If you were sick of your wife would you be rude to her,, talk to her and try to make things better,, cheat on her and have her still watch the kids, hoard money or lie to her and try to find someone new then kick her to the curb????
2007-08-07 10:52:51 · 5 answers · asked by cruisingalong 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A man makes his choices based on confidence and strength, not insecurity and fear.
If I cared enough for her to marry her, I'd care enough to at least let her know what's bothering me about "her" or "us". I'd explain as best I could, give her the opportunity to change, and support her if she made the effort. If she chose not to make the effort, there would be consequences. Whatever those consequences were, the would be open. She would know what they were and see them coming.
Why cheat on her? That is both weak and cowardly. If I am not ashamed of who I am, I am not ashamed of what I do. My actions would not be hidden.
Why have her act as my servant, laboring under the impression her service provides a return? Am I so cheap I need her free labor? Am I so dishonest I will steal time from her? No man would do so. If she watched the kids, it would be because they were her kids as well, fully knowing that this action was not part of "saving" a marriage.
Why hoard money? While married, good or bad, our assets are "our" assets. Why would I steal money from her? If I needed to hoard money, I would tell her so. I would take my portion of our assets and set them aside, giving her the chance to do the same. No man would do differently.
Why lie? One lies because one is afraid of the consequences associated with telling the truth. I am not afraid. I am not afraid of her.
Why would I need someone else to run to before I "kick her to the curb"? Am I so weak, so insecure, I have to have some other woman waiting in the wings before I go? If I cannot stand on my own two feet, and walk away on my own, I am not a man.
2007-08-07 12:05:29 · answer #1 · answered by antirion 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all, why is he sick of you? Some things can be worked out through counseling. Some things just can't! Both people have to be mature and not get jealous or petty.
2007-08-07 17:58:35 · answer #2 · answered by K M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm only if you have no feelings whatsoever. I can see a guy getting upset and doing 1 or 2 of those things but if he is doing all of those things then he is a jerk and she is better off without him.
2007-08-07 17:58:11 · answer #3 · answered by Cupcakes Moosey! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sick of my wife. I don't talk rude, I just flirt with other women and get sex on the side.
2007-08-07 17:56:24 · answer #4 · answered by I'm all yours 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If I was sick of my wife and completely evil . . . yes.
2007-08-07 17:55:47 · answer #5 · answered by JC 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋