am i ugly?

Question

ok i think im kind of ugly cause i havent had a girl like me since 2nd grade litterly..and there was this girl i liked who said i wasnt ugly but i was not close to cute or even dateable..and then i went out with this girl last year..but she only went out with me cause she felt bad..and she did it to get closer to another guy..i dont know what to do..

Answer 1

A real girl who is worth your time will look past your looks and into your personality. Don't worry, your time will come for the right girl. Enjoy life past relationships - your hobbies, friends and family are also important!

XOXO,
Laurie

Answer 2

Let me guess, still in high school or junior high maybe? Cuz adults don't date people to get closer to others.
I can already tell what your problem is - you have low to no self-esteem.
If you're worried about your looks being the problem, maybe ask a couple of girls what you could do. If you're afraid to talk to girls, just go to the mall and ask some of the girls that work in places like Abercrombie, Hollister, American Eagle, etc...
The biggest thing you can do without any help at all is to grab a mirror. Look into it as many times a day as possible, and when you do, tell yourself how hot you are, how girls just fall all over you. Say it as LOUD as you can. You'll seem stupid at first, but after a while you'll actually start to believe it. Your confidence level will increase and girls will notice.
Girls won't believe how great you are, if you don't believe it yourself. Seriously, give it a try. You'll be amazed!

Answer 3

No one is truly ugly on the outside. As they say "beauty is in the eye of the beholder".
Your problem is probably like me. I am shy and not outgoing with little confidence. That is why I have not had a lot of different girlfriends. I know I have seen guys with women who are physically attractive and they were not.
To me it is what you are in the inside that counts the most. There are those who are beautiful on the outside but not in the inside. Someone who is ugly in the inside is what I call ugly.
And remember that there is someone for everyone!
Good luck and try to keep positive.

Answer 4

Everyone in the world has what i call their pull factor!(The ability to get a certain level of woman)This factor is increased or decreased by many factors;rich,famous,sports star,being in a band,having a good body, being a good talker and listener, and believe it or not confidence all change your pull rating!!Confidence because if you're always apologizing and asking if everything is all right and too suffocating that will turn a girl off just as much as your appearance.One of the best ways to meet girls that might be out of your pull rating is to have a hobby in common such as pets and or special interest such as helping out at a soup kitchen or the like!!If you have common ground with a woman then it is easier to talk the them about common everyday things since you have common ground that you can go back to when the conversation is getting slow or stale!!(SEE CONFIDENCE)First try to get in shape if you don't care for yourself then why should she??(Makes sense to me)Second dress and groom yourself well(i don't mean Armani and Gucci)Go to Ross and gets yourself an outfit that looks good on you!!And style your hair a little moose or hair gel to keep your hair in place and you wont have to worry about it the whole day!!And finally practice being nice not nerd nice but respectful nice.Hold doors,pull out chairs,be on time,etc!!(MOST WOMEN HAVE HAD A BOYFRIEND THAT HAS TREATED HER LIKE CRAP AT ONE TIME IN HER LIFE OR ANOTHER...MAKE SURE YOU DON'T REMIND HER OF THAT BOYFRIEND)Finally have a game plan always dont just walk up to her and say hi and have no clue what you're gonna say next.Think it out!!If you're gonning on a date know what you're gonna do before you get to that point!!If you ask"so whatta you want to do" everytime, she'll get borred with you! Women like excitetment and adventureKnow where you are gonna where you will go next if the dates gonning good or bad and where you want to go on the next date if you get there!!AND ABOVE ALL BE CONFIDENT!!!

Answer 5

Don't be hard on your self! it is tough to find a person who feels happy with you and affectionate so what you can do with out changing your personality you can try being more social with a girl you like and show her that you are brave enough to talk to her and show affection twards her. You must keep the conversation going by asking about her rather then telling her all about your life. If she doesn't like you because your so ugly then she isn't really a true person to love. Don't go to fast with it because girls don't always like that just take it slow and I assure you that you'll do great!! :)

Answer 6

Well Jonathan, I think you may be coming off as be a bit needy or a cling along. You need to work on your self esteem and develop some confidence. Girls like guys that are confident and sure of themselves. My advise to you is have good personal hygiene. If you have acne try to get stuff to clear it up ..if you wear glasses get contacts, keep you fingernails clean and clipped. Get a good hairstyle and before your clothes are clean and up to date. If you aren't sure what to wear check out Abercrombie.com or HCO.com(hollister) or pac sun. Start working out and you'll start feeling better about yourselfs. Having a great personality goes a long ways.

Answer 7

A girl not liking you has nothing to do with your looks, its confidence and you have none. Women are the ones who are supposed to be worried about their looks, not men. Try gaining confidence go out and dont worryy about what people think. But its not easy ,once you think the way you do, to change it. It will take some work but if you willing to take on the challenge its doable. Just remember that if one turns you down move on to the next.

Answer 8

imma tell you like this, there are some cruel *** people in the world. i havent seen you so i dont know if your ugly or not. but ugly guys get girls 2 ; prime example: flava flav he beyond ugly. the sooner you come to terms with the way you look and realize that what anyone else thinks is just their own opinion and reflects their shallowness and insecurities the sooner you can be happy with your self and get a girl that can see and like you for who you really are. and if she doesnt then she aint for you. i'm a big guy, to picture my size, look at a picture of fat joe thats my body build so you best believe i have had my fair share of humiliations and broken hearts. but i'm telling you man, dont linger on the pain, use it to fuel your ambition and determitation so you can get on in life

Answer 9

I agree with Laurie. When the right person enters your path you will definitely know because she will love you for who you are despite the way that you may look.
You should always have high confidence in yourself even if you think you are not that good looking which without seeing you I still find hard to believe because everyone has something beautiful about them. Even in there looks.

Answer 10

hey,beauty comes from within...what matters most is the inner beauty,which is valued the most.....and is quite hard to find.
i haven't seen u yet,but i can definitely say that u have good mind that is loving...

When the time is right,i bet a girl will come to you,i swear cos in this ever changing world it's hard to find a guy or girl with a true mind...

Cheer up ,things will take a turn for the good...