Hi am rads(female) born in 1980 august and love a person who is born in 1981 march. So we have 6 months difference, and he doesn’t know about the age.
And he never really want to go for love marriage .so he said he will talk to parents and if they say yes he will marry me. so 99% I am expecting a positive reply from them as I know their parents and they really like me, but not sure how they will react after their son tells about love matter. so am waiting my guy to tell their parents first.
Now I hided my age because I don’t want to lose him.
Can you please suggest me how to solve this problem?
2007-08-07 01:34:08 · 20 answers · asked by jojo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
marrying a person 6 months younger person than me,is it wrong?
2007-08-07 01:47:49 · update #1
marrying a person 6 months younger person than me,is it wrong? am an indian.
2007-08-13 17:21:47 · update #2
Hiding your true age from his family seems to be a bigger issue here than your age difference. Six months is nothing to be concerned about. It would have been best to be honest in the first place, but since it is such a small difference, perhaps they wont be too upset by it. Just make sure you tell them why you chose to keep it hidden so they understand you believed it was in the best interest of a relationship that is very important to you. But don't hide it any longer....it can only make it worse.
2007-08-07 08:54:50 · answer #1 · answered by Kim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you happen to be Indian? Thats the only culture I can think of where this would even be a concern to you. Also you state that the person you love never really wanted to go for a love marriage so what kind of marriage does he want? A buisness one? Or just one that is in that culture? If you start anything off with a lie, it will catch up with you. Especially if you are Indian where most Indians do not want to marry older women , but actually would prefer to marry women much younger than themselves. Is this why you are hiding? For our culture 6 months is nothing............... but I am going to be honest with you... if you are Indian and you hide this and they find out you know what could happen.
2007-08-13 01:04:01 · answer #2 · answered by billies35 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't figure out what cultural tradition you come from by your post. Age may make a difference in some cultures, but for I can't imagine that 6 months makes a difference in any culture or religion. I really can't believe that 6 months should make ANY DIFFERENCE AT ALL! Your children couldn't care less. Your friends don't care. Your religious leaders probably don't care. Why would your parents care?
The bottom line is, if you lose this guy because you are 6 months older than he is, you really haven't lost much, have you? Anyone who would leave the woman he loves after finding out she was 6 months older than he was is a looser. You wouldn't want him. You deserve someone more mature, of better upbringing and who respects you for who you are.
2007-08-07 01:45:53 · answer #3 · answered by David in Madison 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is just a number there are many people who have way bigger age difference's than 6 months. Me & my husband are 8 yrs. age difference and we love it! You do need to tell him though because you don't need to start out a relationship with lies that could be why you lose him in the long run!
2007-08-14 08:58:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is an age difference to you? And your response is to lie about your age?
Please finish growing up before you consider marriage. Find a job that you love, train yourself in some skill, further your education, develop your sense of self.
Here is a clue that you are not ready to marry: You are waiting for a BOY to ask his mommy and daddy if he can marry you.
When you are fully a woman, and you are in love with a man, then think about marriage.
2007-08-14 11:38:43 · answer #5 · answered by Pamela B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should tell your BF the truth.
I feel that there is not age gaps.
What wrong with that if U are 6 months older then him?
No Big Deal!
Only 6months I feel it's OK.
Do your BF love U?
I send ~ Best wishes to U.
2007-08-07 01:53:41 · answer #6 · answered by Beatrice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is 6 months younger than I am and we've been happily married for 8 years. What's the big deal?
2007-08-07 01:39:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 months is no big deal. BUT do not marry a boy. Wait until you are old enough to have a MAN.
2007-08-07 01:40:20 · answer #8 · answered by Cantor2002 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nah it's okie 100 %
Look at Aston Kutcher and Demi Moore ??? ya'll realise that 6 months is nothing to them !
2007-08-07 01:36:44 · answer #9 · answered by crystal_heart100 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will discover this in Matthew 2: verses 7 via sixteen. King Herod sent the sensible adult men to Bethlehem to seek for the newborn Jesus. while the sensible adult men stumbled on the child Jesus, they have been meant to bypass back and tell king Herod the place he replaced into. King Herod informed the sensible adult men that he had to bypass and worship the child Jesus. This replaced into not real. He did not choose to provide up his throne. while the sensible adult men accompanied the massive call and found the child Jesus, they fell down and worshipped him. They have been warned of God in a dream that they shouldn't return to Herod, instead they departed into their very own u . s . yet otherwise. while the sensible adult men did not document back to king Herod, he knew he were mocked by using them and he replaced into rather wroth. through fact of his wroth he ordered for all toddlers under the age of two to be killed thinking for beneficial that infant Jesus existence might honestly be taken. i spotted that for the time of your question, you reported "6 month or youthful." i'm using the king James version, and my Bible says in Matthew 2:sixteen "from 2 years old and under....." This replaced right into a prophecy spoken by using Jeremiah the prophet.
2016-10-09 09:49:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋