Family & Relationships - 7 August 2007

I had an on-off again affair with a guy for three years - recently, he said he doesn't want to email as much during the day. That is was taking a lot of focus off his work and that we were emailing more so than many husbands and wives. Now he just emails me once a day and says "how's it going?" Is he not interested in me anymore - he claims he is a lot...

2007-08-07 08:05:40 · 21 answers · asked by kittygirlwhoilove 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-07 08:04:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im dating a girl who is divorced because she cheated on her husband, who she has no kids with. I recently found out that she has not removed the names of the guy she cheated on her husband with or her ex husband. I asked her to remove them because it bothered me. She didn't, even after several times asking. She said she wont because she felt it was on principle that she shouldn't and that it felt like i was telling her what to do...am i wrong for asking her to remove the #'s or should i just let it slide and trust her? thanks for your responses everyone!

2007-08-07 08:04:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My life is a little complicated, I have a husband who I love with all of my heart. The problem is he has a tendency to be mental and physically abusive. I also have a child who hates how he treats me, but is also jealous of my husband. He feels my huband takes time away from him. The problem is I feel torn between my child, family and husband. Everybody has an opinion ,let me figure this one out for myself. I feel I'am being squeezed to death and nobody cares.

2007-08-07 08:02:31 · 9 answers · asked by Melody H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I got genital wart, nothingh serious and allready taken care of, but still on treatment. It was acquired not by sexual penetration but it was by skin to skin contact. She hasn't been infected yet (maybe never). It was just a rub body massage with a naked woman. What to tell to my wife? truth or there is some believable explanation I can give to avoid fight or divorce? I mean it is not an affair where you meet always a friend or someone else, it was just a sexual massage and I never thought it was going to have that sort of consequences. Men and women's point of view welcome.

2007-08-07 08:01:04 · 28 answers · asked by tequila_cheers 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it normal for a woman not to shower on a daily basis? Is it normal for a wife to buy intimate under garments and not show them or wear them around husband?

2007-08-07 08:00:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am fifteen. When I was ten or so my mom gave me the sex talk. We are a very religous family and mom told me that masturbation is sinful and selfish. And that I shouldn't be worried about sexual pleasure.

So fast forward to last month. I was masturbating. Mom came in and we had a talk about it. She said that I needed a whoopin. She told me to bend over and she spanked me on the bottom (still bare) with a hair brush. I hadn't been spanked in a couple of years. She said that she knows that is harsh but that it was a sin and she was the mom and knew what was right. I wasn't grounded or anything but she said if it happend again I would get another one.

Is my mother just strict or is she going to far?


Ok, um, I know that I'm asking personal questions today but I just found this and see that I can ask stuff here and don't have to be embarassed.

2007-08-07 07:59:51 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why are people so negative on here im just 12 and 30 something year olds be cursing me out!! someone please reply :(

2007-08-07 07:59:04 · 30 answers · asked by Souljaboywife 1 in Friends

you had your first kiss
first made out
and lost your virginity?

2007-08-07 07:58:59 · 12 answers · asked by ♥↔♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

WHY do men think WE are being NAGS when we just ask for a little contribution with the house cleaning? I am NOT a housewife, and he has FOUR days off a week to clean, but CHOOSES not to. I want everything equal. When I do the cleaning, I expect him to do it next time (dishes, vaccuming, bathroom cleaning, sweeping, etc). But he doesn't. It gets to the point where I have to demand that he does the dishes, and when I demand things, he gets even LAZIER!! WHAT DO I DO? Things are so bad with this (to me) that I want to dump him! We have been together for 7 years! Wouldn't he know that little things like doing dishes would make me happy? Does he not want me to be happy?

2007-08-07 07:55:34 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How did you view the relationship?

2007-08-07 07:52:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-07 07:51:07 · 57 answers · asked by megml389 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-07 07:51:06 · 9 answers · asked by mk2007 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend of two years is about to go to College a couple hundred miles away. I understand that she loves me and I love her but I want to leave a lasting impression on her before she goes to College. This night needs to be all about her. I've asked my roomates if I can have the apartment for the night so it will be only us for most of it. My friend is going to cook us her favorite food. I'm going to have her favorite music playing in the background softly and I bought 20 candles to light up the room. After we eat we are going to watch our favorite movie and cuddle for awhile. I understand girls to a point but this seems all boring, is there anything I should add, replace, or just completely take out?

2007-08-07 07:50:16 · 6 answers · asked by Ryan A 1 in Singles & Dating

guys-

what are those little things that u think r sexy about girls?

When they wear a thong, if they sleep naked, if they r flirty, big butt, big boobs? Anything...

ty!

2007-08-07 07:49:43 · 9 answers · asked by *P*H*S* 2 in Singles & Dating

But I have received some very rude comments. Guys, Indian women needs to be loved and respected to the fullest because this is not America this is Guyana and in America career and materialistics things comes first. Now here is an eye opener and all you have to do is look at an Indian women in Guyana. Believe me your eyes will open because they are just too sexy. So for all of you guys that have been sending rude comments please keep this in mind. Women HAVE EVERYTHING we men WANT & NEED! Just look at them they're perfect so stop sending me those rude and mean comments about Guyanese Indian women because if you toss them I'll pull up and retrieve them, and for you 19 that keeps telling me about cow &calf well you can't top a single mother! So please stop sending me rude comment about single women because they are also perfect! So maybe you A-- should face the mirror instead of not realizing that you're looking into the mirror backwards. NEVER mind who I am I Just love all Indian women!

2007-08-07 07:49:07 · 4 answers · asked by talktoi 1 in Singles & Dating

just wondering

2007-08-07 07:48:49 · 23 answers · asked by Rachel W 1 in Singles & Dating

I like him. He's never met me before. We talk online my friend gave me his s/n. Whenever we talk he ends up getting horny. What does this mean?


And yes I know what horny means.

2007-08-07 07:48:04 · 3 answers · asked by Crashlee 2 in Singles & Dating

We have a friend of the family who is turning 100 this week; she's not senile or anything, and is enjoyable to be around. We want to get her something special for her birthday, but we're having trouble coming up with ideas. Does anyone have any suggestions?

2007-08-07 07:47:29 · 50 answers · asked by Jaina 1 in Friends

i was talking to mi bestfriend on the fone and then she kalled her boyfriend and he put us on hold then i kalled his frined and then her boyfriend got back on the fone and he kalled his brother and mi best friend boyfriend put us on hold and then his brother was like you koming to the mall with us tomorrow and he was like wats happing and he was mi bestfriend boyfriend brother girlfriend birthday is tomorrow and she wants to see him and then mi best friend acts like she did not hear them but i really kno she did. i really hope yall get it and give me advice

2007-08-07 07:47:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex calls and calls and he left me? I want to answer, and when I do, we fight and I feel like Sh--it! Even worse than before he rang. How can I get the emotional courage to stop him? Deep down I want him to still love me, but he says he doesn't. Any intelligent reasonable experience based answer welcome.:}

2007-08-07 07:43:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

hi there welll heres the thing my good freind who i have the seriously fancy for jsut said she broke up with her boyfreind and she was feeling really down now i didnt comfort her or anything i just said well thats too bad and changed teh subject.

nothing like im sorry to hear about this are you ok or anything like that because i seriously fancy her. now before ehr and ehr boyfreind or ex now started going out she was really flirty with me and was even flirty with me when she was still going out with ehr boyfreind.

and im just wondering weather she is telling me this because she wants me to know she is open for a relationship with me or weather she just wanted to tell someone and i was the first.

i dont talk to her alot only at weekends mainly down the local pub so what should i do and was a selfish not comforting her

2007-08-07 07:41:45 · 9 answers · asked by GG 1 in Singles & Dating

Am I seen as being stand-offish if I don't wave at them too, although I haven't been introduced to them and have never even seen them before?

2007-08-07 07:39:08 · 11 answers · asked by ticket2ride 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-07 07:36:52 · 19 answers · asked by Matty V 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 14 years old. I have made honor roll since kindergarden, and have never had a C. I am polite, and respectful to adults, and I pull my weight around the house with chores and other responsibilities. I make good friends, stay out of trouble and I dont drink or do drugs. I am involved with extra activities such as track and cross-country running. However, my parents still constantly barge into my room just to see what I am doing. and im like Excuse me?! god its so annoying. dont i deserve some privacy?

2007-08-07 07:36:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I fully trust my wife now but didn't for a while, she was going out most nights drinking while I was overseas. My fears were unfounded, mutual friends told me she was only out with friends. Has anyone else not trusted their partner but found out they had nothing to worry about?

We now have a much stonger relationship because of this.

2007-08-07 07:33:07 · 26 answers · asked by PokerPlayer 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have played football for 6 years and this will be my 7th year I also wrestle and i want to continue wrestling and thats it i have a job now and i am in a relationship. I am 16 and they will not stop preasure me into playing

2007-08-07 07:32:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been out of the dating world for a few years and was not looking to get back in, but I met the woman who really is my perfect match. We have tons in common, feel like we have known each other for ever, etc etc.

However, she left her boyfriend of four years a few months ago, and is now getting into a custody battle with the father of her baby boy. She tells me that this is her priority; she needs to get this resolved before she gets into a relationship. She says she doesn't want to drag out any of her frustration onto me.

I can't seem to get across to her that I understand her predicament and only want to be there to support her. But she doesn't even want to see me until this custody issue is resolved... and that could be indefinite!

I don't want to be pushy and drive her away, because I know we could be together for a long time. But I also can't just sit on my thumbs, knowing what I'm missing!

Any advice?

2007-08-07 07:31:40 · 16 answers · asked by Cunning Linguist 4 in Singles & Dating

i started pre conditioning for football yesturday and its not because the pracitce is tough tht i don't wanna do it, its just because i think i'd rather be like chillin durin my summer instead of pracitceing and stuff...i really dont wanna do it but the problem is is that my whole family and like a hundred other people who've known me since i was born expect me to play football and they're all lookin foward to my games and stuff, meanwhile i dont wanna be playing at all, i mean football is fun to watch and to play wit yur friends, but i'd rather not play it officially for my new high school...
what should i do? help pleaseee

thanks

2007-08-07 07:31:34 · 7 answers · asked by robertthejetsfan 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why do people assume that I am a man whenever I mention my girlfriend on this thing? I am not a man.

2007-08-07 07:29:39 · 22 answers · asked by vixthedestroyed 1 in Other - Family & Relationships