well, my bf is my bff's ex ((she was the one who hooked him up with me because he really liked me so it's ok with her))
anyway, he is always talking about when he made out with my bff and it really bothers me..i don't like to hear him talk about it..he always casually mentions it. um..what can i do to make him stop talking about it..without being rude or anything? thanks.
2007-08-07 09:34:50 · 14 answers · asked by ♣swirley_gumdrops♣ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm pretty sure he's not into her..he's had another gf since then and they broke up months ago.
2007-08-07 09:48:29 · update #1
sometimes i would always bring up my ex with boyfriend and he didnt like it either
i dont know why i would bring him up, its not like i still have feelings for him.
but he told me how he felt and i totally understood.
So you should just tell him casually. I'm sure he'll understand.
2007-08-07 09:39:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well for one ask him if he still has feelings for the chick. Because if he is doing it ever so often it could be a bit of a red flag that he only wanted to be with you because he got bored with her for a while there and wanted to check out greener pastures. But now that he is on the other side he could be bored with you now too and wish to go back and graze on the ex friend's side of the fence. Have to figure that part out first. But if he doesn't want to get back with her, you have to tell him how it makes you feel weird hearing him talk about an ex around you all the time. He should understand that.
2007-08-07 16:41:55 · answer #2 · answered by Cursed_Romantic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do the same... talk about your ex all the time whenever he brings her up. When he realizes that he doesn't like it and asks you to stop you can say well you bring up her all the time which you know I don't like and what you 2 used to do so I figured you'd want to hear about my ex. I'll stop talking bout my ex if you stop talking bout yours
2007-08-07 16:40:04 · answer #3 · answered by Goofy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) if he really liked you he would not be worried about her
2) its not rude if you feel up set
3) its acctually disrespestful if he does stuff like that
4) its not a weird question
5) tell him exactly how you feel...only do it the next time he brings it up
2007-08-07 16:39:34 · answer #4 · answered by sharee-ree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he may not know it but he's offending you with bringing up things in his past relationship that make you uncomfortable. You would appreciate it if he considered your feeling on this and stopped.
2007-08-07 16:41:33 · answer #5 · answered by Cherry Darling 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say please stop mentioning this relationship because I and would you like to please concentrate on the present relationship which is ours and please not kisses or anything else from previous ones.
Now if he can't it's possible he isn't over this relationship and her. Or maybe he is someone that isn't modest and likes to brag. Or it's possible he is testing you to hear relationships from the past and maybe see if you will do the same.
2007-08-07 16:42:55 · answer #6 · answered by nightavenger25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel about it and ask him not to talk about it anymore. If he still talks about it he has no respect for your feelings and it is time to find someone new.
2007-08-07 16:39:48 · answer #7 · answered by Lizzie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you don't want to hear about it, and that you don't think he should be talking about your friend that way, sounds like he is still into her.
2007-08-07 16:39:47 · answer #8 · answered by Greg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've heard it said and think it has basis in truth
that we teach people how to treat us
what do you want this boyfriend to know about how you want to be treated?
How can you let him know
and what are you going to do if he doesn't agree to treat you with respect
2007-08-07 16:40:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, if he had any kind of respect for you he wouldnt be talkind about your bff!! maybe you should just look for another bf?
2007-08-07 16:53:35 · answer #10 · answered by Souljaboywife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋