First of all: There is no fool proof way for any guy to know if a girl is a virgin. Through horseback riding, tampon usage or sports activities, the hymen can be broken naturally, way before intercourse. Therefore, by the time a girl has her "first time", there may be no bleeding at all, and no pain. There is no way for a guy to be 100% sure.
2nd: There is no way to know if a guy is still a virgin. Even extreme awkwardness or swift climax are no ways to guess about his previous sexual habits...it just may mean he is nervous, not too experienced, or overly excited.
So, the only way to know? ASK him. And, no matter what, if you decide to have sex, use proper protection. You CAN get pregnant the first time. It only takes once. And, as much as we want to trust our partners, there are guys out there who will say "I want you to be my first" just so they can get laid...they may not be virgins at all. Protect yourself, and make sure he protects you too....use a condom, properly, every time.
2007-08-13 05:58:02
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answered by Kat 5
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The average guy is not able to tell if a girl is a virgin either until you've been together sexually! [Unless her reputation follows her as otherwise]
The majority of guys would not brag or say they were a virgin... unless they are. Guys in general like to brag about their conquests and most are proud to say they have a great amount of experience... so I would highly doubt he's lying unless you have given him the impression he needs to be a virgin to be with you... then it's possible he'd lie!
Hope that helps:)
2007-08-21 05:43:21
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answered by Sorry 2
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well there is no PHYSICAL way to tell if a guy is still a virgin....although usually virgins (guys) tend to come faster, have difficulty finding "the hole", may be shy when taking his clothes off, may seem unsure of what at times (for example foreplay) or all of the above. the best thing to do if he doesn't show any of these signs is to just ask him for an honest answer and hope for the best =\
2007-08-13 06:01:57
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answered by Anonymous
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Just because it's his first time, doesn't necessarily mean he's going to *** in 30 seconds. Most guys are really nervous when leading up to anything that might lead to sex. They might not even be able to get a full erection. If he says he's a virgin, I'd believe him, simply because guys don't usually lie about that. If anything, they'd lie and say that they weren't a virgin.
2007-08-21 03:45:11
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answered by Shawnne 2
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You got no way of know whether a guy is a virgin or not if he doesn't tell you so. he doesn't have a hymen to break. He maybe arkward in the beginning but that doesn't mean that he is a virgin.
2007-08-21 01:43:52
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answered by mako 5
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Unless she is lacking in libido, she probably doesn't want to have sex with you for a reason. Maybe she doesn't want invest a notch off her bedpost for someone that won't be there for her in the future? Or maybe she doesn't love, since if she really cared and thought that she wouldn't find someone else like you ever, she'd invest in a long-distance relationship. Or perhaps you have a little dick, and she doesn't want to waste her time with you. All I know is that if I loved someone, I wouldn't want to waste a moment with her until she's not there anymore.
2016-05-21 06:53:02
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answered by liana 3
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Ok, first of all, any guy who tells you he can tell whether a girl is a virgin or not is full of absolute crap.
As for being able to tell a guy is or not,......finding a guy w/ enough character that you'd know he's telling you the truth is the best way.
2007-08-13 05:56:05
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answered by Dj 5
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By the way he kisses if he has his mouth shut then he is a virgin and also if he sits like a potato couch all day long
2007-08-21 05:24:39
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answered by ? 6
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Hi,
If they talk a lot about it and of the conquests, they are very possibly still virgin's or look at me I'm an a*** hole and can't please a woman if I tried.
A gentleman will always be honest and respect any woman he has had a sexual affair with.
2007-08-20 10:48:16
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answered by specops@btinternet.com 2
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You can't physically tell if he is or not, you have to ask and then either believe him or not.
For girls, while there can be physical signs, there is no guarantee...sometimes the physical sign won't be there, but she is still a virgin.
2007-08-13 05:55:16
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answered by janicajayne 7
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