Family & Relationships - 7 August 2007

I got Pokemon Diamond for my DS a couple of weeks ago and I've been obsessed with it. My girlfriend and I have been on two dates since and she always whines because I play my DS during that time. She is driving me up the wall. It's always, "Why can't you put your DS away and play it later?" and all this other annoying garbage.

Please tell me she's being ridiculous. How do I tell her I'm going to play my DS on our dates no matter what happens?

2007-08-07 05:45:21 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-07 05:41:49 · 28 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-07 05:40:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We were having a conversation about our relationship and I mentioned something about my tatoos and he said, "That's another thing, I said I would never marry a woman who smokes or has tatoos." Ditto with the smoking. My tatoos are not gaudy, and are only visible if I so choose and two of them I got after we got together. He only found out about the first one after he saw me naked. I made the statement that it is silly to say you won't be with someone because they have tatoos. I asked him if he would have left me or not even approached me had he known I had a tatoo and he said its different with me. How is it any different? Would it not be the same with anyone you are dating and getting to know? If you don't like it you just don't like it no matter what the circumstances?

2007-08-07 05:39:06 · 25 answers · asked by MeMe 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok. I'm trying to get divorced. My ex lied on our marriage license about their madin name, so we wouldn't have to show a death cer. Since she lied are we even legaly married?

2007-08-07 05:38:43 · 7 answers · asked by for_runner0 2 in Marriage & Divorce

she is 18 and 5'0 and i am 14 and 6'1 she knows how old i am and she says that age dosent matter but my parents say that it is illegal. We get along so well and we are perfect for eachother and we are deeply in love but i dont know what to do???

2007-08-07 05:37:13 · 49 answers · asked by Jake p 1 in Singles & Dating

They Say: "if all a man wants to do is take you to bed, he has NO interest in you personally”.
Why would he do this to me?He married to someone else .He told I was too cheap since I slept with him .He himself asked me to sleep with him. I feel awful! I slept with him too soon because I loved him.He said the reason he married another woman is that I was cheap and not classy.Why are men like this?

2007-08-07 05:34:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-07 05:32:12 · 10 answers · asked by Brittney D 1 in Singles & Dating

He says that he doesn't like kissing, he can go 3 or 4 days without sex, and I know for a fact he is not cheating. He does alot around the house and with the kids, its just me he seems so distance, and I've asked him about it and asked if he wants to leave me and he says no he loves me. Please help I just feel so distance from him.

2007-08-07 05:31:32 · 6 answers · asked by shorte716 6 in Marriage & Divorce

when in a arguement, why do they just sit there and look at you, and say nothing. i dont understand. dont even try to defend themselves and actions, just sit and stare. what is that?

2007-08-07 05:28:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my boy friend has put me down to his family a lot. i dont understand why and i have talked to him about it. my concern is that ,even if we can fix our problems would he stay with me even if they dont like me. P.S. he is aware that they dont like me because of the things he said that were not true. are there to many cards stacked against me?

2007-08-07 05:27:35 · 7 answers · asked by booboo91379 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-07 05:26:43 · 48 answers · asked by Sassy Shut Your Mouth 5 in Singles & Dating

I wanna know what YOU think!

2007-08-07 05:24:28 · 30 answers · asked by <3 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm suppose to be the Maid of Honor at my friends wedding in November. Unfortunately, my friend is a bridezilla from hell and I can't stand her anymore. Is it effed up to back out of the wedding and will she forgive me?

2007-08-07 05:24:07 · 16 answers · asked by Sweet Tooth 2 in Weddings

I would like to hear from people who are in an open relationship about how it works and if they recommend it.

2007-08-07 05:23:37 · 9 answers · asked by badgoodgirl06 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have read from articles that your spouse does not want to hear that "you love them" or they don't want to hear how you are going to improve the marriage. What are some other techniques that can be used? Should you never plead with your partner or do whatever your partner wishes? What are you supose to do? Please no silly answers like, "just leave her"

2007-08-07 05:17:49 · 47 answers · asked by Mike 4 in Marriage & Divorce

This other person has been around for about 3 months, doing construction jobs on our house, since the death of her mother. The affair lasted 3 weeks. And it was premeditated. They went out together and each got an AIDS test before having sex for the first time. (There was no reason for her to do so, she did it for him.)

I found out a week ago today. My first instinct was divorce and I immediately sought out an attorney. We saw a marriage counselor and it seemed their might be a hope for reconciliation. Then she back out and said it was over. She couldn't leave him.

That night she had a change of heart and called off the affair and said she was home to stay. But then latter said that she still loved him and would need to see him as a friend. I said, "no way", walked out, and set my mind on divorce again.

Then she apparently had another change of heart and said she didn't need to see him again. It was over. But how will I ever know if it's really over?

2007-08-07 05:14:02 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 20 & single. I'm a fresh College graduate.Now I'm working for awhile in my aunt's biz.Before, i promised myself to focus on my studies so i would finish my studies without any distractions from having a boyfriend. I was secure of myself & busy with my studies that i have no time for love. I was happy & contented. But recently, i get jealous seeing my co-worker being liked by a guy that i liked.I don't understand why i get angry at myself & i felt mad at her hearing them talking so sweet & flirting w/ each other.I felt so bad at myself why i can't make him like me.I may not be that pretty but i'm prim & proper,an average-looking gal.I'm 5'2"in height,fair-skinned & slim.I know it's bad that i'm envious at my friend for being charming,sweet & pretty that made this guy i liked to fall for her & not me.I tried to discourage myself saying "Hey, he's 2 yrs. younger than you, he's not worth it,there's still other guys around.".But still it hurts so much deep inside.I can't get over it.

2007-08-07 05:10:41 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymity 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend Kim was supposed to be getting married in May 08. She is still with her fiance but they have decided to call the wedding off as they feel it is going too fast. I am getting married next Aug she has offered me her three bridesmaid dresses and she is one of my bridesmaids. I have four in total but the three she has offered me would be perfect and I would then only have to buy another one at full price for my chief bridesmaid. The problem is another of my bridesmaid, Sarah, has said to me she feels it is a bad idea that I buy these as two of them would have to be adjusted for her and Kim, by two to three dress sizes. I don't think this is the real problem, but she does. But Kim is very happy for me to have them, she would rather I did than some stranger. Sarah is also getting married in Sept this year and is under a lot of stress right now so I think this may be another reason she seems to be sulking over the suggestion. Am I wrong to take the offer? Sarah seems to be sulking!

2007-08-07 05:08:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

ummm yah i asked a couple questions on whether i should tell this girl y i was so nervous when i was around her, and i was nervous cuz i wanted to ask her out and put my arm aruond her, and i just told it to her on msn, and all she said was oh, what does this mean?

2007-08-07 05:03:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've been together for 3 years and have a 10 month old baby and now he's asking for a threesome with a guy. He's really getting persistent about it. I think that I will enjoy it although I am nervous and have a bit of a moral objection to it now that I am a mother and I don't know why? What do you think? Am I unjustified in my hesitancy or is he asking for something he shouldn't. I want to give him what he wants, I love him, and I do think it will be fun. But again, I don't know if it's right for me or the kind of relationship I want to have with him.

2007-08-07 05:02:50 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok so b4 my birthday i told my friend that i liked him a lot and then a couple days later i asked him out and he said idk right now since we haven't chilled, so we made plans to hang out and they went through and we had loads of fun so then after we hung out and stuff i asked him if he had an answer for me and he said no i don't so i asked 2 more times within the same week and he still don't so i told my friend and she said just give up on him cuz hes making you wait all this time, i don't know what to do either wait or just give up? help me!

2007-08-07 05:01:40 · 20 answers · asked by kate M 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't know how to tell him, I know he still loves me, but I no longer love him. I know it will crush him. I will always care about him. But, I don't love him anymore and it's NOT because I love someone there is no one else involved. I'm just not happy with him any more.

2007-08-07 05:01:13 · 35 answers · asked by Jade N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Also why do you think most of those books are geared towards women? as though women ALONE are responsible for the success/failure of a relationship?

2007-08-07 05:00:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I found out that my boyfriend does weed...I can cope with his other bad habits...but i cant believe that he's into pot. I feel hurt and confused because i have this feeling that he's not the one that im used to dating. We've been together for 6 years and he's into weed for at least a year or two even though he knew that i don't like it.

I used to work ith troubled teens and inmates, helping them and talking them out of doing drugs. And found out that my own boyfriend is doing it.

I've talked to him about it and he promised to stop. But I still feel down and disappointed....Does anyone know how i feel? What do you think about this? Am i overreacting?

2007-08-07 04:59:51 · 13 answers · asked by pretty asian 5 in Singles & Dating

can men really tap into the emtoioal aspect as women can?

2007-08-07 04:58:32 · 6 answers · asked by girl 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't really know about this guy I heard her talking to her friend,Taylor and saying she hopes that she can have sex and get her first kiss on the date.She is almost 16 years old,she will be 16 in 1 week.I mean I want my daughter to be happy and all but I mean sex?Should I stop her from going on the date or should I lay back and relax?I don't know what I should do so what do you think?

2007-08-07 04:58:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My brother was caught cheating on his wife. She had proof that he has been cheating, and he refuses to admit it. She threw him out of the house. I am very close to her, and I understand that she has to do this. How can I help them sort this out so they can at least be good parents to their two children even if they are not married? I offered her to move in with me, I have a spare room. Is this going against my brother? I am thinking about my nice and nephew.

2007-08-07 04:57:19 · 17 answers · asked by ACE Tx 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok well me and my boyfriend have been going out for like 4 or 5 months now and we ,do all the usual stuff make out but when we r making out he will always grap my butt and thats fine with me and then he will grap my breastsand thats fine with me to . . and i mean he gets really horny sometimes and i am sure most guys do .. . but i am just wondering what will the next step be and does he want sex ? AND i am not 13 this is my sisiters account i just use it some of the time THANX

2007-08-07 04:53:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, i've been friends with this guy(call him G) since we were kids. he's been dating this major slut for a few months, and for some reason, she hates me. she does all this subtle- btchy crap, and is always so fakey with me. G and i have been crushed on each other on and off for a long time. But i have never even come close to acting on this. In fact i now barely even talk to G now because she is so mean to me whenever i do. The worst part is she acts so innocent around the guys and G. But she dresses like a total slut. I go to a small school and i am sick of being nice to her just so everyone won't think i'm a jerk. I am just so over the whole thing I can't get over how much i hate her. What's sexier blonde or brunette

2007-08-07 04:51:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating