heres the story, I'm 14, but that dude likes me. But i only liked him as a friend.....but he don't want to. He email me and say all kind of dirty words to me. well i change my email. The problem is, i do not want to think about any relationship right now until I'm finish with college. And i 'm a straight A's student and i want to continue that in high school, i think having a boyfriend, will affect my way of thinking in school. But I'm afraid these kids are going to called me a Lezz... . Because when i tell a guy i don't want to have a bf, they always called me that. And that boy is going to the same school as me, and i do not want to see his face. Neither talk to him. So what do you think?
2007-08-07 01:45:03 · 13 answers · asked by lovely 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
aw. you guys are so sweet. i like all the answer. Thanks a lot for all these great answers. you guys rock!!
2007-08-07 02:16:47 · update #1
hack care about them... don't bother about them what they say.. as long you are happy with yourself.. is good you put studies first..
2007-08-07 01:49:47 · answer #1 · answered by qinny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just because a guy calls u a lezz and wont leave u alone doesnt mean u have to give up ur plan of not dating til after college if that's the way u feel then keep with the plan and just tell them that if they actually really cared about u they would understand and respect what u want
2007-08-07 08:53:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders. Keep doing what you do girl. You have goals and morals so don't allow anyone to tempt you away from that. You want to wait to have a boyfriend then do that...you're young and have all the time in the world to have a boyfriend. Get an education because that will help you in the long run. Let them call you whatever names they want because when you're making be money doing what you want to do they'll probably be the ones opening your doors and cleaning your floors. Stay on task...good luck!
2007-08-15 02:21:23 · answer #3 · answered by Keya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think guys cause drama, problems, confusion you just wind up getting hurt. If you feel like you don't want a boyfriend because you want to focus on your career then stick to it. When you have a boyfriend when your young it doesn't really last anyway. I have had a boyfriend they mess with your head and you can't concentrate on school. I hope this helped. =)
2007-08-15 00:02:33 · answer #4 · answered by XxnikkirosexX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Print out the e-mail and show it to other people if he starts calling you a lez and say "Why would I want to date a guy that is going to treat his girl like this. You obviously got no respect for me. I will wait until I can find a decent guy that will treat me with respect....that ain't you". That should shut him up. If not, oh well. Keep doing what you have been and you will be better of in life than they ever will be. Props to you girl!!!!
2007-08-07 09:00:10 · answer #5 · answered by Lookin-2-Talk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Poor girl(: Dont get into any relationship, too young. and you have got straight As girl! dont care about what others say. I mean, there was this who liked and he worse thing is that i dont even know him, not at all! and he even started rumours about that im his Gf kind of things. i didnt care and the matter will rest itself:D all the best.
2007-08-07 08:49:35 · answer #6 · answered by destinyofangels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It definatly does affect your behavior...alot. See i messed up like that before and my grades went down the toilet. I think its great that you dont wanna mess up your grades. Also, dont listen to people, people will talk about you and other rude things dont pay attention to it so much and life will get by faster. Just Belive and do what you think is best
2007-08-07 08:53:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you really care what they call you? hey you are making a llife for yourself and you are so right wait untill you are done with schooling and then find someone or start dating. thta is the right way of doing it and you will find someone and not divorce in 2 years. good luck
2007-08-13 23:45:10 · answer #8 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just continue with your plan. it's all part of the "peer pressure" thing. it is very rare for a couple who met during their teen years that have ended up together in marriage. as for the guy, ignore him. as if he never existed. keep it up!
2007-08-07 08:51:18 · answer #9 · answered by kitty_in_distress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,if you don't want a boyfriend..don't get one. plain and simple..and other kids calling you a lesbian is immature. ignore it. tell the guy to leave you alone,and let it be at that. if he doesnt..you can always tell someone to do something about it.
2007-08-15 07:29:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it won't change your behavior. it will, though, change your lifestyle. I would disagree with you being boyfriends with that guy because you don't even like him. Have a boyfriend you like and make sure he understands that you love your studies and is willing for you to have time for him and have time for the books!
2007-08-07 09:05:10 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋