2007-08-13 09:08:05 · 52 answers · asked by lovegirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I've searched your questions. It sounds like you have some big problems in your marriage/relationship. Are you being open to him and telling him your feelings? The best thing to do is to have an open relationship. If he isn't willing to do it, then he is not the right guy. It doesn't matter that you two have two kids. Because you have two kids, does it mean you have to stay together even if you are unhappy. When you are unhappy, the kids are unhappy. And if he really loves you, when you are unhappy, he shouldn't be happy, and should be trying to find out how to make you happy. You should be his everything, and if you are not, he is not the one. You both have to make sure that the other one's happiness is priority. If he's not happy, then you are not happy and you try to find a way to make him happy. If you are not happy, then he's not happy and he should try to find a way to make you happy. You both should be each other's priority. If not, try to change it, if can't then get out of the relationship. It only get's worse.
Look, my husband is clueless, but he want's to please me and make me happy. So I have to be very verbal and open with him and honestly, very patient. I know he adores me, he just doesn't know what and how to treat me so I am constantly training him. Now, this doesn't me I control him, by no means. He has a strong personality, but is open to me teaching him about me and about women, and I'm open to him teaching me about him and how or how not to be around him. Luckly he's easy going, I'm not. I'm really critical and that's where the patience comes in with both of us. There is bending/giving with both us. We've been married 10 years. It has to be 50-50. I hope this helps. You deserve the best.
2007-08-13 17:56:40 · answer #1 · answered by timzapasn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not a marriage at all without trust.
Love=trust
trust=marriage
no trust=no love
no love=no marriage
There you have it LOL!
2007-08-13 09:12:54 · answer #2 · answered by LeBenze 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to work on that trust in order to go any further with your relationship. There is not much of a marriage without trust, but it is something that can be worked on if both parties are willing. Good Luck to you!!
2007-08-13 09:16:51 · answer #3 · answered by frawlicious 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A marriage without trust is nothing.
2007-08-13 09:12:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
A marriage without trust is like a bird trying to be with a fish. Trust is the air the birds breathe and the water fish live in. Without that, a bird and fish can't be together, they would just hurt eacother. You may be attracted to eachother and want to be together, but you have to be able to stay alive to do it. So without trust, you can't fly and he can't swim!
2007-08-13 09:17:37 · answer #5 · answered by Steve S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A trust less marriage would most likely not bee good. It would lead to suspicion and then suspicion would lead to accusations and accusations would lead to arguments and from there it could only get worse.
I think that trust can be regained sometimes though. So be positive and work on establishing trust again.
2007-08-13 09:15:58 · answer #6 · answered by brwnidjkmo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't trust someone you don't love them. So, there is no marriage at all! There is just to people who are constantly worrying about what the other person is doing.
2007-08-13 09:14:58 · answer #7 · answered by CB 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not much of a marriage if there is not trust. If you are always wondering what they are up too or if they are lying to you then you are not truly happy. Happiness is the key to life.
2007-08-13 09:14:32 · answer #8 · answered by livinlarge4473 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll go out on a limb and say it's the same as a marriage without thet whole trust thing goin on.
2007-08-13 09:12:25 · answer #9 · answered by chaoss13 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
a marriage with out trust is nothing!
2007-08-13 09:59:46 · answer #10 · answered by nikie_atkinson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋