too attached?

Question

mk. im happy with my boyfriend. he's just...a bit annoying. i told him something that was bugging me about him and he let off. but he thinks im like... perfect. i'd feel bad to tell him something else that annoyed me especially if he doesn't find anything i do annoying. i really don't wanna hurt his feelings.

i mean, he's too attached! and he tells me he loves me too much. i feel that if you say it too much, it loses its meaning.

ive asked him many times to be honest with me and tell me what annoys him about me but he keeps saying nothing. so i'm scared to tell him.

should i come out and say it? or spare his feelings.

Answer 1

You need to come out and say it! I no just how you feel. I had the same problem. All you can do is ask for some space, and hope he understands. But if he gets all mad about it then you don't need to be with him anyway. Good luck

Answer 2

Well relationships need two way communication to work, or work well anyway. He's putting you on a pedestal and you're helping him maintain that image by not complaining. But if you can't share your complaints with him you're going to end up breaking up with him anyway becuase you won't feel comfortable around him. So you might as well try. Do you want him to love you or that perfect image he seems to like?
Just make sure you complain and don't character attack or critisize. A complaint is when you say, "You know, it really bothers me when..." A critisizm is when you say, "You never..." A character attack is when you say, "You're such a..." This will keep the communication constructive instead of escalating into a bitter fight.

Answer 3

Tell him now....otherwise you'll have the snowball effect...

it doesn't get better...
good luck......