my husband had a text messesage & he said that he let his friend use it for his girl friend?

Question

I found a text mess on my husbands cell phone he said that he let his friend borow it because he did not have a cell phone when i found the text i called the # to find out who it was and she did not answered but then she text back & said god night love I asked hem about it but he is keeping to his story what should my next step be he is always getting out of the room when he is on any phone call and he will not let me see his phone or carrie it. I order the cell phone history phone #'s but he still dosent tell me who's the phone # for

Answer 1

he's probaly hiding something... call the numbers on the phone.. he will leave it somewhere sooner or later when he does check the history... sorry guys, had to say it...lol

Answer 2

Wife to wife.....I have to say that trust is the key in any relationship and especially in a successful marriage. I would ask once more then I would let him know what my next step would be....I would get the records and call the number. I wouldn't accuse him of a thing until you are CERTAIN...he is cheating cause you don't want to look like a fool. Get the records let him know that you want a true answer all the while you are calling that number and leaving a message stating that you are the wife and you just want to get your facts straight.....If he's actually doing something then it will surface sooner or later....But if he actually let a friend use it...I would ask the friend after all you are just concerned about your relationship with your husband.....who can fault you for that....good luck

Answer 3

I would have to agree with Lazy on this one.

If I had a text message on my phone and I wasn't cheating then I would go out of my way to reassure my partner by asking the friend talk to my partner if indeed it was my friend who used the phone. Or dial the number together and speak to the other person.

The fact that your hubby isn't going out of his way to reassure you that it isn't what it seems makes it look more like what you're afraid might be the truth.

Persist in questioning. It's your right and you deserve to know the truth. And if does turn out to be the worst, then you guys can get counselling. It doesn't have to be the end of the world.

I'm sorry you're going through this. It must feel awful. :( . Good luck luv.

Answer 4

That sounds a little suspicious..he said he let a friend use it, but then he carries his phone around all the time and won't let you see it..I don't think he would act like if it was nothing..and he won't tell you who the number is for?..that's really suspicious to me..did you try and call the number from another phone?..I probably would have done the same thing as you..ordering the history.

Answer 5

He may or may not be lying. But just last night I got a text out of the blue from some guy who thought I was a stripper he had met at a club, so she apparently gave him the wrong number to avoid him. But if he already has a story, and he says its his friends girlfriend, I think you need proof, I would get the so called girlfriend over there, with the friend, and confront them about it. But know that his friend may go along with the lie, and work up a scheme so that it looks like she really is his best friends girlfriend....I have used that excuse in a past relationship......

Answer 6

The answer is, the phone # is of a woman he's romantically interested with. C'mon, do you really believe the b/s story about letting his "friend" use the cell phone? Don't be a sucker. What to do next is up to you. Are you ok with the fact that your husband is having a fling with someone?

Answer 7

Yeah...sure. Heard it all now. To begin with, any male or female that allows text messages from the person they're screwing (other than your spouse) is an idiot and asks for trouble. Now...any male or female who tosses out such a sorry excuse to those messages like your husband is really a moron.
You do realize that he thinks your stupid don't you? I mean...to give you an excuse as lame as that. Then again...he obviously has no respect for you anyway seeing as how he's dipping his wick into someone else so why should he tell you the truth?
I hope you don't swallow this silly story he's telling you madam. Take a step back and then swiftly kick him square in the balls. In fact...twice. Once for me if you don't mind.

Answer 8

it's simple, he's having an affair...and chances are that the other lady is also invovled with someone. that is why she didnt' answer. come one, you can't really believe his story, can you? it would have been one thing if he really let his friend borrow it (which was a b.s. story anyways), but then how can he explain the text message she sent back? do not let him convince you of his story. get the phone bill and find out how many other times they've talked or texted. see how long it's been going on for and at what times of the day/night they talk or meet.

Answer 9

OMG The exact same thing happened to me and he LIED big time!!!! The last straw was when she left a text msg on his phone saying "SHE IS SUPPOSE TO BE A WORK NOW" and I swear the bastard jumped up like that house was on fire and left. When he came back I asked him what was wrong then I told him to get out of my house and we have been separated for a year now and I am happier now than I was with him. I am not saying to leave your husband, but that is what I did. It hurted so much to be without him but my life is better now. It was so bad I was losing weight left and right drinking everyday. My family and friends thought I was smoking crack, now I am a back to normal and I sleep at night. The choice you make has to be your own........ I made the right decision with my life and I feel and look better without HIM. Oh yeah they are not together anymore and he is in jail. Asking for me to come see him and write him. I DONT THINK SO.......I LOVE MYSELF!!!!!!!

Answer 10

Im sorry to say, but I think this is definetly suspicious behavior. If this "friend" had no phone, surely the girlfriend would know! And the texts would say "Hi, this is ____. just wanted to say..." The fact that he doesnt let you hold the phone and walks out every time he's on it is definetly major red flags!
I know its hard, but you have to confront him. Tell him you know he is lying and you dont trust him anymore. Tell him you have to have his phone and if he doesnt give it to you, its shows he is hiding things from you and its not ok.
You can even try to get that number and call and text on your phone and say its him, to see what comes back...
hope everything works out!

Answer 11

i might text fabric the extensive form and say " i'm sorry to difficulty u yet my husband forgot his cellular and that i've got been given the text fabric and grow to be wanting to take a message for him, can i help u?" which will remedy the situation authentic rapid. And if he starts off yelling oh nicely a minimum of the lady knows of hes married, top? whilst he makes use of his telephone interior the subsequent room stick to him in there and say in a noisy voice "Honey come on out and take a seat with me so as that they could hear" Or replica the extensive form down and later whilst hes long gone call it and say " My husband and that i shop getting texts from this extensive form and can decide to understand who the texts are comeing from, can i help u discover somebody?"