how many men like bigger girls...girls opions are welcome?

Question

i have a gland disorder (hypothyroidism) so it makes me gain weight i am going to have it removed but for now im kinda big
i want a guy who loves me and my body but i cant seem to find one lots of guys r shallow whats your veiws ladies too

Answer 1

Every woman in my family has hypothyroidism and they all are happily married. Because all the guys were raised around heavier woman we all tend to like heavier woman. It really just depends on the guy.

Nicole. I'm sorry but you are stupid.

Don't ever change who you are too attract guys. When you get older you will just gain the weight back. And if a guy wouldnt date you when you were heavy they arent worth the time of day anyways.

Answer 2

I will admit I love curves on a woman, but not to much where our activity together is limited to her size. I know some woman don't have a choice, and everyone can find someone they enjoy being with.

The size isn't the problem at all in my opinion, it is the restrictions that come with the size.

I don't enjoy dancing much, so I am not going to be with someone who enjoys to dance a lot, and those girls mostly have slender body's. So the trade off is I don't dance, i don't get that type of girl.

I do enjoy to hike a lot, so if my GF can stand a 5 hour hike over 3000 feet above sea level, that's great with me.

Make sure to gain enough weight that your happy with , but you are able to do just about anything with your size. I don't consider the size the real problem, but the restrictions that come with the size.

If i cant lift my girlfriend up side ways, that is a problem.

if i cant put my arms around her, that is a big problem.

If i can do both of those things and she is over weight, I wouldn't care.

If she cant run, than that's a big problem, and just for a lot of a reasons like safety reasons.

Answer 3

First of all don't develop a sense of low self esteem about yourself. That will make problems worse for you. The person who answered that said it is about who you are on the inside is very accurate. In todays high tech society the media advertises to be thin is beautiful, but that is a fallacy. There are many people both men and women, guys and girls who have these so-called ripped bodies that are shallow within as you have said. Who would want someone who does not have it going on within. Rich looking body, poor spirit and character. Though there are many guys and girls who are just plain beautiful people within who happens to look good or who are handsome without, you should not be self conscience of your situation in a negative way. A lot of what's going on depends on how you let it affect you and how you react. There is an old saying that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so enhance your qualities of beauty on the inside and it will glow without all around you and some guy will be attracted to the beauty of you................God Bless and keep it pimpin homegirl!!!!!!!!!

Answer 4

I have been small and large size in my life. I meet all sorts of men. Some like me when I was small and some when I was big. I can say that in my personal experience I did get more boyfriends when I was smaller. But they were not necessarily the best of the boyfriends either. I would say if you interviewed 100 guys about 30% would want only a small women
30% would want just a big women, and the other40% would take either. Thank God for variety!
These are just my personal experience now not stistics or anything.

Answer 5

Let me tell you story.I was really attarcted to looks.But i never felt close to anyone an did not fall in love with anyone.

The person i felt in love was my best friend and he is totally not attractive but i was the happiest person .

So reality check,No most of the men don't like big girls except for some exceptions who have big girl fetish.

But this is restricted to only to those situations when the the basis of relationship is attraction.Sometimes when people meet at a level of friendship and grow closer then most of the time the physical attraction don't mean anything its just how you make other person feel.

So this is the kind of person who we should go out with.

Answer 6

hypothyroidism does make it more difficult to maintain a healthy weight, but it's not impossible. You will need to exercise much more than the average person. Most people with hypothyroidism find a happy medium between obese and neurotic exercise. Ask your doctor what is healthy for you and then learn that YOU are beautiful the way you are. If you feel beautiful, there will be others who perceive you in that way.

Answer 7

Personally I've found that most guys are pretty swallow and do go for the perfect sized woman. In my case my weight continues to be a constant struggle for me. I fall into the normal/health category for my height yet by culture standards I'm overweight. It's frustrating and I don't think guys appreciate that most woman can't possibly fall into the rail thin category. My bf tells me constantly that I'm beautiful and no where near overweight...but he's my bf so i think he's impartial. So yes I to am interested in male responses as well.

Answer 8

This question sure does get asked a lot on here. I am surprised by the amount of big women that do not realize they are beautiful in their own way. Yes, guys can be shallow, so can girls. There are plenty of guys that like bigger women and if you are patient, then you will find one. Good luck.

Answer 9

Girl you shouldn't be ashamed of what you look like.. Most men are very judgmental and want this skinny pole lookin girl.. Nah.. A bigger girl is a real woman. We are natural. And yes I said WE because I am also.. We have curves. We may not be a size 0, 2,4. But we are human..

Men just want eye candy, but what most men don't realize is a skinny girl will cheat on him, because she knows she looks good. A girl with curves or a bigger girl won't, And I say this because if you have a guy.. You are not going to mess things up with him. You are faithful, loyal and honest with him.
You dont' want to lose him..

Thats my point... And I'm stickin to it!

Answer 10

There are all kinds of guys out there and they go for all kinds of girls.

One thing for sure: The typical 'model' type is actually pretty unappealing in person. If you ever see one, they look terrible: Way too tall and skinny. Ugh.

Girls get too hung up on their body image. Most guys are far more likely to be interested in your pretty face than your body. And I think guys are far more likely to be attracted to a girl with some curves. The stick figures you see in the media are not appealing. There is nothing sexy about being able to count a girl's ribs!