i made a frnd n since i hv been talking to him since last say 15 days v hv fought atleast 3-4 times now i feel dat v shudnt continue with this frndshp cos neither he understands me nor do i,but he is insisting me to continue with this frndship..he is literally fighting with me...wat shud i do? i know him (jaanti hu pehchaanti nahi)since last 3 yrs he is 11 yrs elder to me..he doesnt hv ne frnd so he doesnt want to lose this frndshp...but folks i m not interested...he is just calling though i said no n he is literally shouting on top of his voice on the phone n he wants me to continue this frndship...pls suggest wat to do?
2007-08-13 02:03:38 · 28 answers · asked by jas 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
beat his *** up!better yet,gimme a call and i'll straighten him up!he's a stalker bastard!!
2007-08-20 11:34:12 · answer #1 · answered by electralove88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better watch out.This guy is Mr.Trouble
with a capital T.Try to ignore him.If that doesn't work,tell him politely that you want nothing to do with him.If that too fails, threaten him saying you will lodge a police complaint,if he doesn't leave you alone.Meanwhile,starting immediately
begin taping all his calls.This will stand you in good stead in your future course of action against him.Of course,please keep your parents abreast of everything that has happened so far.Try to check into his background.All this may sound like something out of a mystery novel.But these are the basic steps to reinforce your position in the event
matters do get a little more serious.Consult with
friends too.Above all, be guided by elders who
would be better equipped to deal with the situation.Only don't take matters lightly where this guy is concerned.
2007-08-20 15:28:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is upto no good and if r not interested, why should u continue. just think - y he has no friends? he shouts at u so maybe he is not of a nice character or something like that so he has not enough friends. its better u keep distance from him.
u ignore his call. if u cut his call maybe he keeps on ringing u. so just keep the phone ringing (in silent mode or whatever) when he calls u. avoid him as much as u can by being with ur friends. maybe he wont disturb u when u r surrounded with ur friends.
just remember, if he is shouting at u and forcing u to continue ur friendship knowing that u dont like him, HE IS UPTO NO GOOD. Hope this helps u.
2007-08-13 10:07:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ask for space, eveluate what happened & why he is fiughting 7 what is impacting it in yr life , just consider that if u have to continue then what things he should take care of , note down & let him know by talking or by email! be clear that i want to continue but this things do matter a lot if considers u continue else break off friendship!
2007-08-17 06:44:16 · answer #4 · answered by JAMES 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always listen to your INNER MIND.
When you dont like him then why the hell you should talk to such a hard man?
COme on. If you have a mobile then keep a silent ring tone to his contant number. So whenever he calls u will not knw .
If you are comfortable to change the mobile number then better change it.
If you still have any other problems from him then approach one of your boy frend and tell them to help you. Surely boys will help you.
2007-08-13 09:22:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finish the friendship and move on. He does not want to lose this friendship, that is his problem. U do that which suits u best, let him shout at the top of his voice or let him drown himself.
2007-08-14 00:25:32 · answer #6 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about trying to write in full English and not like you're texting? From what I can actually understand from your problem, you don't need to continue that friendship and you need to cut all ties with him. Friendship doesn't require that much energy and frustration.
2007-08-19 21:50:18 · answer #7 · answered by Ms Hammer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see that happens wheather it be she or he. first without understanding, this kinda fights happen why don't you just try facing him by telling him what you think about his character& then try telling him the solutions in which way he can get rid of that. in that way tell him how to behave friendly with others .like he may be friendly but kind of how to behave even more friendly..if you do this then he might even get friends and you also wouldn't be having any problems.any way good luck
2007-08-14 08:13:43 · answer #8 · answered by green 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To get rid of that annoying friend try spending less time with him and start ignoring him. If he's all in your face, act mad and pretend to be in a bad mood. If he asks you "what's wrong?" Just Nod. Good Luck!
2007-08-20 22:14:09 · answer #9 · answered by November Rain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your parents!
this person sounds dangerous. when he calls you have your dad listen on another line and if the things he says become threatening call the police... seriously. if someone wants to be your friend they dont scare you... and he is way too old to try to hang out with a young person as yourself
2007-08-21 03:15:12 · answer #10 · answered by tanya s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him. Let him shout! Of course if you acknowledge him, he will get a thrill out of everything he does. Naturally, you don't want this kind of man. Forget him.
2007-08-20 01:49:29 · answer #11 · answered by mako 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋