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What does this mean?
What does this mean?
A guy and i were texting and he did keep on going on about sleeping together aanyway he only wants to see me when he is out ona saturday
so i sent him a text saying hi and that with all due respect i dont do casual sex...
Got this in reply
"wat u talking about have i actually tried to 'get in to your pants' i dont think so. Ive just been friendly with u but ill leave it , cant be arsed with u having a pop at me for no reason. good luck.x'
the thing is he has really flirted with me and when i went on his my space it was like a porno site i mean really is this the state of the world today dont mean to be a prude but the girls were laying in on a plate i just find it a bit sad.
i did like him he has been supportive and kind to me but i just sont want to be a one night thing...i did send a text back to apologise if i had offended. Do you think he still likes me should
2007-08-07 09:09:45 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is out for one thing. Leave him alone. You can find better. Trust your heart girl. I mean if his site looks like a porno site..then its for a reason. If he really liked you he would have been understanding when you said your comment. He would have apologized for making you feel that way. Instead he realized you were not going to be easy and he got mad and blamed it on you so he could get rid of you .
2007-08-07 09:14:09 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you found early that this guy is a pervert. So now you don't have to worry about him only pushing up on you just to have sex. Its always good to see how a guy reacts to a comment you make about sex because then you can see how much he really cares or does not care about you, your feelings and sex. At least you know now that he only has sex on the brain and nothing else. If you feel like you really like him then give him a chance other than that do yourself a favor and leave him alone he will only hurt you in the long run by cheating on you with someone you know or with someone else. You have to respect yourself more.
2007-08-07 09:20:10 · answer #2 · answered by badazz_51 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is a user of women and a liar from what you have said.
You know he was hitting on you for sex and then he lied to you and said he wasn't.
Then he wrote you off the minute he knew you would not have sex with him in that way.
There also is the my space site of his...do you really want to be interested in a sicko like that?
I think you should not care if he likes you and that you should stay away from him. It is guys like this that end up doing the date rape scene. He sounds very sick.
He is a liar...as I said...or you said...he lied right to your face.
You will never be able to trust him...without trust you have nothing...
Let it go and move on...find someone who cares for you and does not just want to use you...you are worth more than that.
be cool...
2007-08-07 09:17:39 · answer #3 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WARNING...WARNING...
What's wrong with the rest of the week? Only on Saturday? Sounds like a hit it and quit it. You don't want that do you? Since when does texting actually allow you to get to know someone anyway? The trouble with texting is you never know how someone will interpret words without seeing the facial expressions that go with them.
2007-08-07 09:16:43 · answer #4 · answered by J G 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Here's one thing about human nature. Sometimes when a person is "figured out" and the actual intentions are brought into the open, the person will get defensive and turn it back around on the one to figured him out. This sounds like it's the case. You have nothing to apologize for.
2007-08-07 09:14:44 · answer #5 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to be perfectly honest I don't think he really cares about you as much as he cares about scoring. It could very well turn out to be more than a one night thing, though even if that happens I don't think he will actually care about you.
I think you should move on.
2007-08-07 09:14:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was attempted to get with you, he tried to be blunt and was going to see if it would be easy and you would agree. Since you didn't he's trying to act like he didn't want to at all, and blame shift it onto you, so you feel bad, It's a typical guy move.
2007-08-07 09:14:14 · answer #7 · answered by tokarcjm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow....i think this guy is a big time player....i don't think u wanna end up being heart broken later right???
but ofcourse u should do some background check....make sure that u got the right info about him.....sometime guys seems to be player but in reality their not...maybe trying to be...lol
maybe try to be friends with him first and from there get to know him....then thats the time for u to look for RED FLAG...
good luck
2007-08-07 09:20:33 · answer #8 · answered by angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a freak, and who really cares what he thinks? You are young you will meet several different people throughout your life. Just move on. And be careful with whom you associate with online ok!
2007-08-07 09:17:38 · answer #9 · answered by passionate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hhhmm. i think he might still like u, but 4 different reasons (if u know what i mean)
and i think u shouldnt b the 1 apolagizing.
wut u need with this dude is a serious talk (face 2 face, not text!) on if he really likes u 4 who u r.
and about his myspace, WUT A PIG!!!
i understand that it is kind of sad but is this truly someone u love???
u really just need 2 take some time and think it over and when u r ready u should invite him over and have a conversation on weather or not yall r through.
i really hope i helped!
and i am srry bout all this
good luck ♥
2007-08-07 09:18:02 · answer #10 · answered by BingBaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋