You're with a girl/guy, and you're not quite sure how you feel about them. You like them a lot, sure, but you wonder if theres someone better out there for you (and i don't mean just better looking, just someone more suited to you).. and so you cheat on them with a guy/girl you quite like. But this guy turns out not to be able to compare with the guy/girl you're with. Does cheating therefore make you appreciate the person you're with more?
2007-08-13 08:57:48 · 29 answers · asked by Libra ♎ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Cheating is never good in any situation. If you're not sure about a person, then maybe you should'nt be with that person, if you like more than one person, stay single until you decide which one you really like. Plus a cheating person looks bad, its really really bad rep, especially if the cheater is a girl.
2007-08-13 09:06:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
>>You're with a girl/guy, and you're not quite sure how you feel about them. You like them a lot, sure, but you wonder if theres someone better out there for you.
Why would you be with someone "you are not quite sure how you feel about"???? You're wasting your time...... you're free to date as many people as you like, but NOT while being in an exclusive relationship. If those had been the terms you BOTH initially agreed upon then fine (i.e. he has the right to date other girls too, just to see whether they're better than you or not), but this is not the case. So no, I don't think that "appreciating" your current BF more now makes your cheating right.
In any case, I want to be with someone I LOVE, and not with someone I just "appreciate a lot". And when you love someone truly, you just don't cheat.
2007-08-13 09:15:24 · answer #2 · answered by Lprod 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're pretty twisted. What a warped sense of love and relationship you have. Cheating tells a person about the integrity of the person that is cheating.
There's nothing wrong with dating around but you have to be straight with everyone involved and let them know that it's just dating. With that said you shouldn't be taking your clothes off with any of them because that just make you a slut or whore. Have some respect for yourself and the guys you're dating.
Something that means so little to you might mean something completely different for them. With sex emotions get in the way and people get hurt.
Do everyone a favor and don't cheat.
2007-08-13 09:07:18 · answer #3 · answered by Rick 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No,cheating is always wrong.If you feel the urge to cheat then maybe the two of you should go on a break, and thats when you can mess around w/other ppl.If you then realize that you screwed up and miss your ex and they're willing to be w/you again...that a better way then cheating.Cheating will only cause trust barriers.My ex did that to me and came back and I couldn't trust him w/anything.Once a cheater, always a cheater.You should already appreciate the person yuo're w/and should not feel the need to want to be w/somebody else. My advice to you is get less involved in a relationship and date around first. Good Luck!
2007-08-13 09:11:02 · answer #4 · answered by confusedluv 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When someone cheats and they appreciate their partner that they cheated on, doesn't mean that you appreciate them more, it's just your guilty consciences trying to apologize of what you did wrong to that person. Cheating doesn't make things any easier. It just complicates your feelings and makes it even more confusing to make an informed decision.
If you think that there is someone better than the one your dating now, just break-up with him/her or take some time off. But don't cheat.
2007-08-13 09:07:26 · answer #5 · answered by sweet_truth 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, cheating makes you a distrusting slu*t! Its not right to cheat on anyone for no matter what reason. If u are questioning the one u are with then that person isnt for u. U could at least take a break if not break up w/ that person or what have u. How can the person u cheated on appreciate u?
2007-08-13 09:08:39 · answer #6 · answered by Sick of F*ckwits 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I suppose it does but in the same sort of way that cutting off one hand makes you appreciate having ten fingers. Really wise people figure that out without having to endure the physical trauma. See, learning goes both ways: while you may learn that no one compares to the partner you had in the first place, your partner is also learning that he/she's matched up with a backstabbing, untrustworthy cheater and will likely kick you to the curb. There's better (and more mature) ways to handle your business.
2007-08-13 09:13:40 · answer #7 · answered by Captain S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-15 14:01:08 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it would cause you to realize the person you cheated on is a better match for you, however you may well lose them in the process...would you be okay if your guy went out and fooled around with others, to verify to himself if he really wanted to be with you or not?
Some couples come out of cheating experiences with their relationship stronger than it was prior...but that's not the norm, nor would I choose to go through that experience (being cheated on, nor would I cheat) in an attempt to reach that goal.
Bad karma.
2007-08-13 09:05:10 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
sure it might prove to you that the person you are with is/was a good choice, however, I have been cheated on before and let me tell you, it completely crushed me inside and out... I went through about a month in my life where I didn't care if I lived or died... its NOT right, no matter what, and that I am 100% sure of.
2007-08-13 09:04:56 · answer #10 · answered by Jack B 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋