Shes alway freaking out about her space and claiming she's just not a phone person anymore and she's always making excuses about why we cant spend time. I feel like if you love someone and you mean it when you say you do spending a little time and answering the phone shouldnt be a problem. Right or Wrong?
2007-08-13 08:31:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're sitting there for hours on end with neither one of you talking, it tends to get a bit boring.
2007-08-13 08:38:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coming from a girl perspective, the last time [and the only time] i've ever done that to a guy was when I really wanted to end things but couldn't bring myself to do it. I mislead him for 3 months, putting him on the back burner in hopes of finding someone better, and if I couldn't then i'd go back to him. I avoided him at all costs, never picked up the phone, and made the lamest excuses to not spend time with him. The reason why I didn't end things was because he put up with it, so if I wanted him, I knew he'd be around. I had enver done that to anyone before, in fact I had just recently ended a 2 year relationship. I put this guy on hold for awhile and started dating one of my ex's again. That didn't work out, but I finally told the guy it was over. She's not a bitc* and she's probably not doing this with bad intention. No matter what anyone tells you, honestly, her feelings have probably changed. And you're probably thinking how could that be? Well it will happen to you, trust me, everyone goes through it, then you'll understand. I can't bring myself to break someone's heart, maybe she's the same way. You never know. Talk to her about it, and give her the chance to be honest with you. Ask her if her feelings have changed. You might not want to hear the truth, but it''s the best thing for you, and it could open up a lot of new doors.
2007-08-13 15:43:15 · answer #2 · answered by willkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude it is time to let her go! I wouldn't be surprised at all if she was straying. It all boils down to 1 simple thing: Are you still happy? It sure doesn't seem like it. You should confront her about it, and let her know that you are now having doubts about your relationship. Also, it sounds like you're a younger guy-if you are younger than say 23 you shouldn't be locked down in a really serious relationship yet anyway. Go get out there and test the market, bro. I think that any time there are huge swings in someones personality (outside of normal chick mood swings) there HAS to be some major change in her life. If she isn't cheating on you, then if SHE cares she'd let you know what's wrong.
2007-08-13 15:42:46 · answer #3 · answered by The Ball Coach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, i dont think shes cheating. i just think maybe she needs her space, are you crowding her? are you making her feel like she needs so much space? stop making her feel like that?! then she wouldnt. maybe you should make her feel like she wants you and she misses you and she wants to talk to you. I know she doesnt make excuses why you both cant spend time because everytime u asked her to spend time she does it even when she doesnt feel like it. you give her NO credit! she does spend time and answer the phone but that doesnt mean she has to do it EVERYTIME you want her to do it. give her some space, get a hobby, get a job
2007-08-16 16:40:22 · answer #4 · answered by Fit 4 A King 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋