Family & Relationships - 7 August 2007

So...i try to find a girl in many "net" ways...such as myspace, mirc, other dating sites...And I try already months or if not years :)), and I don't want to give up that easily :)). But it seems that it's just IMPOSSIBLE to find a girl online. And yeah...i tried many different approaches, many different pictures of me, many sites.
But nothing works (and neither my expectations are big).

So what do you think? Is the internet dating useless???

Thanks :)

2007-08-07 04:06:27 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-07 04:05:17 · 10 answers · asked by Kristen W 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-07 04:05:00 · 18 answers · asked by Fluffboy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-07 04:01:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

You know the kind that called goose bumps the little ones that just pop when your tickled or happy even though he said he wanted just friends it still happens he likes some other girls he is my bgf best guy friend but why it happens when I think of him

2007-08-07 04:01:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A few months ago I found out that my husband was not only chatting online wiht a girl but was talking to her on the phone also. He was away at school for two months and one of the weekends he said he was going to come home to see me he told me he was swamped with work to get done and could not make it home. I saw on the cell phone bill later that he spent the whole weekend hour after hour talking this girl. from around 11 pm up until 5 am. How could he have gotten any of his so called SWAMPED WORK down? When confronted he said he did not know why he did it and he doesnt even know what they talked about. He talked to her for two weeks and can not rememebr what they talked about? Do I trust him when he says he hasn't called her since? He has a government cell phone now that I can not see calls on! I do not even know the # to it! I found a notebook with her phone number written in it yesterday. He obviously liked something about her to keep it Should I contact her for the truth

2007-08-07 03:58:13 · 27 answers · asked by April R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I been noticing alot of racism still against races mainly when two different races are in a relationship. Do white,latino,asian,hell portchugese if all i care find black women attractive at all or would engage physically with one. And if you do find them attractive why do you ever approach them. Ive have seen some attractive white guys and they look at you and stuff and kinda smile and flirt but never come up to you..why..so answer all 3 ? please...

1. would you ever date a black women
2.would you have sex with a black women
3.do you fine black women attractive at all(which kind)lightdark..

2007-08-07 03:57:56 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this man for 2 years. He has no children, I have a 8 year old. He and my daughter are very close.

When he stays overnight, he leaves before my daughter gets up. Since we have dated so long, and are working towards marriage, when will it be ok for my daughter to see him staying over? (what I mean is....when she wakes up he is there to see her in the morning, and have breakfast, etc.)

BTW....she has asked several times why he does not stay over sometimes. So it appears that she wants him there.

Any opinions?

2007-08-07 03:57:31 · 11 answers · asked by SweetNSexy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I are on a break/broken up. I hurt him bad, and he needs space, which is fine, because it's given me some time to think about what I need to work on. I gave him a call last nite to say hi. August long is a big party weekend, and He was still partying, and had ppl over. He didn't hear the phone, but some girl answered it. She said she was trying to call her buddy. This made me feel a bit better, hopefully this means there were other ppl there, not just her,right? The thing is,she was a complete ***** to me! She asked who it was, I told her my name, and asked hers, and asked who she was, in a friendly way, but she said her name, and that it didn't matter who she was, in a ***** tone. I asked for my bf, and she said he was occupied, then hung up on me! She was drunk, i could tell, but no need to be rude. My guesses are:he had sex with her, he's been talking bad about me, or this girl has her eye on him, and wants him. I'm hoping it's the last one.

2007-08-07 03:56:10 · 4 answers · asked by universitystudent 2 in Singles & Dating

She told me that she is confused on the reason why she broke up with me. She said that she doesn't have feelings for anyone else. And i said i just want to be friends to. So i don't know what to do cause she cares about me as much as you would if you were going out with the person. She gets jealous when I'm with other girls. So you can see where i'm confused. She broke up with me so wtf? Can i get some advice.

2007-08-07 03:55:07 · 20 answers · asked by kgs_guitarist 1 in Singles & Dating

It has been a week that my boyfriend has told me he doesn't want any kids mind you he already has two in another state that he pays child support to his exwife for. He is a great father. He is 30 and I will be 25 next week. I want a family one day at least one child in my life of my own. We even talked about it and he understands if I don't want to be with him anymore but I just couldn't make him move out. Like i said it has been over a week now and It is still killing me inside. I had the chance and I didn't break up with him. I don't know just how to say I can't be with you anymore. I guess it is because I keep hoping he will change his mind. What would you do in my situation????

2007-08-07 03:53:28 · 27 answers · asked by smd131313 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so if you acused your husband of having an affair with the old lady that he is taking to and from work just because she lives about four streets over. he is in training and has three more days left which means 3more days of taking her to and from work. my husband is 30 and he told me that she is 57. i dont like him taking her to work and still have doubts. i dont like it because he never told me he was until i actually followed him one morning after i found her name address on the fridge. he told me he is not, laughed it off saying she is an old granny & he is just doing her a favour. we have been agruing for a week and a half about this. do you think if he was having an affair with her would he say that i could meet her? because he did. do you think that us fighting if he was having an affair with her would be the perfect opportunity to leave for awhile & then that way us fighting is an excuse to leave. we are always togther apart from him working. what do you think?

2007-08-07 03:52:52 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my wife wants a divorce but she hasnt been with another man. she doesnt want another man either.... in the Bible it says that if any man or woman puts away(divorces) their spouse then sleeps with another it is adultry and that is like the only way for a person to be able to remarry without sinning by committing adultry because their spouse already has. If my wife doesn't sleep with someone else yet doesn't want any thing to do with me, would it be religiously sound to remarry after the divorce? Marriage is once and forever according to the Bible.... so as long as she doesnt sleep with someone else after the divorce should i still try to pursue her? answers please.

2007-08-07 03:52:31 · 11 answers · asked by AmericanPatriot 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I met Bo in Sept 05 after I had a break up trying to hold on thing with my ex. I was honest & told although my ex and I weren't together I still cared. I ended ex thing in Oct 05. In Feb 06, Bo and I became bf/gf & broke up the first week of May. He relocated for the summer yet claimed he still wanted to be w/ me. I believed Bo so I tried to keep it going. At the end of summer he grew distant, I gave up and started meeting new people. Then 2 days before he came back, he said he didnt want to be w/ me. Then he came back oh so in love. By then my guard was up. I had friends but w/ no benefits. He accused me of everything. I began having headaches. talked 2 friends who encouraged me to leave. In Nov Ty invited me to stay at his home while he was gone for peace. Bo begged me not to. I needed to get away. went for the wkend. Jan. I slept w/ Ty after I left Bo for good. got w/ Bo 2 days later. told him. he cant let it go, no trust. learned he slpt w 5 ppl prior to me&Ty. y cant I let him go

2007-08-07 03:50:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

During my divorce and other court proceedings involving child abuse why did the judge have no ordered visitation. He said to mediate on the visits?

2007-08-07 03:48:33 · 5 answers · asked by Sumoneconcerned 2 in Marriage & Divorce

When you go out to a resturant with a guy and he orders your meal for you?

or..

When you go to the movies with a guy and he tells you all the funny parts and the ending during the previews?

Has any of you experienced this? If so, tell me what you did, or how you felt.

2007-08-07 03:48:09 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom made this weekend for us in the Cape, like just a few days. i didn't particularly want to go, I don't like beaches and I don't like the heat, and all my mom's going to do is sunbath while I sit in the hotel and read and bore myself to death. But I go because I feel like it's my obligation because she complains that she has no money but she makes us go on these trips. It just makes me feel guilty if I say I don't want to go with her. So today she yells at me about packing and just bickering. It made me not want to go. Because it just means that we're going to fight the whole time. But we were in the car and she had a ***** fit complaining about my attitude or whatever because I ran inside because I forgot something, I told her I was going inside, and then when I come out she made me go get something for her and I was pissed because I already was in there. So she kicked me out of the car and now shes off to the cape and I'm at home. I feel completely guilty and I don't know why.

2007-08-07 03:45:08 · 14 answers · asked by Speak 5 in Family

So my boyfriend is moving and I am afraid that he will forget about me when he goes to college. I don't want to loose him. He is everything that I have ever wanted and he is leaving to college. I just don't want to lose him. I am scared. I just don't want to be cheated on. He hasn't given me a reason to think that he will but I am just scared. college other girls

2007-08-07 03:44:37 · 4 answers · asked by Lita 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-07 03:42:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Since been divorced, the girlfriend is supposedly dating someone else...of which Im completely over. I've moved on and I feel great that all the lying, cheating and bs is over. My stress level has dissapeared and I'm working on myself for once. I haven't emailed, her, called her, anything in over 2 months...and I've found someone else...Guess we all get what we deserve. I found someone that is light years ahead of this waste of my time girlfriend that basically screwed up my marriage. She's beautiful, smart, fun, etc...etc. I haven't been happier in years. So there is hope, for us so called "Men who leave their wives for their girlfriends" and are kicked to the curb by the girlfriend. Funny thing is, I have no ill will towards the ex-girlfriend, if it wasn't for her, I would have never left my pathetic marriage and I would have never been able to meet my new girlfriend...I just want to say THANK YOU, to my ex-mistress!

2007-08-07 03:42:03 · 36 answers · asked by ilosthernyc 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok why is it that guys are like i'll call you back in 5 mins and then call back 1-5 hrs later? Or he says he'll call and doesn't but texts but it takes him forever to answer like he didn't answer when you gonna call text? why do guys think girls will just wait around and drop everything for them? if a guy says i'll call you back in 10 mins or something he should f*cking do it. it not that hard to tell time and keep track of it. For me this is not just a guy its my boyfriend. He knows it pisses me off i just hate someone telling me they r going to do something then dont

2007-08-07 03:41:25 · 3 answers · asked by Rayray 5 in Singles & Dating

When a guy constantly text messages you, but won't call?

2007-08-07 03:40:14 · 11 answers · asked by kelly 1 in Singles & Dating

Last night i got into an argument with my mother and my husband called to say he was coming home from work. i waited for him and the min he came in, i said i need to speak to you i am in so much pain, all he could say to me was, he was hungry and doesnt have time to listen to me. mind you i am 5 months pregnant and helping him get his greencard.
what do you think i should do here? i have been married less than a year.

2007-08-07 03:39:35 · 26 answers · asked by bluez 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I sure wish it would. Its times like this that I wish atheism wasnt real.

2007-08-07 03:33:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I wanted to keep it at first but things got so bad with my partner I knew I couldnt bring it into the world.
It has been two weeks now and this past week everything seems to have caught up with me.
I cant stop crying, I am sitting at work with tears in my eyes desperatley trying not to but as soon I went to lunch i just got in my car and cried and cried.
I cant deal with living like this I feel so alone, everything in my life seems a million times worse than usual I feel like im never going to be happy again...

2007-08-07 03:33:31 · 20 answers · asked by Cara 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Let's say the man is in his late 40's and the woman in her late 20's. Just wondering what the chances are....

2007-08-07 03:33:17 · 11 answers · asked by qatar qid 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've unfortunatly (for her) come to the realization that I no longer love my wife. I used to smoke pot almost everyday, which put me in a haze on how she treated me. Now that I am sober, I no longer wish to be her slave. She doesn't love me, she loves the situation. We have not been intimate in almost a year. We have the same agurments over and over just with different themes. He point of view is right, and mine are either always wrong or ridiculed. She is currently gone on vacation with her family for 2 weeks, and I have been left alone. Should I pack my stuff or wait. If I leave should I write her a letter or talk to her. The talking aspect is a tough bit due to us temporarly living at her parents house. So this makes talking in private a no go.

2007-08-07 03:32:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am from Minnesota and think of myself as a super hot and fun girl but I hear people say we are hicks and have a bad accent.

2007-08-07 03:28:59 · 9 answers · asked by Bird Questions 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm jealous even if I see her talking to her brother. I'm a nice guy but I don't want her to have friends.

2007-08-07 03:26:17 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm trying to gear up for divorce. my ex was one that would run away from the marriage instead of facing problems. she did this on multiple occassions for me to chase her. Last time she left, i sent her an email and she said too many things have happened and that it's over but she wanted basically everything in the house. i protected myself and changed the locks until we could agree on things. i moved most of her things in the garage for her to pick up. when she moved she ripped up wedding pictures, and cut my head off of the family photo. she's mad. why? who knows. she was one that needed her ego fed constantly. i finally quit chasing her after she kept leaving after the slightest marital spat. now in the divorce she's angry. why? i don't know. we had no children together and this is what she wanted. i haven't heard from her in 3 months accept for nasty divorce stuff. in you all's experience what should i expect next? she's having a great time not working and being free this summer.

2007-08-07 03:25:04 · 14 answers · asked by survivor 1 in Marriage & Divorce