Well, I met this guy who is everything I want in a guy. U may have read some of my other questions , but I really like him .We will call him "X". Now , X and I have really started talking and really started to get to know each other really well . And we text sometimes .Hes really sweet and and very cute and cares about me obviosly because he told me he did and he listens to everything I have to say w/o innterupting me . Only theres abit of an age diffrence.Its almost a 4 year age diffrence. I was thinking about him last night and I realized I had a crush on him . I was in his room watching a movie last night and I was on the floor and he came up and wrapped his legs around me . Idk if he was trying 2 rape me or get me in the mood or hit on me or make me feel comfortable or what ever. Now, Mr.X,Is a very atteractive emo/goth guy ( WICH TOTTALY IS SEXY!!)) And the only problem is , He has a girlfriend. And according to his stories .Isnt going great. So, DOES HE LIKE ME OR WHAT !?!?
2007-08-07 10:38:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really want to know . If he is leading me on , or useing me , or if he really likes me . He kissed me last night too. It was sorta passionte sorta peck like .
2007-08-07 10:40:07 · update #1
MY GOD PEOPLE!HE NO LONGER HAS FEELINGS FOR THE GIRLFRIEND! he cant break up w/ her until she comes back to scotland in to days ! He gets h8 emails from her every day! DONT GET ON HIS CASE FOR IT ! OR MINE!
2007-08-07 10:51:45 · update #2
if he breaks up with her as fast as she comes back i would belvie him if he doens't I would leave fast.
2007-08-13 17:02:13 · answer #1 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first impressions of 'X' is that he's trying to get something on the side. If he was really interested in you, he would have broken up with his current gf first. That whole bit of him caring because he told you, and he listens, only means that he thinks he can get in your pants. If you want to go out with him, first make sure he breaks up with his current gf first. The last thing you want to do is become the 'other girl.' Then, even if you can get him to dump the other girl for you, there is a good chance that he will go back to her, or chase after another girl while he's dating you.
Oh, and he was making a move on you last night. If you wanna think that it means he likes you, go right ahead, but you will probably end up hurt.
2007-08-07 17:52:55 · answer #2 · answered by Erulechto 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys have there own ways of thinking. They live in the moment. They don't worry about tomorrow unlike us females. They want what they can get right now. So he likes you at that particular time, but he has a gf that things aren't going so great. Have you asked him Y ?? if your ready for a big mess than go along for the ride, but prepare yourself to get hurt. If things arnt working with his gf, Y doesn't he break it off and pursue you?? Or does he just want his cake and eat it to??
2007-08-07 17:46:34 · answer #3 · answered by Italianaprincess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him the next time you see him (in person). What the deal is with this other girl that he says isn't going so great. Show the kid that you've got some self respect and that you want to know the next time you talk if he has really broken it off with her and there done. Otherwise you don't want to see him anymore. If he doesn't break it off with this other girl then you've got the answer your looking for don't you. And not breaking up with her is telling you he wants his cake and he wants to eat it too. Yeah.........your being used if he doesn't dump her. Good Luck.
2007-08-07 17:46:12 · answer #4 · answered by MLJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the sounds of it you didn't exactly reject him...
He already has a gf - REGARDLESS of whether things are going well or not, he's obviously not man enough to sort things out before looking else where for a quick screw!
'wrapped his legs around me'...! sorry that made me lol!
what the hell!?
EDIT:
lf you post an open question online, expect a wide range of responses...!
2007-08-07 17:46:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok ok ok... dont let the emotoins get the best of you... THIS is how you find out if he likes YOU or is using u as a way to make GF jealous or leading you on.....
tell him how you feel and ask him how he feels...if he wants to be with you in a relationship that is more than a friendship....and if he does then well... hes gotta say bye bye to GF.... listen to his response.. if he sounds ifffy..like..'well i have feelings for her too' .. hes pulling somethign.... if he says , 'i'm glad you finally realized that i was trying to have a relationshp w/ u' then... there you go :D
2007-08-07 17:44:20 · answer #6 · answered by amethyst_mitchell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP in ur tracks he has a gf not good dont bother weather its good or not.
If u had a guy would u want him textin and being the way X is with sum other girl weather it was going good or not.
Think about it
2007-08-07 17:43:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to get intimate, but if he has a gf then he would probably do things behind your back as well. Usually men that are that forward with one girl, are that forward with others. If you want a relationship, you might reconsider.
2007-08-07 17:47:37 · answer #8 · answered by Duke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's showing you that he cares for you. Sounds more like a hug was what he was doing.
I'd suggest that until he drops this other girlfriend you don't get involved with him.
2007-08-07 17:44:25 · answer #9 · answered by Clueless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to be with someone when the start of that relationship was by him cheating on his girlfriend? Won't you worry that some day he will do the same thing to you?
2007-08-07 17:43:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
guys who do things like that behind their girlfriends' backs r womanizing losers. how can u miss that? it's so obvious he's into u but dont be 'the other woman.' as far as i can see, ur the second one in his life. get him to choose and dont give in so easily. he might be using u to get what his gf cant give at the moment. (he probably has others too) be careful.
2007-08-07 17:48:45 · answer #11 · answered by evanescent_eclipse 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋