Family & Relationships - 7 August 2007

I babysit 2 boys who are 7 and 3. The younger one likes sporty things and the older one likes crafty things.

2007-08-07 02:10:08 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Mainly a 30 something audience so 70's 80's and 90's is good area to start. no heavy hardcore or crappy RnB suggestions please and likewise Slipknot and Death metal suggestions will also be ignored!
Nothing too cheesy but good party tunes ideas required....?

2007-08-07 02:10:04 · 11 answers · asked by GreboGuru 2 in Weddings

If a guy is sitting on a bench and has his hand on the back a bench and a young lady that he knows sits down and he removes his not once but twice when she sits down. What can that be translated as?

2007-08-07 02:09:10 · 8 answers · asked by explosyv 2 in Singles & Dating

my husband left me and wanted a divorce. he wants to sell the house or leave it until it's avicted. Can I get a divorce settlement to support me and our daughter and can I keep the house and have him and me pay for it ? Pls help, any lawyers can answer ? anybody been in this situation ?

2007-08-07 02:05:24 · 5 answers · asked by Selly 1 in Marriage & Divorce

His wife had an affair, a child was produced, she left and left the child with his parents, now 10 years later, the biological mother is wanting custody of said child and the father to pay child support. Is this legal?

2007-08-07 02:03:41 · 13 answers · asked by kntmccallister 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been involved with a married man for almost 4 years now. His wife found out about a year after we had started but he didn't leave her and she kept him. We started up again a few months after that and continued for another couple years. I hate being in this affair and I want him to either leave her or stop messing around with me. I have told him this and since we have not done anything but email for the past 3 months and he insists that he still wants to be with me but he just "can't" leave because he is too much of a wussy. He wants his wife to get tired of their loveless relationship and leave him instead of him leaving her. I know I am a fool for even emailing him still but I need to hear it from other people and get some suggestions for moving on.
Thanks!

2007-08-07 02:02:28 · 27 answers · asked by foolinlove 1 in Marriage & Divorce

too choose between him and your kids are grandkids? but when he meet you he knew you had kids and grandkids.now it is too much for him are he just wants out..

2007-08-07 02:02:06 · 19 answers · asked by lisa b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am not talking about alamony which is used to maintain the quality of life that the ex had before divorce. Is it supposed to be used for car payments, rent, and utilities? I am of the impressions that partial rent, clothes and activities for the children is its intent.

2007-08-07 01:58:31 · 24 answers · asked by Rein 5 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my ex are back 2gther and we are going on a date 2 movies and dinner.we were talking and he had planned that we see a long movies so we each can get a little "play'' since we havent seen each other in a while.im guessin he wants to feel and touch...[a little extra cirricular activity if u know what i mean]how can we do that in the theater?lets say he wants to do a little finger play..do i put my legsup..slide down my jeans....give me ideas people!!on how we can do this and please dont answer this with..get a room cus we arent gonna be able to go home that night..or rent a hotel room

2007-08-07 01:55:26 · 2 answers · asked by attavia g 1 in Singles & Dating

I am divorced but getting re married, I have 2 small children by my first marriage and as such, untill they leave full time education, my ex wife has first dibs on my estate should I die to allow for child support. My question is this, if I remarry, then die, what happens to my estate? will my new wife be suddenly homless? I understand that the law has to make allowances for the children but after all my ex did get a £300k house, £20k in cash and a new car, plus she gets £450 per month. I feel this should be enough so I would like to make my new house secure for my new wife or my children not my ex wife. Any legal ideas?

2007-08-07 01:53:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Are you currently in a bad or complicated marriage with someone that you KNOW is not going to change, but yet you continue to stick around? What are your reasons?

I have been married for 3 years to a man that would rather protect his ego than to say he's wrong or agree with what is right. If you have read any of my posts then you know what I've been through. But for some reason I can't find it in myself to move on. He's never going to change and I know that. But I sit and "hope" that he will finally see that he is messing up a good thing. I really do care about him but I can't list a lot of positive things about him. Anybody else in this situation?

2007-08-07 01:53:26 · 8 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm finishing up a dress for my daughter. It's a fifties/eighties style and she loves it. Are any of you making anything for someone close to you?

2007-08-07 01:53:11 · 5 answers · asked by granola*girl™ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-07 01:50:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I met him during college, and we were both into debating. He was an intelligent and open-minded guy, and he's very good looking. At first, I didn't realized that the special attention that I am giving him was love, but when he confessed that he liked my girl friend, and that girl said that she also liked my best friend, i was hurt. Although the two didn't ended up together because my best friend left town, he still likes my girl friend (w/c had already moved on), while I'm left behind hurting. What makes me confused is that recently, he traveled for hours just to see me on my 18th birthday, he agreed to pose as my boyfriend that night, and as he left the next day he kissed me on the cheek, which he never did before. What do you think?

2007-08-07 01:46:25 · 6 answers · asked by kitty_in_distress 2 in Friends

heres the story, I'm 14, but that dude likes me. But i only liked him as a friend.....but he don't want to. He email me and say all kind of dirty words to me. well i change my email. The problem is, i do not want to think about any relationship right now until I'm finish with college. And i 'm a straight A's student and i want to continue that in high school, i think having a boyfriend, will affect my way of thinking in school. But I'm afraid these kids are going to called me a Lezz... . Because when i tell a guy i don't want to have a bf, they always called me that. And that boy is going to the same school as me, and i do not want to see his face. Neither talk to him. So what do you think?

2007-08-07 01:45:03 · 13 answers · asked by lovely 1 in Singles & Dating

I am writing a paper about interesting old person, would you like to share some the story of an interesting old person happens around you, maybe it is just a story of your grandma?

2007-08-07 01:42:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I had been dating a guy on and off, for about a year and a half. Well since it was never continuous, I hadnt had a chance to get to know the "real" him so to speak, and vice versa. Now we've spent a great deal of time with each other and I've realized that he's been lying to me about several things (about having his own place, car, financially stability). Even though his lies are so obvious, because he keeps forgetting what he's already told me, he just keeps lying. I no longer consider this person to be someone I could possibly date seriously, but I havent deleted his number yet either(ha). I really want to be his friend and let him know that he should tell women the truth so that he can know who wants him for him....I'm very understanding because Im a friend first. But Why keep telling lies when I can see the truth. What to do??

2007-08-07 01:42:16 · 6 answers · asked by Z. 3 in Singles & Dating

We had a relationship that lasted for only 5 months, he is my 2nd boyfriend, he keeps on texting me till now, even if he has a girlfriend whom she had for almost 3 years.. he shares me he's problem with that girl. he said he missed me and and if by chance he wanted to see me again. guys help me.. Is that a sign that he still loves me??

2007-08-07 01:40:08 · 12 answers · asked by BROKENHEARTED 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do we guys even ask? What difference does it make anyway.

2007-08-07 01:39:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-07 01:38:08 · 1 answers · asked by mad&sad 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-07 01:35:57 · 8 answers · asked by mystic_speculator 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi am rads(female) born in 1980 august and love a person who is born in 1981 march. So we have 6 months difference, and he doesn’t know about the age.
And he never really want to go for love marriage .so he said he will talk to parents and if they say yes he will marry me. so 99% I am expecting a positive reply from them as I know their parents and they really like me, but not sure how they will react after their son tells about love matter. so am waiting my guy to tell their parents first.
Now I hided my age because I don’t want to lose him.
Can you please suggest me how to solve this problem?

2007-08-07 01:34:08 · 20 answers · asked by jojo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife has many male friends who come even for dinner, and i never mind that. But when my wife came to know there is a girl working in my office , she asks about her everynight. this girl with whom I hardly talkhad never called me in my phone not even on friendship day ,my wife in fact received alot of calls from xmale friends and colegues on this day . what is her problem? she is otherwise nice and good to me.

2007-08-07 01:33:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Thanks

2007-08-07 01:32:11 · 13 answers · asked by Mr Brightside 1 in Singles & Dating

After over 18months my partner (we are both mid thirties) broke down in tears and on Sunday and told me that he feels confused and unsure about whether he is ready for our relationship. I'd known this for a while deep down but i chose to ignore the signs. I suggested that he took some time out and really thought about what he wanted. I told him that I loved him but I wanted him to be happy. I have a son who is 12 and i dont want him to suffer. Im feeling lost and hurt.
My question is: should i simply detatch and leave him alone to think and to the men out there....surely he would know after 18 months if I was the 'one'. Is it an excuse? Thanks x

2007-08-07 01:32:03 · 1 answers · asked by dollydagger 4 in Singles & Dating

My friend of 15 years has just been told that her husband had a thing with his sister for numerous years until he got with her. It totally groses me out that she can even stay with him but she says that she loves him too much to leave him. they have a couple of kids together so i think that is the real reason she is staying with him. She said she just wants to forget about ever beingt told how do I go about bringing the topic up with her again to make sure she truely can deal with it all?

2007-08-07 01:29:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

being with someone is so cool and id love to know what it is about that person that makes you happy...and cause im not biasd...if your single and happy...what is it about being single for you that makes you happy...

2007-08-07 01:28:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i wish he share his fantasy too...but when i share thought he just smile...& back to watch porn again.. = [

2007-08-07 01:27:18 · 16 answers · asked by waki! 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my ex wife was one of those that at the slightest argument or criticism she would feel so much hurt she would have to run away. every little slight became a huge hurt to her when others would just view it as a marital spat. everytime she felt totally hurt, she'd run away...for the weekend, to her brothers, call her mommy. you name it. she was one that ran away from responsibility instead of facing it. she's left me on multiple occassions. she told me that when she left, she wanted me to chase her. What? she learned that from her mother that if you love them, they'll chase you and kiss your butt. finally this last time she left, i didn't chase her, changed the locks and said go find a lawyer. now she's all pissed because i told her parents what she's been up to that they didn't know to get her help (DWIs, expired license, abortion). Now she's pissed and wants to trash me in this divorce. I still love her but will she ever change her ways because she's realizing she's losing me forever?

2007-08-07 01:26:55 · 14 answers · asked by survivor 1 in Marriage & Divorce

the girls she hangs about with who seem to do it also. My hubby enjoys rap music etc but he doesnt talk the talk so im at a loss as to why these girls do this..they are not daft wee lassies, they are in their 20's. Or am i just getting old? LOL. They even "write" it on their bebo pages...

2007-08-07 01:26:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships