi66 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it's only been a year, how do you think you would feel about her in 5 to 10 years?
2007-08-13 13:03:28 · answer #7 · answered by labken1817 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends. If you mean you've lost interest in her sexually, that can be fixed generally. If, on the other hand, she's annoying and irritating, it's probably time to move on. Some of the fire of new love does cool but with effort and skill, you can keep your relationship fresh.
2007-08-13 13:05:28 · answer #8 · answered by Net Rider 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe is a phase?? but i think is too soon to be feeling like that. is there maybe someone else?? do u love her? think about it, maybe u need time, a break, to see if u miss her at all..
my bf is still attracted to me, and i am attracted to him.. and we've been together for more than 3yrs
2007-08-13 13:07:05 · answer #9 · answered by Delilah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup. take her out, do something you find exciting or create something new that will have you bond in a new way, like taking up cooking classes or a shared hobby. ull get attracted to her again if you once were, cos suddendly she will seem interesting again.
2007-08-13 13:06:07 · answer #10 · answered by Clara Cando 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋