She told me that she is confused on the reason why she broke up with me. She said that she doesn't have feelings for anyone else. And i said i just want to be friends to. So i don't know what to do cause she cares about me as much as you would if you were going out with the person. She gets jealous when I'm with other girls. So you can see where i'm confused. She broke up with me so wtf? Can i get some advice.
2007-08-07 03:55:07 · 20 answers · asked by kgs_guitarist 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's shitty, but it's over. She wouldn't have broken up with you if she wanted to be with you. As much as it sucks, just try to get over her.
2007-08-07 03:59:03 · answer #1 · answered by Christine28L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Confusion eh? Well, the reason why some girls break up with guys is because they think too much. They think whether or not they have true feelings for you or not. If she did, just let it go....and when she gets jealous of you talking to other girls...that's just normal. It's hard to see someone you were with being with someone else at first. Give it a little more time and she'll get over that jealousy stage. But if she continues, than she seriously do still feel for you and that would be the part where I would be confused as to why she broke up with you. She needs to clear her mind and think of what she really wants. And you need to think of what you want to do about it. Either let it be...or do something about it.
2007-08-07 04:04:33 · answer #2 · answered by dr. phillian here.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I am not sure anyone here can really help you. There is a lot of missing information here. Girlfriends don't just break up with no reason. There is a problem here, and if you want her back, you need to figure out what the real problem is and contend with it. "Just being friends" isn't going to work or solve anything. She obviously has feelings for you, and vice versa, or you wouldn't care so much. Sit her down and find out why she broke up. There is a reason. She knows what it is, even if she dances around it. If the problem turns out to be YOU, be prepared to make changes, or let her go. Good luck!
2007-08-07 04:00:34 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A girl can care about a boy all she wants but does she love you? She says she's confused because she doesn't know what she wants or maybe her feelings have gotten stronger for you and she's scared of what's so new to her. She will obviously will be jealous of you with other girls because she cares for you and knows how good you can treat a girl and she no longer has that. Tell her how you feel and that if she needs time that she has it but she has to deal with the fact that you are no longer together and that if she does decide to come back to you, whether now or in the future, that it's still up to you to decide if you want her back at that time. It was her decision and her chance to take.
2007-08-07 04:03:51 · answer #4 · answered by BlueStarr82 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Bite the bullet. Tell her you can't live like this! It's not fair to you that she doesn't want to be with you but that she is still ruling over like a girlfriend would. If you want to be with her, tell her that, and if she says she's still not ready, made a choice to be strong. Tell her that you aren't writing her off, but you can't let her mess with your mind this way.
Stay strong and good luck. You can only find the right person for you if you get all the "wrong" people out of the way.
If you ask me, she's totally being selfish. She's confused etc., but she is afraid to let you go just in case nothing better comes along. I know that sounded harsh, but I really think that that's what's going on. She needs to sober up and realize that you have real feelings too. It's not all about her.
2007-08-07 04:01:13 · answer #5 · answered by StarGazer 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like she's just making excuses because it sounds like she wants to see someone else, other wise why would she be confused right??
unless she's confused that her feelings for you are just friend feelings or if they are romantic feelings.
Either or, you need to let her figure it out on her own. most of the time she will come back to you realizing what she could have lost. OR you wont hear from her for a long time untill she wants to tell you she's met someone else. Either way, thats how its supposed to be. Maybe your relationship was too boring for her, no fights..... how do you make up?? Fighting isnt always bad, that just lets you know that you are both individuals and you both have your own opinion. Just let this go, and see how it turns out.
If you love someone and let them go and they come back to you, they are yours forever.
if you love someone and let them go, and they dont come back, then its not meant to be.
2007-08-07 04:04:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she broke up with you because she is just not ready for a realtionship at this moment. Or maybe she cares about you, but just doesn't really have those romantic feelings towards you.
It sounds to me that no matter what, you two will remain friends. I just think you may need to break ties off with her a bit. She broke up with you, yet she's getting jealous of you. It's natural for girls to be that way, but you shouldn't have to deal with it.
2007-08-07 04:09:31 · answer #7 · answered by Lauren B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard one sweetie girls are so unpredictable as well as some guys. She just needs to make up her mind. It seems if she doesn't want to be with you anymore she doens't want anyone else to have you either. YOu need to get her alone and talk it out and exactly how you both feel about each other and what you are willing to do about it because you seem to be misreable.
2007-08-07 04:00:03 · answer #8 · answered by smd131313 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-09 10:00:16 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a grass is greener kinda girl....and she doesnt want you, but she doesnt want anyone else to have you...
If you wait around for her to decide what she wants, you will be waiting a loooong time, just forget about any romantic link and get on with your life!
2007-08-07 03:59:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let it go and begin to take care of yourself. Don't think about it anymore and become more involved in other positive activities.
2007-08-07 04:06:15 · answer #11 · answered by pradavee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋