so this girl said she lost intrest in me b/c i never asked her on a date, I still really like her. she still texts me and came and saw me and work a couple days ago. so anyway on thursday she just never texted me back ( she got it just never sent anything back) {is was asking her out on a date} so I figured she had quit talking to me and she moved on and I tried to moved on. Then today right as I was getting over her she texted me and asked what I was doing. So I just told her messing around so she said "well text me whenever if ya want to talk to me :) or if not thats fine to lol". So I said "ok :)" then later that night she told me good night and I said "night talk to ya tomarrow if ya want" so she said "ok :) Night". nothing on sunday from her. then today I got a text from her about F.U.C.K
day (Friend's U Want to Keep) and I dont know what to say back to it. What would you say? does she still like me?
2007-08-13 05:57:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds as if she still likes you but is fed up on waiting for you to ask her out. My advice would be to be to ask her out. Fast...
2007-08-13 06:02:34 · answer #1 · answered by jhods400 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohhh boy... relax!
Text messages ruin your life if you don't know how to handle them!
Call me old fashioned, but face to face communication works always better.
According to what you describe, you don't really seem to understand her. For a girl, writing an SMS is already a step. So, don't be afraid. She definitely likes you.
So, now that we are clear about that... she might change her mind if you show so many doubts. You are probably very young, but if you really like her, don't act like a kid. Girls date kids but they fall for real men.
An idea? Ask her out. Don't be pushy, but don't be shy. Forget the text messages, they didn't work for you in the past and probably won't work in the future. Try a more creative approach: casually meet her somewhere and buy flowers for her in the street, ring her telling you've got tickets for a concert, invite her -and her girlfriends- to a party. If you meet her in a different environment, you'll have the chance to talk to her (about anything) and casually drop some kind of invitation.
Prepare your outfit in advance. Try different outfits and choose one that makes you feel sexy. Not like you are trying too hard, only sexy. If you have the chance, buy something new. Like a trendy t-shirt. You need to look (and feel) desirable so girls will capture the vibe.
And finally... do-not-panic. She probably spent the whole afternoon listening to music lying on her bed. You can bring emotions, love and fun to her life.
Good luck!
2007-08-13 13:39:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing I can say is that in order to really figure it out, you need to actually talk to her instead of texting her. If she does like you she's looking for the next step from you. The few things that I have learned in dealing with women throughout my awkward, scary dating years is that women love a guy who is confident, funny, and attentive. So I'd stop with the texting "call me if you wanna" and tell her you'll "talk" to her tomorrow. Then you actually have to do it. Call her. Talk. be funny, Make her laugh. But ask about her. make her your focus. If you like her and you do that, you're almost guaranteed that she'll be all about you. Always be true to your word, and don't be wishy-washy. Some(not all) women like a guy who can make decisions. They like the confidence.
2007-08-13 13:16:32 · answer #3 · answered by mattdeepa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It appears you have entered the friend zone.
You may want to speak to her about your relationship with her. Ask her if she just wants to be friends? I think that is the case. The not texting back after you asked her out was her way of not having to tell you no and still remain friends.
2007-08-13 13:03:41 · answer #4 · answered by ciza29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's still interested in you, but it's not entirely clear if it's as a friend or as a potential date.
If you like her, man up and ask her out already. There's only so hard she can hint if you're not willing to make a move.
2007-08-13 13:02:44 · answer #5 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you need to get face to face with this gal and tell her how you feel. Ask her out and then shut up and wait for her reply. If she hesitates, just wait patiently for her answer. The next person who talks is at a disadvantage so stay silent.
2007-08-13 13:03:18 · answer #6 · answered by Net Rider 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you really fell. If she doesnt fell the same way then tell her even though you said that you want to pretend like it never happend. and that you want to keep your friendship going and you might want to try talking to her a little more in person. send her a letter for F.U.C.K. day about how you feel about her. tell her that you want to be more than friends. try this method if its easier for you to do then tell her in person
2007-08-13 13:07:57 · answer #7 · answered by Ap 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she doesn't know what she wants for sure, so unless you are okay with the game she is playing, I would say it's time for you to cut the ties and look elsewhere.
2007-08-13 13:03:21 · answer #8 · answered by BK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that she wants to keep you as a friend, just not as anything more romantical than that. Just be friends with her and move on.
2007-08-13 13:03:20 · answer #9 · answered by javasplashes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she still likes u and F U C K is not Friend's U Want to Keep) its code for u know what lol try calling her and planning a date
P.S. isnt F.U.C.K friends u CANT keep
2007-08-13 13:03:22 · answer #10 · answered by Him 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋