Family & Relationships - 7 August 2007

and why is my crush going out with this guy being the happiest sl*t in the world? would u ever date a guy like this?

2007-08-07 11:07:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

About two years back I signed up for a certain website. On it, I lied about my age. I said that I was 16, which was three years older then my real age. I thought nothing of it at the time.

Well, I made friends. One who I got extremely close to and ended up falling in love with. They love me, too, but they have no idea about my real age...its sent me into a horrible depression...I can barely enjoy things I used to because I'm constantly thinking about how I'm a liar. I don't know what to do. I didn't mean any harm. I know I can't tell..I don't think I'd be forgiven, and I don't know what I'd do to myself after that. Help, please.

2007-08-07 11:07:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

there is a guy that keeps talking to me and calling me,but i asked him out two times and he said no both times. now he's flirting with me and keeps meeting me places. how do i tell him that i'm over him?

2007-08-07 11:06:06 · 18 answers · asked by ~!~party girl~!~ 2 in Singles & Dating

After dating my ex boyfriend for a month is it ok if I stay over at his house or vis versa?

2007-08-07 11:04:44 · 4 answers · asked by Megan 2 in Singles & Dating

have you had a relationship with a freind that involved sex yet you were able to stay freinds even when you or them hooked up with some one elese and the sex stoped ,or did the frindship fail.

2007-08-07 11:03:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my dad is pissed at me cuz i made out with my ex but he was my current at the time and we only dated for a week what should i do
and was it a bad thing

im 13

2007-08-07 11:03:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we're not aloud out after 8:30 and we have to be in bed by 9:30.its annoying so a few months ago me and my 15yr older brother harry snuck out when our parents thought we wer in bed.we met up with some of harrys friends.it was good fun,we just hung around the valley and there were a few girls.we did it more after that.there was drinking sometimes and a bit of messin with the girls.but a few nights ago when we were on our way back to our house,harry was a little bit drunk and he smashed our next door neighbours window with a rock.harry would never usualy do something like that but he'd definatly had a bit to much to drink.we both felt really bad the next day.when our parents asked us if we knew anything we said no,i feel guilty now because our parents trusted us and stuff.i want to tell them but i dont want to get everyone in trouble.our dad spanks us HARD and we've never done something like this before.i dont want to get spanked.the windows fixed now.should i tell or just leave it?

2007-08-07 11:02:52 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife and I have been married for a short time and during that time, we had so much stress with financial stuff that I might have said something to upset her. There were also lack of affection between us. One day I cam back from business trip, she said she wanted to take time off and be alone. I was hurt but said Ok. Recently I found on her phone text messaging that she been exchanging with one of my very good friend. This guy is a truly gentleman in the eyes of many girls. In the text they said they miss each other and my wife use the "love" word in there. I confront my wife but she said she pick him to purposely hurt me for what I've said to her during our arguments. She also does that to prove that she still can get men fall for her. She said nothing physical happen between them though she really like the way he treats women. She said she still love me and ask me to forget. She said she still love me. Should I forget and work on our marriae

2007-08-07 11:01:43 · 36 answers · asked by heavyd 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What are some good sayings to have engraved on the inside of a wedding ring?
i need some help :D

2007-08-07 11:01:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

sixty nines?

2007-08-07 11:00:34 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Could be your kindness, money, not helping with clean-up after dinner, it could be many things--- Just looking for somefeedback. Thanks for your answers.

2007-08-07 10:59:12 · 13 answers · asked by cruisingalong 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I plan to do it for a month. It's for a close friend of the family.

2007-08-07 10:58:29 · 1 answers · asked by camdavis@pacbell.net 1 in Friends

Okay so my ex & I split up, we have three children together. He fights me tooth & nail to have the kids 50/50 but mainly because he doesn't want to help me out with anything. I buy all their clothes, shoes and even get our son's haircut cause if I ask him to do it he says he doesn't have money. Well I'm currently in school & last semester he took them on tues/thurs. & everyother weekend well now he will not do it for me this sememster, he says too bad that I need to deal w/ the kids on my own if I'm in school the nites I have them. He will not be flexible at all. There is no court order & Im scared to petition to go to crt. bcuase he works when he wants w/ his dad's co. & was recently on UIB. I make way more money then him & run the risk of having to pay his sorry a** but he's so hard to deal w/ I think I just need to take him to crt. Is it wrong for me to ask him to switch days? it's not like he's doing n e thing n e way. I'm finishing school to provide better for our kids yet

2007-08-07 10:56:44 · 18 answers · asked by justbeingme_ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

for all you guys out there (who are 13/14) I have naturlly curly hair a little past my shoulders. I wear it curly everyday pretty much but do you guys like straight hair better?? PS: i also straighten my side bangs and leave them out.

2007-08-07 10:55:26 · 16 answers · asked by Christine 1 in Singles & Dating

MY fiancee proposed to me and we are engaged we have been since christmas...however...
I was wondering I don't feel like he put alot of thought into the ring or the proposal.

I feel like yeah he wanted to marry me however did he really try to make it romantic or sweet. What does his effort show?
mY RING IS white gold with a marquis cut diamond in the middle with 3 small diamonds on the side. i asked my fiancee if they were diamonds he said he didnt know asked if they it was gold he said he didnt know. I told him I needed to know for cleaning the ring...so I know it is because he is shy about..what DO YOU THINK?

MY QUESTION IS:

SHOULD I WONDER ABOUT THIS AND SHOULD I ASK HIM
SHOULD I BE FEELING LIKE THIS

AM I SELFISH FOR THINKING THIS WAY.

2007-08-07 10:55:09 · 15 answers · asked by MS.veronica 3 in Weddings

You know - show those old fashioned qualities and values like respect, morals, empathy, kindness, caring, protective nature....and the most important one - not trying to jump you.....and rest of the list that could go on & on!

What i am, basically, asking, is if a bloke doesn't want a serious something with a girl will he show these qualities the majority of the time?

2007-08-07 10:54:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been separated for the past 18 months and we have a 3 years old son. I want to have my family back but my husband doesn't want it. I feel he no longer loves me and has totally moved on but neither of us finalizes the divorce. What can I do to make him love me again?

2007-08-07 10:53:46 · 19 answers · asked by mona 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If you were sick of your wife would you be rude to her,, talk to her and try to make things better,, cheat on her and have her still watch the kids, hoard money or lie to her and try to find someone new then kick her to the curb????

2007-08-07 10:52:51 · 5 answers · asked by cruisingalong 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have this fear of beautiful women. Everytime I try to talk or look at them, I get those anxiety butterflies in my stomach. How can I learn to get over this phobia and learn to see them as a normal person?

2007-08-07 10:51:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

no rude comments plz!

ok, so i have this new boyfriend and he seems really nice. the thing is, tho, he always asks me if he can touch me; and of course i have to say "no". but one time i said "yes", and i liked it. but my mom always told me not to let that happen. is it normal 2 like it??

2007-08-07 10:51:44 · 34 answers · asked by ☼CheerGirly☼ 2 in Singles & Dating

This is really hard to try to make this short. I'll try. My parents are married, and I believe that we can all be a happy family. My mom is really unhappy because she doesn't feel any love in her relationship with my father. They just don't have a healthy relationship. I want everything to be okay.

I want my parents to be happy, and I'm afraid of divorce. I worry that if that ever happens, how my parents will be by theirself. My dad drinks a lot but he's wonderful when he's not drinking. I love my parents too much to see them apart, and they love us too much. I can never choose between them. If I had to live with my mom, I'd worry if my dad's okay. He'll have no one without my brother and I. My mom will be so mad if I choose to live with my dad.
I just don't know. I'm living everyday worrying, and I'm just hoping that they will stay together, and be happy. I want them to work things out. See, I'm writing this really jumbled up because I don't know how to explain. Complex. Try?

2007-08-07 10:50:48 · 20 answers · asked by faisdebeauxreves 1 in Family

So i met a guy saturday at work, i work as a cocktail server at a club. Sunday he invitess me to a bbq at his parents house. I say no because i just met him. He lives in california hes just visiting his family here in my city. The next day he invites me to come and meet his parents. I tell him no because i have a suv and they live about 30mins away. He tell me dont worry he will give me gas money. When i get there hes nice and so is his parents when i leave he gives me $100. Is something wrong with this picture? My sister said he seems a little desparate and i should watchout. What do you think? Also he wants me to fly to California and he will pay for it next month...

2007-08-07 10:50:13 · 5 answers · asked by the truth, do you hear me 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-07 10:48:13 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Got this girls number last night, should I text or call? And what should I say?

2007-08-07 10:45:11 · 13 answers · asked by Steve 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it true or is it just a myth? And they said when they are pregnant with a black kid the rate of miscarrige rises 54% than same race. They also said it only applies to BM/WW while all others are normal.

It made my girlfriend upset because she wants to marry me and have 4-5 kids.......

Sounds stupid to me but is it true?

2007-08-07 10:44:13 · 21 answers · asked by The Truth 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well, I met this guy who is everything I want in a guy. U may have read some of my other questions , but I really like him .We will call him "X". Now , X and I have really started talking and really started to get to know each other really well . And we text sometimes .Hes really sweet and and very cute and cares about me obviosly because he told me he did and he listens to everything I have to say w/o innterupting me . Only theres abit of an age diffrence.Its almost a 4 year age diffrence. I was thinking about him last night and I realized I had a crush on him . I was in his room watching a movie last night and I was on the floor and he came up and wrapped his legs around me . Idk if he was trying 2 rape me or get me in the mood or hit on me or make me feel comfortable or what ever. Now, Mr.X,Is a very atteractive emo/goth guy ( WICH TOTTALY IS SEXY!!)) And the only problem is , He has a girlfriend. And according to his stories .Isnt going great. So, DOES HE LIKE ME OR WHAT !?!?

2007-08-07 10:38:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've just begun the process of planning my wedding and would love to hear some ideas!

2007-08-07 10:33:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anna D 3 in Weddings

I need beautiful classical song peices for a wedding cd I'm putting together. Any suggestions?

2007-08-07 10:32:33 · 8 answers · asked by Holly 3 in Weddings

Put it this way, without the kid I would definately not be with her. But, I want to see my kid everyday. I want him to be under my roof where I can take care of him. If we split, I would have him half of the time at best.

2007-08-07 10:28:23 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well first off....I am 19 and my ex b/friend is 19 also.....we had been togather for 1 year and 3 months...he moved away last year to lived in new york,because his parents got new jobs..I was so hurt...I live in aruba.... but now he came back for a week .....and we still have strong feeling for eachother.....and he told me the only way that he can stay ...if I get pregant...because his parents would let him stay with me then........ I rrreeeeeaaaalllllllyyyyyy do love ,but I don't want a baby right now....and I don't know what to do....could you pls help me?

2007-08-07 10:27:38 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating