I'm jealous even if I see her talking to her brother. I'm a nice guy but I don't want her to have friends.
2007-08-07 03:26:17 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need some help.
2007-08-07 03:28:52 · answer #1 · answered by thesweetestthings24 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't be possessive, this is the reasons why relationships fail. Both of you must have an understanding and a real committment between each other. If you both cannot compromise or if you cannot compromise, then it is you that need to change for the better.
She is not going to change for you if you are like this. She might tolerate for awhile and then just say 'take a hike buddy!!!' and that is not what you want right?
So take a chill pill with the jealousy and don't make a scene or cause one...this is not what a man should be doing but be more attentive to their girl, that is the way to get them to do things that you don't need to ask or request for.
2007-08-07 03:39:50 · answer #2 · answered by JC...Living Passively 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mean to be rude... but if you really care about her you will be happy she has friends and family in her life. By trying to keep her all to yourself you are showing her you don't care what she wants or what's best for her...and nice guys don't do that.
If you are trying to stop her from talking to other people ,she would have every right to either put you in your place or leave you. It is unhealthy and unfair to ask her to give up the people who care about her and she cares about too. I was in a relationship where my X tried to do the same thing and i was so unhappy and eventually left him. That kind of controlling behavior is considered abuse. =(
I would suggest you see a therapist and talk about your jealousy issues or you have a real chance of loosing your girlfriend for good.
Good Luck to you both
2007-08-07 03:36:48 · answer #3 · answered by redhotdancer4life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of a girlfriend, get a doll. You are suffocating your girlfriend and will only end up killing any feelings she has for you by continuing to be this way. Seriously - you're jealous of her talking to her brother! You need help. Call a therapist or counsellor immediately and let your g/f go so she can breathe. Good luck and God Bless.
2007-08-07 03:31:14 · answer #4 · answered by tersey562 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would venture to say that you have serious control issues when it comes to woman. If your girlfriend can't talk to her brother and you become jealous which leads to disappointment, which leads to an argument, which leads to "I thought I told you not to talk to your brother!" Next thing you know, you are saying, "I only beat the **** out of her because she wouldn't listen to me!"
Listen to what you are asking of your girlfriend. In our day and age, these are not normal behaviors. What would satisfy you is to lock her up in a closet, which is kidnapping and is a felony in most states. You need to seek professional help regarding your jealousy issues with woman before you may have a normal and rational relationship with woman.
Good Luck,
Jim
2007-08-07 03:38:51 · answer #5 · answered by jimsg718 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're kidding yourself thinking you're a nice guy if you're that jealous. You can ruin a good relationship wanting her to not have any contact with others and driver her nuts for attention and conversation with other people if you persist. You've got something that may lead you to be an abuser if you don't change your ways.
2007-08-07 03:41:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey man, that's not the way to be. The only girls you will stay with very long are girls that have no self esteem and will be happy with anyone. Treat women with respect. There's no reason to try to control anyone or get jealous! If she likes you there aren't any worries about what she's doing!
2007-08-07 03:36:37 · answer #7 · answered by may_23_2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's nothing but bs. She has a life and there's no reason why you shouldn't let her live it. You must be extremely insecure if you're jealous of her brother! Your best bet is to get help or let her go. She'll be much better off.
2007-08-07 03:33:02 · answer #8 · answered by dinny's engaged!! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound just like my brother in-law, and my whole family including my sister loves him very much but she has left him over it and gone back time and time again. Your low self esteem is taking all the trust out of this relationship
2007-08-07 03:32:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're in an abusive relationship. there is nothing wrong with your gf talking to other guys. she needs a life just like you. you talk with other girls don't you, so at least give her the same chance. if you don't your relationship will be over very soon.
2007-08-07 03:33:48 · answer #10 · answered by runlikemad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not a nice guy. You need to get some serious psychological help. That is not a normal thought or reaction.
2007-08-07 03:29:37 · answer #11 · answered by Katie K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋