Family & Relationships - 7 August 2007

I am getting married in September.My fiance and I decided that we would not want any kids at our wedding UNLESS they were a part of the wedding party. At first my friends daughter was going to be a part of the wedding. Long story short now she isnt because we decided there is no way she would be able to walk down the aisle without crying for her mother. Our wedding invitation states "Adult reception" . Our rsvp date was August 1st. It is now the 7th and I have not gotten her rsvp back. Do I call her to find out if she is coming or not? I dont want her to just show up with her daughter. What do you suggest I do. P.S We told everyone including family no children allowed.

2007-08-07 02:53:39 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-08-07 02:53:04 · 8 answers · asked by juanita2_2000 7 in Singles & Dating

I already have some great friends who treat me well, but one in particular is nasty when she doesn't get her way. She tells me that I would be the cause if she ever commited suicide because my parents won't let me spend the night at her house, she was bluffing. She also said last week that I cheated in a game (I didn't) at her party and she sent me home. She really upsets me and stresses me out. At my school it never matters how your friends treat you, the more you have the better, but I'm not like that. I would rather have 1-2 good friends then a bunch of nasty ones. my question is, should I not be friends with this girl anymore?

2007-08-07 02:52:02 · 10 answers · asked by Emilia 3 in Friends

We have only been dating for about 3 months now. He has taken me to a wedding to meet old friends and family. Now this last weekend he wanted me to meet friends from school that were out of town. Why all this meeting?


It's not a bad thing. Just wondering if this means he is quite serious about me or if it is a typical thing for guys to do. Well it couldn't be typical b/c in my 15 years of dating it has never happened. excuse me for being a lil taken back.

2007-08-07 02:49:56 · 9 answers · asked by :o) 3 in Singles & Dating

my husband started a new job and is 3 weeks into training. this is his last week. at the start he mentioned that there was an old lady that lives a couple of streets over from us and in the same street as my uncle. well at the end of 2nd wk i found a piece of paper on fridge with her name address hm ph and mobile on it my gut feeling was he's been takin her to work. the next morning i followed him and i was right. he said he didn't mention it to me because it wasnt a big deal. how can you take someone to work and home everyday and not mention it to your wife. we have been fighting on and off since i found out. i just cant except why he never mentioned it. i ask him all the time is something going on and he says no she is an old granny & i tell him i dont know that for sure. he then said if i want to meet her she hangs out at the local pub. i dont like him taking her to work regardless of her age. i just cant get my head around it im going crazy with thoughts he is having an affair.

2007-08-07 02:49:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I will be living overseas in Egypt for awhile, it could be a few years even. We'll be living in a small town so it's really impossible almost for me as a woman to find a job. Are there any ideas out there for projects, online work, or just what i can do to occupy my time while he's off during the day at work?

2007-08-07 02:49:14 · 9 answers · asked by Allison H 2 in Marriage & Divorce

first : thank you fotr the poem
second : what do you think about me ?

2007-08-07 02:47:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

How did you feel or are you feeling Didnt you feel uncomfortable or arent you feeling uncomfortable because it wont be the same between you 2. you will not be as free as you were with her or him but in this case its a him.

2007-08-07 02:45:59 · 1 answers · asked by FREEDA 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend tells me that im sext and hot and beautiful but i wonder sometimes. when i look in the looking glass i have no clue what hes talking about but what do you think.

http://www.myspace.com/aleeadanae

2007-08-07 02:45:11 · 26 answers · asked by FireFly 2 in Singles & Dating

Since I'm having so much fun with this site, I'm asking the age old question, which do guys prefer more: (1) a girl that can drink with em', hang out with them and their buddies, not nag em' to death, get down & dirty and play; and not have to spend an hour getting ready just to go out; OR (2) a girl who looks like she just stepped out of a photo-shoot but has the IQ of a snail and would cry if she smeared her lipstick.

As far as the sex goes, both are the same, only difference is looks v. personality.

2007-08-07 02:45:07 · 10 answers · asked by TxGurly27 2 in Singles & Dating

His wife has asked me over to go throu his things. cause she is giving it to salvation army. and she thought i might want a few things. i was wondering should i hit on her. its been a week since he passed. so she got to be getting sexualy frustrated by now

2007-08-07 02:44:34 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I want to meet my future wife in high school. Here is my outline.
Go to college. Major in Meterology.
-Doctors Degree(age 27)
-Get Married(25-27)
- Get a Job for the first 3-5 years(27-32)
- Have two-three children(30-40)

2007-08-07 02:42:22 · 13 answers · asked by novapri39 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How many out there use a vibe during intercourse? Like, holding it on the "spot" while you are doing it. Just curious. my wife always uses one. I don't have a problem with it, but I think she has gotten to where she doesn't want to do it without it. i mean she doesnt have to use it, but I guess it intensifies things.

2007-08-07 02:36:57 · 11 answers · asked by DMV 1 in Marriage & Divorce

just curious about his past..to him better..what happen they didnt last..ect..ect.. ect..

2007-08-07 02:34:52 · 27 answers · asked by waki! 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Isaid, I don't have a problem leaving a marriage with what I came in their with. Do you think by him asking this, he may be considering marrying me?Or do you think it was just a general question?

2007-08-07 02:34:26 · 36 answers · asked by Ari's Mom 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am curently in a relationship with "victoria". For certain reasons we were on and off for 2 years (nothing we did wrong) but every time i was in a realtionship i would always see my first crush, stacie. I went to middle school with stacie when i was 13, we talked maybe a couple times, but for me it was love at first sight i guess.. Long story short thats as far as i got with her, but through out the years i've always seen stacie when i was with a girl, and then my mind starts wandering. Well last night I had a dream i saw stacie (it was a graduation) and i asked for her number and she gave it to me.. Whats this all mean?? I love "victoria".. she really is my everything.. I'm 22 by the way and i find it odd i still think about my crush of 9 years ago..

2007-08-07 02:33:53 · 4 answers · asked by twiztid642 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

With kids involved.

2007-08-07 02:33:01 · 23 answers · asked by bamagrits84 3 in Marriage & Divorce

have you ever dated a married man? or even slept with 1? my friend is !!!!!

2007-08-07 02:28:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I suggested the "break" when things got really serious. Call it cold feet, if you will. I tried seeing someone else. *Lewis* too. We still saw eachother during the 3 month break on a pretty regular basis. He really wanted to get back together. When we last spoke two weeks ago Friday, he said that he loved me and wants to move back in with me. He said how much he loved my daughter, like his own and that he wasn't going to wait for me forever. I thought about it and that Sunday I tried calling him to tell him my decision. No answer, no call back for a week. He started "hanging out with" a girl 9 years younger than him during this time. Is it possible that as much as he loved me he just stopped because of some young muff? Love was never a problem for us. At dinner tonight should I risk all pride and tell him the decision I made 2 weeks ago of "all" or should I sever ties completely with "nothing"? Please don't leave rude answers. It really just makes people feel worse. Thanx

2007-08-07 02:26:37 · 17 answers · asked by MadisonB 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-07 02:26:08 · 5 answers · asked by slion 2 in Singles & Dating

lol only joking

just wanted to know, one of my boss's at work (lady) always seems to touch me every time she walks off...why is this? like if she sorts out a problem for me she will touch me on the arm, shoulder, side of my belly...

is this a sign of attraction or something? or just a friendly gesture? thx

2007-08-07 02:24:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

calls me names, !!smokes!!, very angry, makes me miserable

2007-08-07 02:22:08 · 27 answers · asked by loz9484 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-07 02:21:49 · 19 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Marriage & Divorce

When we first met the sex wasn't so bad, it was never too elaborate, however it was a lot better than what it has come to.

We have two girls together, one about to turn 4 the other about to turn 4mon. Every time I try to do something with him I get "batted away", because he is either too tiered, or some other excuse. Then if we do have sex it is so pathetic, we don't even get all the way naked... I'm lucky if he takes his pants off all the way! Also, he just wants me on top, or if I plead for him to go on top it is only missionary. Oh, and usually the whole event is less than 5min too!

I am so frustrated, and just don't know what to do any more. I know he is not cheating on me... I think he just has a VERY low sex drive for one, and for two he has endurance issues.

What can I do? I just didn't think it is supposed to be like this, isn't it usually the other way around... they guy always wanting it and the girl turning it down?

HELP!

2007-08-07 02:21:35 · 15 answers · asked by Hi-D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just read an interesting article:
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/femail/article.html?in_article_id=473633&in_page_id=1879

Basically, it said successful women are less likely to stay married, and that men stay away from successful women because they may be more competitive, intelligent, and make more, etc.

Do you think that all women can be "fools in love", regardless of whether they are more or less career-oriented?

Also the article implied that is wrong to put off marriage until after education/career/etc.

2007-08-07 02:21:08 · 17 answers · asked by Kaye00 1 in Marriage & Divorce

she hasn't been with anyone else and he goes and gets checked and everything is clear, what explanations can there be (besides cheating) is this possible?

2007-08-07 02:17:59 · 20 answers · asked by beba 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When a couple breaks-up, and the man is still in love and goes after her, will she get tired of this or will she feel good about it? This is my case. She broke up with me yesterday but I still love her and I don't want to loose her but I don't want to scare her away so should I give her space?

2007-08-07 02:15:31 · 6 answers · asked by Con4Life 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm so sensitive now. I don't know why. I never was. I though a lot with my boyfriend and cry to easily all the time? Why have I changed into this?

2007-08-07 02:15:00 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife said to me " the scale shows I gained 5 pounds, do these pants look tighter" I foolishly answered truthfully "Yeah, they seem a bit tighter, because you gained 5 pounds, but you look OK" I got blasted...She always wears her clothes too tight...All the makeover shows tell us to wear clothes that fit, but how do you get somebody to buy size 10 insread of 8?
Without getting blasted, I mean.
Men and Women please answer.

2007-08-07 02:14:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, so a guy from work asked me out. I know that he likes me.
Anyway, we went out and it was fun. I got to know him better and I we decided we could go out again sometime soon.
But anyway, I think I may like him. But I am not sure. I don't think I know him well enough to decide yet.

So, should I keep hanging out with him and seeing him?
It's inevitable at work. But should we still go out?
I did have a lot of fun and he's sweet and attractive. But for some reason I'm not 100% sure I like him.

I'm just confused about my feelings. And not so sure how to act due to them.

I don't want to be leading him on, but at the same time... Ugh I don't know. Help?

2007-08-07 02:12:16 · 5 answers · asked by :] 3 in Singles & Dating