I think the same night he left he went and slept with someone else. I can't prove it and I feel the need to know. I told him that night that it was probably not a good idea to continue to see eachother. But I do love him and want to work things out so bad. He has a lot of issues concerning drugs (pot) and wants to be high all the time. So this led up to our origonal fight.
I know I could go meet someone else. But I do love him. What do you think you would do?
2007-08-13 02:26:00 · 8 answers · asked by erinjl123456 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you lead a chaotic life. You need more help than yahoo answers can offer.
2007-08-13 02:32:21 · answer #1 · answered by seashell 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your BOYfriend is just that a boy. he like most pot smokers don't see it as an issue,and never will hell leave you b4 da weed. 2nd if a man and woman fight not argue then it is time to part before one gets hurt. you can't help or save every 1 you love he may be the one that holds you back . use this as a learning experience to weed out the men you don't need in life. sounds harsh buit dating and picking a partner does take time and errors. move on and try to smile.
2007-08-13 02:54:56 · answer #2 · answered by soulrbl34 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for what you are going through. I know I was married to a guy for 10 years who also smoked pot that is the way I met him anyway when I would ask him to atleast cut back he told me that this is the way I met him and he wasn't going to change so I continued to live with him hopeing and praying he would change any way it led to cocaine.
I was no longer happy with this relationship to make a long story short he cheating on me twice, I forgave him the first time but he did it again. we got a divorce (we had no kids) for two years I was on my own but I remember praying to God for a very special man to love me for me, and I truly believe God sent me my knight in shining armour.
What I am trying to say is hold on to what u have but if you are in doubt do what is best for your kids and u. and do alot of praying God will answer u in his timing not yours so please be patient. I now am happy with 2 beautiful kids God bless U and be strong.
Hope this was encouraging for U. Take Care
2007-08-13 02:41:04 · answer #3 · answered by Buttterfly123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you really want to be around someone who is stoned all the time?
what is a stoned person good for? laziness? apathy? concern for nothing else but getting high!?
if he left after your fight and slept with someone else, he was darn lucky to find them... i don't know anyone whou would want to sleep with or associate with someone who is high all the time -- except maybe another stoner or some addict?
and if he would simply go out and have sex with someone else, have you considered sexually transmitted diseases?
your self esteem and dignity must be lacking, hon. i'm not trying to be critical, but please step back and take a good, hard look!! you can't help who you fell in love with, but you certainly can help who you associate with!! why would you want to be with someone like him?
you can do better.
2007-08-13 02:33:44 · answer #4 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hon do you really want to put up with someone that has drug issues, i wouldn't hang around to be bought down to his level, you sound like a smart girl ... move on and heal..........
2007-08-13 02:31:04 · answer #5 · answered by tinkerbell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be doing worse things. Let him smoke and things will be fine. Come to some sort of agreement with him.
2007-08-13 02:31:04 · answer #6 · answered by Jaysen D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he has a drug problem you need to go to church and pray about it and possibly get soemone else to pray with you.
2007-08-13 02:31:04 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
You dont need him......
2007-08-13 02:44:13 · answer #8 · answered by infantcarez1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋