After over 18months my partner (we are both mid thirties) broke down in tears and on Sunday and told me that he feels confused and unsure about whether he is ready for our relationship. I'd known this for a while deep down but i chose to ignore the signs. I suggested that he took some time out and really thought about what he wanted. I told him that I loved him but I wanted him to be happy. I have a son who is 12 and i dont want him to suffer. Im feeling lost and hurt.
My question is: should i simply detatch and leave him alone to think and to the men out there....surely he would know after 18 months if I was the 'one'. Is it an excuse? Thanks x
2007-08-07 01:32:03 · 1 answers · asked by dollydagger 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
18 months should be long enough. If he can't commit now, he never will.
2007-08-07 16:14:51 · answer #1 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋