Family & Relationships - 7 August 2007

So may question on here about what traditions people want to get rid of or do without but which ones do you like, want to keep or miss?

2007-08-07 10:23:15 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

That simple...but I will clarify...Romantic Love.

2007-08-07 10:21:36 · 20 answers · asked by Joe B 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, we all have embarrassing moments. I need some help on how to handle them. Other than blush which I already do!!
what should I do if I

1. Bump into some one

2.Trip over a ball

3.Forget where to go at school

4. Walk unintenintioly into the wrong room

Thanks a lot

2007-08-07 10:20:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bay is 2 months old, going on 3 and i want to legally change his name. but i dont know how. do i have to pay? will it take long? i want to do it now before he starts and gets older. also do i have to have a "good" reason to change his name???

2007-08-07 10:19:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i fancy her and i dream about sleeping together,I only text are meet up when her husband works away,i dont go through a day without thinking about being together.shes also got a daughter and when were altogether theres sometimes comments about gay people .ie on tv, what do i do?i dont want to lose our friendship just becase of how i feel, all the family will be moving away in about 6 weeks, and im to scared to say anything even though she knows somethings wrong and she always says i can trust her, but i cant with this someone please help me ?

2007-08-07 10:18:55 · 12 answers · asked by bigbd 1 in Friends

She is actually my sister best freind. My sister says she doesnt care because its none of her business. I care because who knows who she is going to infect.I know she is sexually active but she says she doesnt use a condom all the time because she could care less the guy that gave it to her didnt care so why should she.

2007-08-07 10:18:55 · 28 answers · asked by Angel 2 in Singles & Dating

What do men really want from there women?

2007-08-07 10:18:43 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so if i decide to get a gift certificate to a store as a gift for a couple in there 40's.. what store would be good?
(bed bath beyond, macys, pier1, etc..)

2007-08-07 10:16:26 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-08-07 10:16:22 · 30 answers · asked by mY LoVe iS LiKe wHoa! 1 in Singles & Dating

my bf is 33 years old and is legaly married to his wife she is about 59.we have been together for a year and a half and we have a daughter together.i have two daughters from a previous relationship...he's the only one working and has two cars.they didn't have any properties or anything like that..she has section 8 and is working a job right now.my question is if she ask for alimony will she get anything from him? at the time they were together she didn't work and they don't have any children.all he has is like 40,000 in debt...but will she be able to get money or one of his cars?

2007-08-07 10:16:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-07 10:15:13 · 43 answers · asked by Lia 1 in Singles & Dating

For example just coming up behind you and kissing your neck...or saying "hey sexy lady"..anything like that..singing parts of a song 2 u...anything that ends up in the bedroom? Name it!

2007-08-07 10:15:13 · 9 answers · asked by Jamie-Lynn 3 in Singles & Dating

Like if the person was physically attractive to you but there was something about their character or personality that ended up putting you off and leaving you uninterested? What would it be?

2007-08-07 10:14:59 · 14 answers · asked by Sarah K 4 in Singles & Dating

I am debating whether or not to invite one of my old friends. She was my best friend from Kindergarten through most of high school. She was the one that introduced my now fiance and I. Our friendship has declined over the last few years as I don't agree with the people she hangs around with and the amount of alcohol she consumes. The last time I visited her she invited all of her drunken friends and got drunk herself and wanted to drive me home intoxicated. (She has gotten a DUI btw) I feel as if I have an obligation to invite her because of our past and the fact that she got my fiance and I together. My fiance, my parents and my bridesmaids are not too keen on her being there. If I do invite her I know she will be upset because of the fact that I didn't even make her a bridesmaid. I am afraid of her bringing one of her awful friends even I tell her that she can't. If I don't invite her at all then I will most likely lose her friendship. Thoughts and Opinions on this?

2007-08-07 10:13:28 · 15 answers · asked by Lily19 2 in Weddings

My close friend just broke her nose in a bike accident and also now has a hug bump on her forehead. She's ok though. What's something funny I can say and tease her about jokingly?

2007-08-07 10:12:46 · 19 answers · asked by Jenjen 2 in Friends

Do you see it as a unity of two people that love one another or just a piece of paper?

What do you think of people that just see marriage as a peice of paper? Bitter, resentful

Reason why I ask is because I am getting married and some know it all at work said 'I just see marriage as a piece of paper'

This is coming from a girl that is 22 and she has a mortgage with her 21 year old b/f... also this is the guy she lost her virginity to.


I also asked why she thinks this, she would not answer, however, I think it is because her b/f has never asked her.

2007-08-07 10:12:19 · 32 answers · asked by Rebz 5 in Weddings

I just tuned into this form, and i already see alot of questions about how to stay in a marriage because she or he is bored or not feeling the same anymore. i will share some of my suggestions but i like to hear some of you experiances. first of all marriage is a 50/50 deal, there must be give and take. respect each other is a must, communication always, have lots of sex this is a reflection on all the above, stay in shape and compliment each other, its ok to check other girls or guys out its only normal ! for good sake that how i found my wife in the 1st place

2007-08-07 10:11:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It was hard at first had depression and a nervous breakdown as I loved her so much she was my first everything 15 years together highschool sweetys. Now I'm happy for her and I hope she finds what she wants in life and I have no bitterness . We share our two boys everyother week together and there is NO drama of any kind. I'm very happy and comfortable now. I'm told that I'm a very easy going guy and tooo nice could that be why I'm so happy for her? ps I don't think shes that happy though. I can see looking back that she was a selfish lover and person but I can also see where I messed up. She needed lots of affection and we grew up together but also grew apart. I hear how so many people stay so angry with an ex that cheats and leaves so why am I so freakin happy!

2007-08-07 10:10:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There is a girl I work with, she has a cousin getting married at the end of the week,

the girl is a singer and she is going to charge her cousin for singing at the wedding.

I think it is terrible, what do you think?

This is the same girl that asked me to pay her if she was going to sing at mine.

2007-08-07 10:08:54 · 26 answers · asked by Rebz 5 in Weddings

i met this girl. she is freakin adorable, nice, genuine, kind, caring, all the things i want in a girl. she says the same to me. she says im sweet, adorable, etc... BUT i met her on facebook and we technically havent met yet. we text/call each other all the time. she goes to college in the same state as me, but not to the same college.

is it possible to really fall for someone who you havent met yet? and if so, do you think we should meet up and try a relationship?

i feel like todays day in age, its no big deal if someone met up online because our society is all digital now. is it awkward to have a relationship with someone you met online??

thanks for all your help!!

2007-08-07 10:08:42 · 13 answers · asked by arizonacat 2 in Singles & Dating

I am from the south and I assume that maybe this dance at a wedding is a local thing. Most all of the weddings I have ever been to has them and my finance wants to have one yet I feel a little tacky doing it. I feel like its saying "hi bring us a gift and while you at is give us some money"

What are your thoughts on it???

2007-08-07 10:07:21 · 19 answers · asked by MadKat 4 in Weddings

I have been involved with a man that is my ex brother in law for the past 2 years. My sister is cool with it and we all get along great! The only problem i have is my ex husband keeps telling me that is is immoral to be involved with him and therefore my children don't care for him or want him around. But when it is just us and my kids we are happy with the situation it is when he (my ex)calls and tells my children not to like him and that i am doing wrong by being with a man that was with my sister. Please help? I need some advice

2007-08-07 10:05:33 · 7 answers · asked by Angel 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

do you like to have your hair pulled when he is hitting it from behind? what about being choked? girls tell me no what do you want to hurt me? but then they like it when im hitting it right so which is it---do you like the hair pulling and my hand on your throat when you are almost there?

2007-08-07 10:03:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my driving instructor shouts at me when i do wrong, he doesnt reassure me or anything - ive only had 1 lesson with him

should i drop him after my lesson tomorrow - 2nd one with him or should i give him a chance??

i just dont know, any input would be great! my boyfriend is saying driving instructors are not supposed to shout , whilst my dad thinks its great he is strict! cause i will learn properly

help!!

2007-08-07 10:02:06 · 26 answers · asked by Jemmax 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

If so what was the worst effect on you personally?

Thank you.

2007-08-07 10:01:37 · 14 answers · asked by KatsLoveBug 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-07 10:01:26 · 19 answers · asked by mercury31 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How can I take revenge on my ex-girlfriend, she owns a townhouse lives with her mother she only live in usa for 5 years.
I know her phone number, address, what can I do to ruin her life without getting caught?

Some answers I am not looking for:
Success is the best revenge
you will regret taking revenge later
you shouldnt do revenge

2007-08-07 10:01:12 · 20 answers · asked by Billy2468 1 in Friends

Is there anything I can do to get it back?

2007-08-07 10:00:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Told you one the phone "Oh, you will get over it and forgive me like you always do" I think it means that he is saying he can get away with anything. He said he didn't mean it that way...he said he meant it like I'm a very forgiving person.

Oh and by the way the reason I was mad at him was because a girl answered his cell phone and he grabbed it from her and said "Baby, can I call you back?" then I hear the girl in the background go "Baby?" he said she was a friend that didn't know he had a girlfriend...but I think he is full of crap!

But I am a very forgiving person and I am more hurt about what he told me on the phone then the girl...I will never know for sure if he was telling the truth about the girl anyways.

2007-08-07 09:59:01 · 17 answers · asked by Courtney [gimpy] 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've distanced myself from them and have had no interaction for about 2 years now and seem to find it easier to live my life that way without the added "drama". it all started when my husband then (47) and me (31) with 3 children decided after 3.5 years of dating to get married. We decided amongst ourselves to never have children. When we announced our intentions, my sister in law was not favorable to the union and did not make it hidden. We've been together for 8.5 years and married for 5 and are happy together. Am I wrong for distancing myself from a hopeless situation?

2007-08-07 09:58:58 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce