2007-08-07 08:37:51 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
too young both of you, no matter what your hormones are shouting your minds are not ready
2007-08-07 08:39:59 · answer #1 · answered by ?! 6 · 8⤊ 1⤋
Before making a choice of having sex that you can and WILL regret, take this into mind...
-Are you ready to accept any sexual diseases that come your way?
-Are you ready to be a parent? Honestly, do you think you could raise a kid when you're still one yourself?
-Are you ready to throw your childhood away?
The answer to all of the above is and should be NO. You have a right to be a child! Even if you don't like it, you ARE a child!You're too young to accept that your relationship is not serious, and having sex is dangerous and should be done with someone who you have been with a long time and are prepared to spend the rest of your life with. At the age of twelve, you are not prepared whatsoever for sex. I recommend you talk to a parent, teacher or counsellor about this immediately.
I certainly hope you get a whole new outlook on this.
XOXO,
Laurie
2007-08-07 08:43:34 · answer #2 · answered by Laurie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys are WAY too young. This is a serious step! I dont know if you have had your period yet? I mean if you havent even had your period yet then your body isnt even ready for sex! You cant possibly enjoy it because if you havent gone through puberty then you cant experience an orgasm. And, even if you havent had your first period, may mean you cant get pregnant, but it DOES mean you can catch an STD, you didnt say how old your boyfriend is, and you dont know if he has been with other women and if he might have an STD. I hope you know well about stds and pregnancy before you have sex, but I hope you dont, you'll regret losing it that young. And for the love of God, use protection. You are too young to throw your life away on either pregnancy or Aids, or hepititis or something.
2007-08-07 08:44:08 · answer #3 · answered by Ms_S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off Im shocked you can even spell sex. Do you even know what it is? Better yet do you know why sex was created? Honey, you and your boyfriend need to learn what it really means to have sex. Its something that is very special and should not be taken lightly. I know you gonna hate to hear this, but your only 12. Enjoy your life and wait for the right MAN not boy to give yourself too.
2007-08-07 08:43:29 · answer #4 · answered by Mr uknowwho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. No. And again... no. You are far, far, far too young. I know you can't understand it now, but sex is not just a physical act. It has serious, serious psychological effects that you can't possibly anticipate. I strongly encourage you to wait. And I think the fact that you are asking that question on here says you know deep down this is not a good idea. Wait a few years. Sex will still be there, and you will be in a far better position to handle it. By the way, how old is your boyfriend?
2007-08-07 08:41:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
No problem. I mean the chance of you getting pregnant is slim. And besides, lots of 12 year olds are having babies these days and do just fine.
Both of you should grow up. You have plenty of years before you need to do anything. Enjoy being a kid.
2007-08-07 08:43:08 · answer #6 · answered by CJ B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really should wait till your older cause this could ruin the rest of your life I understand you are curious but try to wait you can enjoy it better when your older
Sex is over rated !! You can have fun but don't have sex try oral or toughing but don't go all the way it can do you more harm then good
2007-08-07 08:43:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't forget to post a pic showing us how you look 52 at the age of 12 with AIDS.
2007-08-07 08:47:24 · answer #8 · answered by GiDDY1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when your that age you think that you know everything, ive been there. what you have got to remember is that the law is not in place to just piss you off, its there because certain things at certain ages can damage you. for a start your body is still developing and such things could possibly damage you. secondly, twelve is not at all the correct age to bring up a child. and face it, you wont be with this boy for the rest of your life and will defo regret it in the future..i hope you take my advice
2007-08-07 08:46:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can say is the more people tell you not to the more you will want to, so you need to find you're own reason to wait, you will be much better off if you do, and safer also. love will not cure disease or pregnancy, and no matter how much they say they are committed to you, you are 12 and there will be so many different loves out there for you so don't settle now.
2007-08-07 08:43:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nooooooooooooooooooo. Enjoy being a child. You are too young to have a boyfriend and way to young to be having sex. Read a book and educate your mind.
2007-08-07 08:40:49 · answer #11 · answered by simply_ch0c0late 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋