So...i try to find a girl in many "net" ways...such as myspace, mirc, other dating sites...And I try already months or if not years :)), and I don't want to give up that easily :)). But it seems that it's just IMPOSSIBLE to find a girl online. And yeah...i tried many different approaches, many different pictures of me, many sites.
But nothing works (and neither my expectations are big).
So what do you think? Is the internet dating useless???
Thanks :)
2007-08-07 04:06:27 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
umm......u know wat
just don't waste ur time finding a girl online
its just stupid
that's not a real world,probably u may hook up with a 60 years old
try to find a girl u already know or u met her
i believe is that finding a date online is just weird
....^_^
2007-08-07 04:18:03 · answer #1 · answered by I♥eDwArd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it is not useless. I met some wonderful people through internet dating. It isn't so much the picture, or the site. It is what you are about as a person. I found that there are alot of smart girls on the internet who are looking for a guy that can articulate, that has a little depth, & can show a sensitive side.
Internet dating is so much more than a pic & a few lines. That may work somewhere but in reality, most girls that are real & on those sites want a little more than a picture. There needs to be some substance there.
2007-08-07 11:11:42 · answer #2 · answered by Magic Man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe this all depends on the person and their particular experience within this area. I think that internet dating is along the lines of blind dating. You may be getting to know a person but pictures do not reveal everything. Also, you can never truly know if a relationship will work until you know what it is like to be right in front of the person, without the barrier of a computer.
Speaking from my own experience, I have had only one serious boyfriend from the net. My experience was great for the first few months when I was being shown a facade which I believed to be my boyfriend. By the 4th month, I saw the real him & it was horrible. I think that net-dating has the potential to work out, as it allows people an opportunity to really get to know each other through conversation and to consider more than the physical appearance of the person in front of them. However, there is always an opportunity for someone to portray a person who they may not necessarily be.
All in all, I believe it is worth the risk, but do practice with caution. Meet the person several times before you set your mind on becoming serious with them. I am not saying they are dangerous, but there is usually more to a person than what you originally think.
2007-08-07 11:18:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Internet dating works for some people but not all. With internet dating you don't always know what type of person you are talking to and there is usually a lot of baggage under the surface. However internet dating can be useful to a person that doesn't have the time to drive around town looking for the girl that is right for you.
2007-08-07 11:10:15 · answer #4 · answered by Geoffrey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to live mostly in your 'mind' , then stick with what your doing. If you want a life, Shut off the comp and go out and meet people.
Comp dating is for the birds or people that are easily led by comp net dating companies. You gotta get real.
2007-08-07 11:12:50 · answer #5 · answered by reinformer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, Internet dating is useless. Girls want a more real, long term relationship.
There is a chance, however, and I've heard of this happening (to one of my friends) if you meet a girl that lives somewhat close to you (two hours at the most) and you actually meet her in person, then you can call....that might work...
But girls want something more substantial than some guy over the Internet telling her he likes her. She wants to at least hear his voice over the phone ***
2007-08-07 11:11:03 · answer #6 · answered by Jane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should stop looking Darlin......I am hardly ever single, My friends tell me I bounce. lol. But my brother when he gets single he stays single for a while and he will tell me...why do you always have some one and I don't.......So I tell him........STOP looking, it will fall into your lap. But right now you need to concentrate on being single and having friends. Life is full of ups and downs, you can try to make things happen, but it is better if you let them come to you. Give it a rest, see what happens. Your actually kinda hot in your pic, so u should have no problem.
Good luck Darlin.
2007-08-07 11:16:34 · answer #7 · answered by B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude I did a thing on match.com and went out with this chick. She was a nut case from hell pulled all my contact crap from all net dating sources be cautious. I found that when you quit looking someone then shows up in your life when you least expect it.
Good luck
2007-08-07 11:10:47 · answer #8 · answered by bjg76522 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think interenet dating is it takes the first meeting and the attraction out of it! You fall in love with a picture and some words...You never know if they are really what their picture or fingers say they are!
2007-08-07 11:09:05 · answer #9 · answered by curious4 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i dont think internet dating is useless but maybe you just need to step OFF LINE and fine a girl in real life and not just online
2007-08-07 11:10:16 · answer #10 · answered by Tears are *Diamonds* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It works for some, but its a scary world out there and you never know who you're truely talking to. Theres a site called www.okcupid.com that links you with people that you're compatible with. Some of my friends met their spouses on there.
2007-08-07 11:11:03 · answer #11 · answered by Katie K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋