Family & Relationships - 7 August 2007

Okay so Im in in the same situation with the same guy. We've been "friends" for 1 year now. Recently I finally got frustrated and told him that I can no longer do this(sex). We didnt speak for 4 weeks and finally he sends me that lame send a rose text to everyone you care about text and another one stating "Isnt it ironic how we ignore those that adore us,adore the ones that ignore us, hurt the ones who love us and love the ones that hurt us"text. What is he trying to say. He tells his mother about our arguements, she adores me. He asks my sister if Im seeing anyone. Recently, I went to a wedding and he wanted to know if I was going with anyone because he would be jealous. But he never tells me his intentions with me. He pops in and out of my life every two weeks. Im so in love with him, I love everything about him. I think we would be perfert for each other.He only said he cares about me, and that Im a good woman. Please can any man or woman give me some sort of input. Im miserable

2007-08-07 09:03:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-07 09:02:22 · 107 answers · asked by specialsuber 3 in Friends

My boyfriend held hands with another girl named Crystal. He said that he just did it because she wanted to make a guy that she liked jealous. I found out this information from Crystal two months after it happened. She said that my boyfriend made her swear not to tell me. I talkled to him about it and he said that he didnt feel any romantic feelings when they held hands and that he was so sorry that he did it. Should i forgive him or kick him to the curb?

2007-08-07 09:00:38 · 25 answers · asked by Julie 1 in Singles & Dating

say anything you'd like
=)

2007-08-07 09:00:14 · 9 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

Don't count random dates that go nowhere. I mean how long have you not been in a long meaningful relationship?

2007-08-07 08:57:07 · 15 answers · asked by ursoolastsumer 2 in Singles & Dating

Should I wait for a day before ringing this girl I like? Shes coming back from a month in Israel and I need to know if I will look desperate if I ring as soon as she comes back. Does it really matter how long I wait?

2007-08-07 08:56:23 · 11 answers · asked by Amachronic 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, there is this guy Chris I used to date. He was very jealous and just dramatic so we broke up and stopped talking.
However, the other night he asked me to go with him and his best friend, Alex, to a bonfire. At this bonfire, Chris told me he liked me and I politely but clearly said I only want to remain friends. Chris then proceeded to get very angry and leave me at the bonfire where I did not know anyone! I was stranded for 3 hours!

The problem is, I completely adore his best friend. I cannot stop thinking about him. But I'm afraid that Alex will remain loyal to his best friend especially since Chris talks to Alex about me all the time. I have no way of communicating to Alex via telephone except through Chris, which Chris already thinks I'm fond of Alex (I am but never told him) I do not know Alex that well and I don't want to be a "stalker" by going out of my way to message him asking to hang out via myspace.

Any words of wisdom? Please!

2007-08-07 08:54:29 · 13 answers · asked by Jenna 2 in Singles & Dating

just kick it at home? Im asking cause my boyfriend only wants to hangout with me if its exciting like movies, dinner, bar things like that. its getting really expensive for me and im always late for work due to late nights. we live together so even when he goes with his friend my sleep is disturbed when he gets home cause then we fight about why I didnt wanna go out. Im asking cause Im starting to think im wierd or something i mean i really would love to just kick back and watch a move in my pj's while lying on the couch with my guy am i the only one who would prefer this to going out?

2007-08-07 08:52:17 · 9 answers · asked by ... 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-07 08:49:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

or any other attributes that you feel is very important.

2007-08-07 08:48:15 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have 4 groomsmen and 3 bridesmaids including my maid of honor. I just don't have that many girlfriends and he has 3 guy friends but I really want my brother to be in the wedding.

2007-08-07 08:48:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

if ur guy best friend of almost 3 years.
confesses his love to you??
would you give him a chance
if hes attractive and awesome personality
and u know he would be a good b/f???

2007-08-07 08:46:39 · 21 answers · asked by its becca :] 2 in Singles & Dating

it can make you do crazy things and then leaves you feeling so hollow.
what is the best way to deal with it or keep it locked up?

2007-08-07 08:46:17 · 10 answers · asked by bingowings 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

well my kind of guy is nice and very very very hot

2007-08-07 08:43:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Thing is, I wouldn't mind so much but she often sleeps with strangers in the back of her Fiat Punto

2007-08-07 08:43:23 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-07 08:37:51 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you knew your wife, who is openly cheating on you . Ended up getting pregnant with the other guys baby.
Now she is telling me to tell others its ours.
Look I know I will love it like my own , its just that she cheats and I put up with it. Now I am supposed to act happy about this too.?

2007-08-07 08:35:22 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Should she be classy or wild and crazy. How should her personality be.

2007-08-07 08:33:22 · 6 answers · asked by little s 2 in Singles & Dating

We were supposed to adopt my 3 month old nephew who was severly abused by his mother and father. He decided to back out and then also decided that he thought we were better off apart. Because said this I moved out. It's about a month 1/2 and I haven't heard anything from him except for closing accounts and such. No "I love you's" have been thrown my way. He has made it possible for a no contact clause to be into affect since we both work in the same unit. (He's military, I'm a civilian employee...we don't work in the same building.) He even attends the same church as I do and it's hard seeing him every Sunday without wanting to go and hug him. I miss him.

How can I let him know how I feel about him if I can't contact him? Did I make a mistake? If so, what do I do?

2007-08-07 08:29:00 · 17 answers · asked by Leaving on a jetplane 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am throwing a bridal shower. The groom's aunt is a lesbian -- both she and her partner are invited to the wedding. Do I invite both of them to the shower? I would think "yes", but I just wanted to know what other people think...

thanks :)

2007-08-07 08:28:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My rehearsal is on thursday and wedding on Sat, so I was thinking to have dinner on Friday, but is that not ok?

2007-08-07 08:27:49 · 9 answers · asked by *Duke*my*baby* 1 in Weddings

i have a gland disorder (hypothyroidism) so it makes me gain weight i am going to have it removed but for now im kinda big
i want a guy who loves me and my body but i cant seem to find one lots of guys r shallow whats your veiws ladies too

2007-08-07 08:21:29 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What really turns you off when a girl comes to flirt at you?

2007-08-07 08:18:52 · 24 answers · asked by danielle 4 in Singles & Dating

My sister, who is in her early 20s still lives at home with our parents. Over this past weekend, she and her boyfriend were in her bedroom doing things that no one would want their parents to ever see! LOL They WERE dressed, by the way, but obviously, thought they were alone when my parents returned home from dinner and walked by her room. My mother said the door was half opened and they didn't "sneak" into the house. Evidently, my sister and her boyfriend were oblivious and do not know what my parents saw. My parents have had some trust issues with him in the past, un-related to anything sexually, but have just overcome those issues, and now this. They are quite old-fashioned and conservative and my dad wanted to wring his neck upon seeing this! LOL They haven't said a word to either of them. Should they say anything and keep going on as if they didn't see this or how should they approach and handle this very awkward situation? My mother and I are very close as are my sister and I...

2007-08-07 08:15:49 · 7 answers · asked by blessed1 3 in Family

ok i think im kind of ugly cause i havent had a girl like me since 2nd grade litterly..and there was this girl i liked who said i wasnt ugly but i was not close to cute or even dateable..and then i went out with this girl last year..but she only went out with me cause she felt bad..and she did it to get closer to another guy..i dont know what to do..

2007-08-07 08:15:26 · 57 answers · asked by Jonathan 2 in Singles & Dating

When I go to the community pool with my kids I wear a t-shirt in the water because I'm self conscious of my stomach. I'm not bad, but I'm carrying a "few extra pounds" and I'm not very muscular. I haven't been "skinny" since high school, but I would like to look a little better so I can feel comfortable taking my shirt off. Also, it bothers me when their are "hot" women in bikinis. I want to look good.

2007-08-07 08:14:08 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is it normal for a woman to not be attracted to men who are criminals or rebels and don't date men to change them because she knows she can't change anyone but herself?

2007-08-07 08:11:28 · 23 answers · asked by earth_dragonai 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been talking to my ex boyfriend after being broken up for 5 years. He was my high school sweetheart. I loved him more than I have ever loved anyone else. I never stopping loving him or caring about him but we didn't talk at all the entire time we were broken up. We broke up because he cheated on me. He tried hard to get me back right after it happened and I really wanted to be with him but I was too hurt. He says that cheating on me and losing me was the biggest mistake of his life and that he was young and stupid. He wants me back and says he will do anything for me. I want him back too I just don't know if I can trust him. I'm afraid of getting hurt all over again. They say once a cheater, always a cheater but I'd like to think that's not true in his case. Any advice?

2007-08-07 08:09:57 · 6 answers · asked by iLoveSublime 2 in Singles & Dating

i love everything he does, he turn me on so much. ok, i also like to play with myself . but i think it's because i'm younger. i have a girlfriend she is 30 , but she love sex more than me. do you know anything about woman sex life? help!!

2007-08-07 08:09:31 · 18 answers · asked by lu 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 17, wanna be a broker, so I can be rich young, what should I know about real estate in Hawaii, thats where I'm from

2007-08-07 08:09:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating