Family & Relationships - 7 August 2007

I have an aunt and uncle and their two daughters that neither me nor my family is very close to. Is there any way I cannot invite them or some way I can seat them away from my immediate family b/c the family i speak of is rude and will be asking prices of everything and i dont want them to ruin the experience for my mom and dad. we share a grandmother so i dont know how this would work out... i jsut dont picture them as a part of my special day - me and my family really dont like them cuz they are rude and loud and selfish.... what is a good compromise?

2007-08-07 09:58:00 · 20 answers · asked by AggieAM 3 in Weddings

I had a friend who is not my friend anymore take her wedding rings off at my bacholorette party and pretend that she was not married and didn't have a family all night long, she was also making out with guys and groping and stuff. So here is my question, would you ever take your wedding rings off and pretend you weren't married for free drinks? Also she told me that her husband said it was okay to take off her rings and that it was his suggestion. So my other question, do you know any guy that would tell his wife its OK to take off her wedding rings and makeout with other guys to get free drinks? I don't, its called honoring your husband, right? As far as Im concerned guys are pretty possessive of their women and I don't know a single guy that would tell their wives to do that. What do you think?

2007-08-07 09:56:53 · 18 answers · asked by kimandandyjennings 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a very shy and my boyfriend knows that I dont speak whats on my mind because I keep to myself. When i do tell him how i feel he doesnt want to listen. How can I make him listen to me and take me more seriously . I want to show him that i can put my foot down too.

2007-08-07 09:56:45 · 8 answers · asked by Ray 1 in Singles & Dating

mk. im happy with my boyfriend. he's just...a bit annoying. i told him something that was bugging me about him and he let off. but he thinks im like... perfect. i'd feel bad to tell him something else that annoyed me especially if he doesn't find anything i do annoying. i really don't wanna hurt his feelings.

i mean, he's too attached! and he tells me he loves me too much. i feel that if you say it too much, it loses its meaning.

ive asked him many times to be honest with me and tell me what annoys him about me but he keeps saying nothing. so i'm scared to tell him.

should i come out and say it? or spare his feelings.

2007-08-07 09:56:36 · 3 answers · asked by xk2lxsouthx 2 in Singles & Dating

its an boy i like and my friends make fun of is name

2007-08-07 09:55:18 · 12 answers · asked by Eleanor H 2 in Singles & Dating

If people know that cheating is wrong..........why do they still do it?

2007-08-07 09:53:50 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-07 09:52:38 · 8 answers · asked by Taysha (TJ) 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 17 years old and I have just started a long distance relationship with a guy my age. I don't think that I am too young for a long distance relationship. I haven't told my family about him yet because I am scared that they will say I am too young to have a relationship like. So, am I too young to have a long distance relationship?

2007-08-07 09:51:27 · 23 answers · asked by raidergurl2008 1 in Singles & Dating

I've never given it much thought but I get tired of people making Bill Clinton jokes to me. Clinton what do you think of that name? Should I go by Clint instead? thanks Clint(on)

2007-08-07 09:50:58 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I dated this guy for 2 mo, 3 years ago, it ended because he was scared of how fast things were moving and how he felt emotionally, he had been married for 12 years and divorced for 2 when we meet and he also has 3 kids. In this time frame after the break-up he got engaged to a Movie Star for a short period, it did not last and then 8-9 months after the engagement ended he recontacted me and we have been seeing each other for almost 3 months now. Things are great, when we see each other, but time is a challange for him, and I dont want to ask for too much time..and occassionally I get mixed emotions, about where this is going, he is 12 yrs older, very established (I am also for my age and we are in the same field), we live in differrent states, I am thinking of mving back to where we met, 45 min from him. But, when I approached the subject of his intentions a month or so ago, he seemed offended- and said that he just wanted to take things slow, that he did not want to make a mistake.

2007-08-07 09:50:38 · 9 answers · asked by In Love?? 1 in Singles & Dating

we saw him alot until then and all of a sudden nothing, no job , no visits, no $$$$$$, no nothing. the cops won't help because we were not married, but we have 2 kids together. he almost lived with us; he came over for almost every dinner and stayed the night when he did. he never mentioned leaving l.i. but he quit his job and none of his "people" have seen him in 6 months or more. some people say he had a girlfreind that got a job in calif. and he went with her but nobody is sure. he's from upstate and swore never to leave and one day return to his hometown. so where did he go and why? without a word, not even to his kids. that's not right!

2007-08-07 09:48:00 · 6 answers · asked by janet k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

they think i will regret it. and dont really love my boyfriend enough. i am only 15... but i mean...there are actually guys who care about you to the point where its just amazing.
the guy im with trusts me ,i trust him as well.and i know this sounds stupid but we know we wont leave eachother for a very very long time.we've been discussing this for a while too. he isnt really like other guys. i dont know how to explain it. maybe some of you girls know a guy like that. but anyways...they dont know what goes on through my head, because if they did they would see that im ready and that i love him so so much. i just cant tell them how much i do because i will sound "cheesy" to them.
i mean isnt it my descision? but i think what if they are right.
but at this moment i know im ready.
they tell me they will "tell my mom..." if i do. i didnt mean to share it with them. they asked me if i have. and im not a good liar.and i had to swear to them i didnt. goodness.
ha.

what should i do?

2007-08-07 09:47:42 · 29 answers · asked by Elana 1 in Singles & Dating

My new Boyfriends EX keyed my car. I hate DRAMA and I refuse to fight with another girl over a guy. My friends think he's great and say its not HIS fault that SHE keyed my car. I feel like im in a relationship with HIM, therefore it is his fault. I really like him but I think KEYing my car is the start of a long drama filled relationship! He's great in everyway but his Ex/Baby Mama is full of Drama. This is a new relationship so I feel like I have to decide now whether or not to keep him or get rid of him. Don't know what to do?? Am I being Unfair to him by blaming him for something someone else has done?

2007-08-07 09:46:05 · 21 answers · asked by HONEY 2 in Singles & Dating

Here is a quipit of my situation as of right now. My husband and I met last January, got married in April. We did the whole immigration process and he was approved in November. He left me in February. I asked that he handle the divorce since he wanted it, and I still have not received any paperwork from him to sign. I have seen a few of the documents that he had to send back to LegalZoom.com because they said that we owned property together and such, but that was at least a month and a half ago, and I have not heard from him since. I do not know what I can do to get answers from him, and since he filed for the divorce, no one will give me any answers. I'm getting towards the end of my rope going round and round with his family to get him to call me. Is there anyway that I can legally get information or am I pretty much screwed? My 2nd question would be, if he just up and left, and only left me with apx. $300 for bills (that doesn't even cover 1/2) is there anything I can do?

2007-08-07 09:45:33 · 1 answers · asked by adorethasp 3 in Marriage & Divorce

we have been together for 2 months.
we love each other with all our hearts.
his mom knows but mine doesn't.
i'm scared to tell my mom.
he has the ring.
we are seeing each other this friday.
he is giving me the ring friday.

2007-08-07 09:42:46 · 105 answers · asked by thalia s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well, my bf is my bff's ex ((she was the one who hooked him up with me because he really liked me so it's ok with her))

anyway, he is always talking about when he made out with my bff and it really bothers me..i don't like to hear him talk about it..he always casually mentions it. um..what can i do to make him stop talking about it..without being rude or anything? thanks.

2007-08-07 09:34:50 · 14 answers · asked by ♣swirley_gumdrops♣ 4 in Singles & Dating

I am married now but on the second day of marriage I found out that when we start dating each other, he was into sex date,where you meet for sex. I was so hurt because he didn't told me and he was looking for someone just to have sex. he was on couple dating websites. I talked to him and asked why didn't he closed the account. he said he forgot. before me he got breakup with his ex 2 yrs ago. means in 2 yrs he wanted just to have sex. I don't believe in dating sites but I felt bad. But there is still a question that bothers me that can men live without sex for little while. i was virgin when I met him. we married in 6 months. I still thinks why he was into sex site. i even saw his naked pics on that site. I asked him abt that first he got so irritated then he said he is sorry that I saw his naked pics on that website. then he deleted those pics. God I still wish that I should never saw that website. if he told me abt that i would never feel the same way.

2007-08-07 09:33:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What does it mean when a guy lays his head on your chest?

A good male friend of mine accidentally locked himself out of his house, and when he realized his mistake he lay his head somewhere between my shoulder and breasts...somewhere around the collarbone area.

What could this gesture possibly mean?

he did it again two times after that, too....Was it still just a ''friendly touch''...
Or did it go over the friendship boundary?

2007-08-07 09:29:03 · 9 answers · asked by Erica 3 in Singles & Dating

I come home and she sahuts the screen down quickly. or I catch her watching videos. Why does she watch those guys on the video and not me. It makes me mad she hides it. As a christian I beleive it is wrong. The bible says so. How do I stop her heathan ways? I would divorce her but the bible says I can not do that eaither. I am just a dumb male. Help.

2007-08-07 09:24:52 · 25 answers · asked by Shootsscores 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-07 09:21:45 · 22 answers · asked by random.princess 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

please help me soon

2007-08-07 09:20:56 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my birthday is next sunday, and i still don't know what to get! i have a zune, psp, enough clothes and shoes and love my phone, it's an N73! so what else is out there to get? maybe a trip to rome?

2007-08-07 09:20:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

they think i will regret it. and dont really love my boyfriend enough.
they dont know what goes on through my head, because if they did they would see that im ready and that i love him so so much. i just cant tell them how much i do because i will sound "cheesy" to them.
i mean isnt it my descision? but i think what if they are right.
but at this moment i know im ready.
they tell me they will "tell my mom..." if i do.
ha.

what should i do?

2007-08-07 09:17:55 · 36 answers · asked by Elana 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a really nice guy in the 10 grade. i am funny and smart and sarcastic a lot of the time. As for my physical description, I am 5-8 and have short brown hair that is kind of spiked up in the front. It looks kind of like Beckam's hair(style, not color). I got my braces off last year, so my teeth are really straight and also pretty white. I run cross country and track, so I am not overweight. I am smart and almost got straight A's last year. I really like sports and so do my friends. I am pretty muscular and I also have a good sense of fashion, but I do wear a lot of basketball shorts. I am also popular but I do have a few friends who like World of Warcraft more than sprts outside. I think it could work, BUT, I am fairly shy around girls and I want to ask out a hot girl who hangs out in the popular crowd. I have known her since 6 grade and talked to her the past few years. Do you think it would work if I ask her? And what should I say?

2007-08-07 09:13:13 · 17 answers · asked by Josh 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been noticing that alot of the "real good guys' out there keep getting over looked.And then us girls ***** about getting treated like crap. Do you hink that good guys ealy do finish last? And why is it that these guys so often get over looked?

2007-08-07 09:10:43 · 16 answers · asked by Pretty princess 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-07 09:09:48 · 29 answers · asked by Giggly Giraffe 7 in Singles & Dating

10n points for answering this question honest answer appreciated?
What does this mean?
What does this mean?
A guy and i were texting and he did keep on going on about sleeping together aanyway he only wants to see me when he is out ona saturday

so i sent him a text saying hi and that with all due respect i dont do casual sex...

Got this in reply

"wat u talking about have i actually tried to 'get in to your pants' i dont think so. Ive just been friendly with u but ill leave it , cant be arsed with u having a pop at me for no reason. good luck.x'

the thing is he has really flirted with me and when i went on his my space it was like a porno site i mean really is this the state of the world today dont mean to be a prude but the girls were laying in on a plate i just find it a bit sad.

i did like him he has been supportive and kind to me but i just sont want to be a one night thing...i did send a text back to apologise if i had offended. Do you think he still likes me should

2007-08-07 09:09:45 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend's mother is in her late 60s, and for lack of a better term, acts "desperate" when it comes to men. She is constantly prowling the personals, meeting up with guys and is constantly making just horrid choices. She complains to me about how they are all such "dogs" but keeps at anyway...and from what I can see she acts very coquettish and manipulative with them, they get sick of it and head for the hills. It's like she thinks she's still 14 and the local prom queen! Trouble is, she lost her looks long ago, and is very delusional about it.

At any rate, I'm the one who gets stuck having to hear all of her drama, and I get so tired of it. I wish she would act her age. Her son, my man, says he doesn't want to talk about it, but I wondering if she may have Alzheimers or something else that might be causing this kind of behavior. Is it normal for a woman aproaching 70 to behave in such an adolescent fashion?

2007-08-07 09:06:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do u guys look for in us girls?

2007-08-07 09:04:29 · 23 answers · asked by Amber W 2 in Singles & Dating

My mother has decided that she wants to meet Military men, and she wants to know if there are any free site to join with out paying to email someone, a site that is free in and out. My mom has been through a lot, shes been divorced for about 12 years now. She is a beautiful, wonderful, caring strong woman, who is looking for something long term, and no games. Her ex boyfriend whom she loved and cared for broke her heart and she caught him red handed talking to another woman and he was already mistreating her , so she was suspicious about his changing behavior towards her, because he was down talking her as well. Is Yahoo Personals free through and through, I been on it myself, but I never joined I just browsed a couple of times.

2007-08-07 09:03:32 · 4 answers · asked by Rodimus Prime Fan 2 in Singles & Dating