My friend of 15 years has just been told that her husband had a thing with his sister for numerous years until he got with her. It totally groses me out that she can even stay with him but she says that she loves him too much to leave him. they have a couple of kids together so i think that is the real reason she is staying with him. She said she just wants to forget about ever beingt told how do I go about bringing the topic up with her again to make sure she truely can deal with it all?
2007-08-07 01:29:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Considering the fact that it probably took a lot of guts for her just to tell you about it, you shouldn't say a word. Let her bring the subject up and then giver her your opinion.
2007-08-07 01:49:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break it down to her and tell her that you don't think that she has truly dealt with that situation. Tell her that you have something important to talk to her about. Let her know that you don't want to upset her. Ask her if she really think that she is doing the right thing for her and her children. She needs to know to put her kids first and what will they say when they find out or the are old enough to understand.
2007-08-07 08:38:18 · answer #2 · answered by shanelle045 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her deal with it her way and stay out of it unless she comes to you. Butt out!
Not everyone wants others to insert themselves into their situation. Your friend will come to you if she needs you as I am sure she knows you are willing to help. Let her deal with it and you should be able to tell how she is doing.
Don't project your feelings to how she feels ... you probably have different perspectives. Give her some time!
Good luck!
2007-08-07 08:32:54 · answer #3 · answered by steveheremd 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nasty- but if ur friend doesnt want to remember (as if she'll ever be able to forget) u should be the best friend u can be by dropping it and only talk about it if she brings it up!
2007-08-07 08:34:13 · answer #4 · answered by stuckinin 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Was it his real sister or step sister If it was his real sister watch him around his own children he may have boundry issues
2007-08-07 08:34:56 · answer #5 · answered by chameleon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not bring it up! Forget it. It is not your business!
2007-08-07 08:37:55 · answer #6 · answered by 55 and trying 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is really sick, what is wrong with these people??? They need more help than you can give.
2007-08-07 08:35:46 · answer #7 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow, you mean like INCEST? Too much information for me.
2007-08-07 08:34:40 · answer #8 · answered by frankyzee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
now that IS something new under the sun.
2007-08-07 08:32:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Thats gross he did it with his sister fucken gross
2007-08-07 08:33:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋