Been seeing a guy at the gym for about 1 year. Realize that we have only seen each other maybe 15 times in the year b/c our workout days are not always the same. He glances at me sometimes and I do the same to him. I am very attracted to him. I am quite shy but have been bold enough to grin at him on one occasion. He walked past me once (went out of his way to do so) but did not make eye contact, I was on a workout machine. Is he shy or not interested? He doesnt talk to any girls at the gym....but he does check some out. He is not a macho hunk and he does not show off. He works out with a guy friend. Thanks for your help.
2007-08-13 09:00:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like he's not sure if u are interested. he could be waiting for u to react more. hell. go talk to him.
2007-08-13 09:12:47 · answer #1 · answered by bigdaddyiowa1984 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probaly has a girlfriend. I go to the gym 6 days a week, and one of the most attractive things to me is a girl in the gym. I guess it's because I like the fact that girls in the gym seem to take care of themselves. I check out almost every gir; in the gym. I don't stare, I don't do it pervertedly, but to me like I said a girl in the gym is very sexy. You have to remember that a gym is not the best or most private place to start talking to someone. Any girl I have talked to from the gym was either when I saw them out, or as maybe they were walking to there car. If I was shy I would never talk tot agirl from the gym, because that would mean having to see someone that shut you down on a consistent basis. I think that if he hasn't talked to you yet, that your best bet on getting to talk to him would be somewhere outside the gym.
2007-08-13 09:16:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, he could be gay. You'll never know unless you try to strike up a casual conversation about something you mutually might have in common (horrible trainers, the smelly locker rooms, all the makeup women wear to the gym even though they're suppose to be working out).
I've been stared at intently by a guy on my daily commute for about two months now. He shows no signs of coming out of his shell, either. I don't think he's gay; he seems to have a keen liking for women's backsides, but still that doesn't necessitates that he's gonna feel comfortable in the circumstances to approach me. Either I have to move myself to a more approachable stance or make the move myself. I haven't decided if I'm interested enough yet to do either. For now, the staring is fine with me. Sort of makes me feel a little sexier throughout the work day. Good for the self-esteem. Ha!
It's the same with you. Either approach him or position yourself so that it's easier for him to approach you. Or better yet, try to approach his friend to see what's up, if that doesn't seem too weird for you. Leave him a business card or quick note at the front desk, with his friend, on his car windshield, whatever. If you really want to know, you're probably going to have to make the move or you'll be sitting on your elliptical wondering eternally if he gives a better ride (every applicable pun intended). Ha!
2007-08-13 09:15:14 · answer #3 · answered by dangerouspoet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you got to do to find out for sure is to work out in a machine close to him but ask him, "Hey, do you know how to use this correctly?" If he is interested, he'll start a conversation (provided he is socially competent). If he is not and gives you a short, useful answer, then don't worry, there's plenty fishes out in the sea.
2007-08-13 09:13:08 · answer #4 · answered by vinnytheblack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him to find out
Hi, my name is________ is always a good starting point---
2007-08-13 09:11:01 · answer #5 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋