There is this girl who has been initiating call to me over the past 12 days in casual chat ever since I called her to apologize for some of the misunderstanding we had over the past 7 months.
I was quite surprised that last night she had hinted quite openly that she hoped I will not have the misunderstanding that she is into me. (in fact this is the problem we had all these months as back in December-January she initiated me 200++ text and 15 calls in just one and a half month).
My heart is certainly not with her now and I do cherish her as a very good friend as its a miracle that we could possibly sit back and talk casually heart to heart. Something that is pretty unlikely after all these unhappiness.
Frankly, do you feel that girls at time may be sending false signals especially when guys may have feeling for them? I am just asking to clear my doubt. Or I am just too sensitive? I am getting to know another gal and i certainly do not wish to be distracted by her.
2007-08-13 10:29:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, i think she's sending you false signals and trying to keep you on a lease, in case she decides she wants to be more than friends, i mean, one minute shes telling you shes not into you the next shes calling you and texting you......it could be she just really wants to stay being friends with you, but i know how us woman are....apparently she can't make up her mind if she likes you or not so she is trying to keep hold of you in case....your not being to sensitive your being human, we all have feelings and when someone is messing with them and going back and forth it confuses us.....i say move on and keep talking to the other gal and let this girl know that your in a new relationship and its great she still wants to be your friend but you may not have much time for her.
2007-08-13 11:15:12 · answer #1 · answered by Nita and Michael 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the best policy. Tell her that she is very nice but you are not interested in a dating relationship with her and you are too busy right now so you may not be able to answer her calls, text etc. and then don't answer them. She will get the message.
2007-08-13 17:35:03 · answer #2 · answered by TennesseeGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brother, some girls, alot of girls, are just plain confused! Avoid them like the plague cause they will mess you up. If the girl you are with now, makes you happy and is sincere, give your devotion to her! Don't waste your time or your love, on someone who is screwey!
2007-08-13 17:38:23 · answer #3 · answered by Joe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should tell her how you feel and then she will get off your back a little bit. Dont be distracted by her just find another gal and that is all solved good luck x
2007-08-13 17:34:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her your glad that you were able to resolve the misunderstanding, but that you ARE IN another relationship, and will have to stop seeing her entirely.... then pray she's not a slatker psyco.... good luck.
2007-08-13 17:34:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
false signals are just one of the many ways we like to confuse you guys. she could be into you but doesn't want to admit it...maybe she likes to be chased
2007-08-13 17:34:53 · answer #6 · answered by colormehappy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her the truth,that might work,that you just want to be friends,but it seems like shes a stalker!! i would run for the hills!!!!
2007-08-13 17:33:08 · answer #7 · answered by iamthejakkal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your q is very confusing- wish i understood and could answer it!
2007-08-13 17:33:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well not all girl just get to know them first
2007-08-13 17:43:02 · answer #9 · answered by Baby Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she's into you. Make it clear you're not into her.
2007-08-13 17:33:36 · answer #10 · answered by Elie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋