no rude comments plz!
ok, so i have this new boyfriend and he seems really nice. the thing is, tho, he always asks me if he can touch me; and of course i have to say "no". but one time i said "yes", and i liked it. but my mom always told me not to let that happen. is it normal 2 like it??
2007-08-07 10:51:44 · 34 answers · asked by ☼CheerGirly☼ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is normal to like it..just be careful. If he is a new boyfriend, he is moving a little fast. Take it slow, if he can't respect that then he isn't worth your time. Things can go too far way too fast, and it can all start with touching, so keep that in mind.
2007-08-07 10:55:55 · answer #1 · answered by ..ash.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a respectful young man, i believe i can help answer your question.
you sound pretty young. maybe around 11, 12? maybe even 13? even still, you are at a curious stage in your life. i dont not believe that it is the end of the world for you to like what he did. all girls do like it! it feels good, thats why God made you the way you are.
HOWEVER, that does not mean you should go and do it all the time because if you do get into practicing that sort of behavior at such a young age, it can really lead you down a slippery slope.
basically, the point i am trying to make, is that now you know what it's like. you may want to do it again, but for your own sake (and it sounds like your parents are raising you right), dont go off and do it again. if your new boyfriend truly appreciates you, then he should understand that being this sexually active at such a young age is bothering you.
2007-08-07 10:59:37 · answer #2 · answered by arizonacat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes of course everybody does it an its nothing to b ashamed of and of course all parents tell there kids especialy they tell it to the little girls they say never let a boy touch u an all boys r bad an stuff like that but thats only cause they dont want u to grow up so fastbut yeah its normal an natura that i dont know how old u r but i will say that if ur stilll young then i mean pleazz dont have sex with this boy just wait a while okay? cause i really dont want you or anybody else doin something just cause everybody else does it an i dont want u or any body else regrettting it in the future
2007-08-07 10:59:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is turned on by sexual contact. But the point is you are young. You will have many boyfriends before you find your true love.
If you keep this up with this boy or other boys. You will be encouraged to go further and further. And will end up have Sex with one of them.
That is dangerous not only from a health point of view, SIDS, HIV and pregnancy, But from an emotional point of view.
When girls have sex with someone, It brings out feelings of love, closeness and caring. For boys it's just sex and they want it whenever and where ever they can get it.
Sex is not something you turn off like tap water. If you have sex to early, you may end up feeling used and thrown away over and over again. Something to think about.
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2007-08-07 11:25:57 · answer #4 · answered by ƝɨѕhҠѡe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay...I am going to assume he touches your vagina area. If so, here is my thinking on that...God didn't give you the parts to make it feel good if it was wrong. It is how we use those parts. It is perfectly normal and acceptable to like it.
I hope that you are at least 16 years old, otherwise you are little young. Take things slowly with this guy - a red flag goes up with asking all the time.
2007-08-07 10:55:37 · answer #5 · answered by Kate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is normal to feel that way, but only when you are old enough, it sounds like you are very young and you shouldnt let a guy touch in that way regardless whether he is your boyfriend or not...maybe he just wants to have sex with you and that is why he is being nice to you..think about it before you end up doing something you might regret
2007-08-07 11:02:55 · answer #6 · answered by Preciousme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is normal to like it, however I am with your mum. She is trying to tell you not to start too early in life and to keep your self respect. Don't be too easy in that area. You are right to say no, especially if you haven't know him very long. Make him wait and that way you will really know if he likes you for who you are or what he can get out of you.
2007-08-07 10:58:41 · answer #7 · answered by DONNA MIA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is so normal to like it!! I dont know how old are you... but it is totally normal!! My mom used to say the same thing to me but I let a boy touch me eventually and it feels great! There is nothing wrong with that as long as you dont do it with everybody... ;-)
2007-08-07 10:56:16 · answer #8 · answered by Carolina_79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how old you are....it sounds like you are still young and going through "that pre-stage"....Do not let him do whatever he wants just because it feels good. You should respect yourself and wait until you are older and know what you are doing before all that happens. Give yourself time to grow up!
2007-08-07 10:58:04 · answer #9 · answered by skboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um how old r u ????
touching can lead to much more and if you dont hold your ground with him he can expect more really fast
listen to your mom talk 2 her
if you cant then talk to me
if you have already started PMSing then yes it is normal to like it but slow down there lil momma you might be getting way over your head:)
2007-08-07 10:56:38 · answer #10 · answered by summerbliss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋