I come home and she sahuts the screen down quickly. or I catch her watching videos. Why does she watch those guys on the video and not me. It makes me mad she hides it. As a christian I beleive it is wrong. The bible says so. How do I stop her heathan ways? I would divorce her but the bible says I can not do that eaither. I am just a dumb male. Help.
2007-08-07 09:24:52 · 25 answers · asked by Shootsscores 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is priceless! I hope some ladies will now see how idiotic their porn questions are!
2007-08-07 10:24:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-26 04:41:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to discuss her behavior and find out why she's watching the porn. Maybe she wants to be a better lover for you in the bedroom or maybe she has a addictive personality when it comes to porn. Either way you both need to talk about it and find a compromise to the porn watching problem. Don't beat yourself up over it because chances are it's not you with the problem it's her. And it's weird that she is the one with this kinda problem -- guys are more apt to porn addiction than women. If you lay it down on her and your sex life is awsome she shouldn't be curious but maybe it's just that curiosity. Talk with her that's the only way to solve this.
2007-08-07 09:34:07 · answer #3 · answered by crt35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I agree that you are a dumb male. Do you know how much energy i spend just on asking my wife to watch porn with me, to no avail? And I have been trying for the past 18 years.
Set the mood one night and maybe you can both watch a nice porn movie.
2007-08-07 10:05:27 · answer #4 · answered by johnmonroe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Wife Watches
2017-01-18 08:28:35 · answer #5 · answered by riveria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
" I am just a dumb male" that your answer. You probably have a low self esteem. She probably watches the guys on porn because they show that they are strong and confident of themselves. Your wife most probably like to watch a man take control of a woman. Are you taking control of your woman? By the way you wrote this letter you are probably not.
Take this advice when you get your wife alone, in your bedroom take control. Throw her down your bed and just take her and make her your own. Trust me she will love that. I bet that will stop some of her viewing because she will have what she lust for at home. Be A Man to your Woman. Take charge.
2007-08-07 09:50:06 · answer #6 · answered by lizarddog01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? You know how many men would love to have a woman who enjoys porn? You need to take advantage of this and watch it with her.. its not wrong. Its not like she is going out and cheating on you. Maybe you're so damn biblical that you aren't pleasing her in bed.. get a clue man!
2007-08-07 09:36:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you try Watching it with her. Ask her why she likes it it could be you need to spice up your love life Little bit.
The Bible also says you should communicate with each other and work as a team
God Doesn't Make Junk Help her don't hurt her !
2007-08-07 09:34:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow usually this question is geared towards men watching porn. I will say a prayer and hope that it all works out for you and your bible ways.
2007-08-07 09:28:44 · answer #9 · answered by charm_link 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try spicing up your sex life to draw her attention away from the porn? The bible is not against sex. Try doing romantic activities together and trying new things in the bedroom (new positions, using whipped cream & fruit, role play, etc). Real sex is always better than watching it. Good luck!
2007-08-07 09:33:35 · answer #10 · answered by NYCLady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋