Family & Relationships - 7 August 2007

i am newly married & do not want children for 1 year for that what i have to do & i need clear explanation plz help me

2007-08-07 04:51:04 · 15 answers · asked by pkg_sriram 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when my wife gets dressed up and goes out with her sister(s) or her sister in law, even if I Know that she is a faithfull and respectful. But, I know that she attracts the view of men, shes is petite 5 2, 160 lbs, with a killer *** and beautiful face. WE've been married for 20 years, but I still kind of jealous, WHAT CAN IT BE OR HOW CAN I not Be Jealous.?

2007-08-07 04:50:32 · 13 answers · asked by margarito r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So I'll be divorsed tomorrow and my bro is throwing me a party to celebrate that I won't be married to a complete a**. So I met this guy and I know its wrong b/c I was still married and just separated, but I was wondering I think it would be tacky to bring him, but how do I tell him he isn't invited. He understands everything and has been really good about dealing with it all. I think he will be fine but I'm just not sure how to say it nicely. Or should I just bring him b/c I'll be single and just tell everyone that its our first date?

2007-08-07 04:50:10 · 9 answers · asked by Lovely Lady 27 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I dropped by my ex's game this weekend. He got a big smile on his face when he saw me. He kept touching my hand and just kept looking at me. He told me to call him the next time I am in town and that we would spend some time together. Then he said he would call me sometime this weekend. Well he called me that night to see if I got home okay and called me sweetheart. If I text him, he texts right back. Until this weekend we had not seen each other for 2 years because we live in different cities. We were friends before we ever dated. The reasons we broke up was because of things he was going through on his own at the time. Is he just trying to be my friend?

2007-08-07 04:50:10 · 13 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

Me and my Chap are both nearly 21 and we have been together on and off for 3 years. We had quite a hostile relationship to begin, and we used to argue alot. This would mean that i would end up going home to my Mums house in tears! and he gets jelous if i am talking to any other male friend that is not a mate of mine AND his! but i have got used to that now! Now that me and him are sorted and we are engaged she has totally shunned him out saying that 'he is no good for me' and that i deserve better! but i love him and we are both happy! I could understand her feeling like this if he beat me! she kicked me out and i have now got my own place with my best friend, she will come round and see me but only if she knows that he is not there! she has also turned my whole family against him, even my younger brothers!!
But my boyfriend doesnt want anything to do with her after everything that has been said so i cant even get them together to try and talk it out!! HELP PLEASE!!!

2007-08-07 04:48:51 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I let me girlfriend play my PS3 with me and I kept winning until I couldn't count. Should I leave her if she isn't good at video games?

2007-08-07 04:47:44 · 67 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You know the type.....very to the point monotone snotty type women. What kind of man finds that attractive?

2007-08-07 04:44:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Alright there is this guy i know his name is Travis and he lives in fitzgerald we use to talk on the phone a lot all of a sudden he don' t answer my phone calls talk to me on myspace and he never calls me anymore. I have tried really hard to talk to him. I really like him. I just don't know how or if i can get him to like me.

2007-08-07 04:44:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I threw him a b-day party at my house. Everyone was fine except his 28yr old dghtr & his 29yr old neice - his son (21) - ok. The neice's son got injured when him & my son collided playing football - even the nephew said it was an accident. However the daghtr & neice decided to inform my byf & guests that due to my son's behavior they just wanted to do cake & leave - so my byf came to me, said this and asked if I would please do the cake so they could leave. The next day I got very upset & told my byf that in no way was I going to accpet this as anything but an excuse because they didn't want to come to "my" house in the 1st place & my child was being USED as an excuse & it HURT! My byf agreed & apologized, but don't they owe me an apology - at a minimum to him - or am I way off base here. We've been together 10 mo now, but the "grown" up children won't stop manipulating him & he says he'll put his foot down - but has yet to do so. What now? I've told him our relationship is at risk.

2007-08-07 04:43:25 · 14 answers · asked by martiek7 3 in Marriage & Divorce

she broke up wih me yesterday and said we should just be friends after 2 months of a perfect relationship i dont know why but i cryed when she told me and i cryed this morning i keep thinking about everything we did together and we use to say we love each other soooo much but it seemed she didnt even care and we lost it to eachother how could she do this? when will i not care anymore that she broke up with me and u think she'll want me back im really depresses should i call her

2007-08-07 04:42:18 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just got a bf and ive been having doubts on it, due to a sticky situation im in and explained to him, tht if it ended the relationship then i'd understand, then he said *u shouldnt let ur mind get hold of ur heart, and we can make anything work* sweet . but then smthn puzzled me after tht he said *do u rlly think this is a relationship and do think we can make smthn out of it* and i said * i dont know ...i guess we have to see wat happens* then he answered back * gd..just wat i wanted to hear*...wat did he mean by tht ???

2007-08-07 04:41:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

done one, and if it was really happening or if someone moved it..do they relly contact the dead or is it just bull****??

2007-08-07 04:41:07 · 18 answers · asked by Yorkshire Gurlie ♥ 3 in Friends

it's vital.anyone answer me sooner and ofcourse compeletly.i definitly choose him

2007-08-07 04:39:34 · 15 answers · asked by david 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my husband for five years. We have one child and one on the way. Over the years we have basically turned into roomates and have no sparks left in our marriage. We have been through many things over the years, infidenlity on his part, him feeling inferior due to my salary from my job. What can I do to bring back that "spark" and make our marriage last?

2007-08-07 04:38:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I got a letter from the ex mom n law.. she wrote "I blame you because you have continued to allow him(her 38yr old son)to ignore the boys and not putting your foot down and asking that he be the father he is supposed to be. I know it's kind of a weird question to understand. But her son has very minimal connect with his 11 and 15 yr old. He appears once every 2-3 mths and just ends up upsetting the youngest. We live a mile away and he never returns the boys or my calls. So we quit calling him. Is it fair of her to blame me for anything another human chooses to do? Her son does not want to be involved in two fantastic kids lives? P.S. I'm debating how to approach replying...She has been a good part of our life. However now I'm having a hard time trusting her. Just looking for opinions. Thanks

2007-08-07 04:37:48 · 11 answers · asked by sc17carter 4 in Family

My husband used to have a bad porn habit. We got married and I decided that it needed to stop. I hate it. Since then, I've busted him numerous times watching it and I always got rid of the movies. He was going very well with it and I told him that I was proud of him for it yesterday. Last night, I catch him again.

I understand needing/wanting to spank the monkey, but does he really need to look at naked girls that aren't me while he does it?!? It makes me feel unattractive and not good enough for him.

I never confronted him about it last night... I was too tired to deal with it. What should I do? Should I talk to him about it or should I just let it go?

2007-08-07 04:36:05 · 51 answers · asked by TwinMommy 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I started talking to this guy on the internet, we were supposed to go on a date, but I pulled out at the last minute. He's continued to pursue me, not heavily, but does seem rather keen. I've just agreed to meet him after work, am I crazy? It's just we seemed to get along quite well over e-mail and I just though, sod it, might as well...

I'm 3 months out of a messy break-up and not looking for a man, I'm finally feeling happy with myself and happy to be single. But am a big believer in fate, and thought it could be a new friend, perhaps something more... Or I can just excuse myself after a drink can't I?

Please someone tell me I'm not mad... Arrrghhh!!

2007-08-07 04:34:03 · 21 answers · asked by rollacoasta 3 in Singles & Dating

I feel I am pretty laid back. I greq up with brothers so I am more less the girl next door. But when I am out at night on the weekends, guys seem to go more for the girls who are all made up with hair done and makeup and sleezy clothes. Which do the men prefer?? I am told i am very pretty, but I dont wear all that coverup and crap.

2007-08-07 04:33:05 · 17 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-07 04:26:49 · 18 answers · asked by bella-d46 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Well There is this guy online that i met and i don't know if he likes me but i like him alot wut do i do????do i tell him i like him or do i keep talkin to him as JUST A FRIEND?????

2007-08-07 04:24:37 · 22 answers · asked by no 1 1 in Singles & Dating

Im 18 and my girlfriend is 24

just wondering to see what people think of when they hear this

2007-08-07 04:21:38 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-07 04:18:39 · 20 answers · asked by yogi 1 in Weddings

Does anyone have values anymore??? Are there any guys out there that respect women, don't cheat, and aren't obsessed with porn???????

2007-08-07 04:18:03 · 10 answers · asked by pink 3 in Singles & Dating

i'm 18 and still a virgin. just havent met the "right person" yet... i myself don't have a problem with it, but what do guys think of it?

2007-08-07 04:17:36 · 37 answers · asked by katy 2 in Singles & Dating

we have been together for almost 8 years childhood sweethearts and I want him to be the person I am with forever I am 19 he is 21 and he says he doesnt want kids right now he wants to get his life figured out first. He is the type of person who plans I am very spontanious and I take everything as it comes. This is not the first time I have asked him about this. At times though he does make really good points such as I am still in college I need to finish that first. But I have a job I make 17.50 an hour and I am not 21 yet I take care of us in our 2 bedroom apartment. I don't get it I just want us to have a family together

2007-08-07 04:17:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-07 04:14:28 · 49 answers · asked by JJ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I dont know why but like ive always had this fantasy of bieng "raped" by a hot guy..so is this bad? I feel like it is wrong cuz so many girls get raped and i actualy want it!

2007-08-07 04:13:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's this girl I like who I talked with on Myspace and she thinks I am the one for her. We've talked for about two years and she thinks that we should take things up a notch. Problem is, we both live in different parts of California (She lives in San Diego, and I live in Orange County)......and she doesn't drive. So what should I do (The girl is 26).

I just got my car last week, but I can't drive on freeways yet. So, do you think I should wait on this and see how I'm doing with my driving? I told her about this situation, and she says it's cool. I texted her last night and told her maybe we could meet up somewhere in Sea World or Legoland (close to her place---since she lives in El Cajon). Do you think that's a good idea for us to wait on the relationship? She's a Piseces (however you spell it), so she never gets mad at little things. =)

2007-08-07 04:08:57 · 2 answers · asked by Jonathan 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi,

I been "chasing" this girl for about a half of year. I started to give up on her but then she started telling me she was having dreams about me and to continue whatever I was doing. She then turned very nice and started emailing me and contacting me often. After awhile... I thought she was in to me so I mentioned something about starting a relationship and she tells me with her situation, she can't be more than friends. She has a daughter.

Well anyways... ever since then.. she has turned bitter towards me and real mad.. although she still talks to me. Is it time to end the chase? Why would she be so mad at me for liking her?

When is it time to give up a chase for a women?

2007-08-07 04:08:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok well i am a band geek a 4.0 gpa i have goals, i am not bad looking (actually the little cartoon picture looks pretty close to me.....) and i am honest never cheated and i can always be trusted..... oh and i work out....(so i am not fat duh)

2007-08-07 04:07:28 · 7 answers · asked by Mik 2 in Singles & Dating