I am married now but on the second day of marriage I found out that when we start dating each other, he was into sex date,where you meet for sex. I was so hurt because he didn't told me and he was looking for someone just to have sex. he was on couple dating websites. I talked to him and asked why didn't he closed the account. he said he forgot. before me he got breakup with his ex 2 yrs ago. means in 2 yrs he wanted just to have sex. I don't believe in dating sites but I felt bad. But there is still a question that bothers me that can men live without sex for little while. i was virgin when I met him. we married in 6 months. I still thinks why he was into sex site. i even saw his naked pics on that site. I asked him abt that first he got so irritated then he said he is sorry that I saw his naked pics on that website. then he deleted those pics. God I still wish that I should never saw that website. if he told me abt that i would never feel the same way.
2007-08-07 09:33:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
summary is I caught him on sex dating website. and he simply said that he forgot to close the account. he got 2 yrs difference between me and his ex. And in 2 yrs he wanted someone just for sex.
2007-08-07 09:40:37 · update #1
Maybe his breakup left such a bad taste in his mouth he did not want to be in a relationship for a while. So he decided to just look for sexual encounters. I don't know what is the reason behind him not deleting his profiles after you guys got married but he could have just forgot. I mean, he had you and was happy, right? Some problems are real and some we create. Which is this?
2007-08-07 09:41:01 · answer #1 · answered by cuddleyleo2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-21 01:03:07 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lived without sex until the day I was married at the age of 26. So yes. Men can live without sex. But they'll tell every lie in the book to convince you otherwise! I would keep an eye on your husband. Men who sleep around a lot don't always stop when they get married. Doesn't mean yours won't be an exception, but be careful. Do not let him take advantage of you. And if you are having a problem dealing with this, talk to your doctor about seeing a therapist. Good luck!
2007-08-07 09:39:39 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes we can live without sex for a while. It is different when you're in a relationship though, sex is part of the relationship and for it to stop one day causes huge issues for the couple.
Next, everyone has a past. What he did before he met you is not terribly relevant. You married him for the man he is and that didn't change just because you found out he had hooked up with women just for sex in the past.
2007-08-07 09:44:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sum advise, let it go this time and try to move on. I doubt that he forgot but we will never know. If he is that sex driven you should have a great sex life. If it stops or becomes an issue he may be messing around on those sites again. If there is a second strick, then he is no good and you should divorce. If you have not been married long, that is good grounds for an anulment, cuz it is new undisclosed info. that you would of nt married him if you knew. Hard decission, but get out of it or forgive ONE TIME.
2007-08-07 09:42:08 · answer #5 · answered by a2z_alterego 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ouch! my brain hurts. Yes we can live without sex for a while. I am currently at 8 months with previous gaps of 1.5 years and 2 years. Also I was married during those time. I am also a very horny man, but since I love my wife, I will take care of myself from time to time.
If he has those pictures in order to take care of himself, I would suggest renting some adult movies together and using them to help start a very creative sex life.
2007-08-07 09:40:29 · answer #6 · answered by parkdad73 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That varies from man to man. Honestly though most men can't. Observe wild male animals or dogs, they instinctively go after female animals for sex. Basically what I'm saying, is that it's natural (dam* testosterone). That doesn't justify your husband going on the dating sites without mentioning it to you though.
2007-08-07 09:40:39 · answer #7 · answered by John W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love some one , u can't cheat on her or him even though with out sex that works well with long distant relationships the only thing you will want is to make love with ur partner not with anybody else if u really loves him/her .
2007-08-07 09:38:59 · answer #8 · answered by Tiger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him **** that you just let you know that he will cheat on you many times over your life. I don't know if you can tell how men lie but damn, Whats he gonna do? Yall get into a fight he leave and go sex up another woman because he upset? Then come back to you, make you feel good then do it all over again? Think about it.
2007-08-07 09:44:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes sweets ihave lived without sex for a while dear but i love having good sex once in a while with a good looking gal sex is very good in life
2007-08-07 13:02:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋